Advise: Need helping "seducing" mwf!! :)

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I am in process of redecorating (was never really decorated before! LOL)
She has experience doing that in england. So I asked her husband if she can help me decorate and he said sure! So I am supposed to pick her up this afternoon (she does not drive yet!) and go shopping for home stuff! Thanks to the person who sent pm with this GREAT idea!!! very smoooooth!! :)
 
I don't know about this, man. It just seems sketchy to me.

I do think that since she is recently married, that adds to the allure, but are you certain that if she leaves him that she'll stay with you in a LTR? What would keep her from kicking you to the curb if she found someone else attractive.

I hope you figure something out that works for you, I really do. But this whole scenario has me queasy.
 
The sad part about this whole situation is you don't respect the fact taht she is married to one of your friends. I know you folk have "just" met, but still, how can you say you respect her if you don't respect their marriage, your friend, her or even yourself, if you try to seduce her? Now if they approached you about the whole situation, that would be different. You are already disrespecting them, but dropping little hints and starting the ball rolling. I would just drop the whole situation, but it sounds like there is no way to reason with you. I just hope you thought the whole situation through.

And remember, this is something that alot of men and women forget about on this site as well as many other, not all white men have little cocks, he could be sportin' bigger wood than you.

So why don't you start thinking with your bigger head.
 
thanks for your input. yes I do have guilt about going behind his back that is why I m tryin hard to tap her with his consent :)

now if I knew there was no way its gonna happen then yes I will drop it.
but its those little signs that make me stick around. I have lent him a couple of IR porn movies to spice things up for him last weekend. he knew it was IR but took them anyway. he said the porn was wild when I asked him if they watched it, which could mean something or nothing at all. He did ask me if I had more ..

his wife helped me shop some furniture today and dayum!!

she is very friendly but I dont think she is the type that will go behind his back even if she wanted it. So it goes back to him like you some of you said ealrier (I know I am thinking with wrong head lol)

Thanks for advice
 
Give up on this dude cause he's gonna be a letch and a dog and try to hit it regardless.
 
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pimpology101 said:
Give up on this dude cause he's gonna be a letch and a dog and try to hit it regardless.

what was that pussy cat??? Can you read/speak english? As title says looking for ADVICE NOT moral lecture from someone with s/n pimpology!! lol

You are an idiot and most of your posts support that fact!
Your opinion is not needed.
 
I'm an idiot because I have morality and a code of ethics? You're looking to be told it's ok to fuck over a friend and, on top of that, you lack the game to even do it so you solicit "help." Get a fucking life and while you're at it, ROMEO, some idea of what friendship actually means. You're a fucking loser.
 
congrats to pimpo, he was just elected the morality police for this site. By the way .. pimpo loves to "arrange gangbang fuck fest for white women/couples".

Did I say he is the morality police? lol

Great job pimpo!! keep up the good work! lol
 
Guess what? No cheating women are allowed at my parties either. Being a swinger doesn't mean checking your ethics at the door, asshole.
 
oooookay pimpo .. just relax and take a deeeeeep breath and make sure you take your prozac pills lol
 
as long as you take your character building ones........
 
"I do not feel obliged to believe that the same God who has endowed us with sense, reason and intellect has intended us to forgo their use"--Galileo Galilei
 
pimpology101 said:
You seem to want permission to behave like a total ass and a shitty friend. Not gonna get it from me. And your argument about well if you saw her you'd understand or you dunno how hot she is doesn't carry a bit of weight with me. You don't think I see gorgeous married women every day (some of them wives or girlfriends of my own friends) who I'd love to bone?? I don't because of moral fiber. I use mine and put it to good use!

Wow.

A good man with an actual conscience?

On here?

:)
 
Hit on her

Blackstud,
Go ahead and hit on her. If you can seduce her and it's her own free will, maybe she can turn your friend to cuckoldery. If not, she could make a great fuck buddy. Those green-eyed English girls are hot!
 
Another sad bastard without an ounce or scintilla of scruples. No one has a clue what it takes or means to be a good and decent person anymore. All that matters is instant and self-gratification and damn everything or anyone else. How proud you must all be of yourselves. No wonder society is fucked up with people such as these in it.
 
Thank you, Habib, and yes, there are good people still out here in the world and they even swing!
 
pimpology101 said:
Another sad bastard without an ounce or scintilla of scruples. No one has a clue what it takes or means to be a good and decent person anymore. All that matters is instant and self-gratification and damn everything or anyone else. How proud you must all be of yourselves. No wonder society is fucked up with people such as these in it.

Not criticising, Pimp. I usually agree with you, as now. But how do you tell if a woman who shows up at one of your parties is adultrous?

I had an old friend who used to do threesomes with another woman and his wife. His wife was about 15 years younger than him-- kind of a Wynona Ryder, and I was always attracted to her. I think it was mutual. When I'd known her for about 10 years, him 15 or so, they invited me to their place over Christmas. They had lately been involved with the threesome woman, but had stopped with her. Well, I was getting signals from my friend's wife over the three days I was there, so, on the last night, we ended up having a threesome. She and I had great sex. He jacked off to us while we finished, and seemed to enjoy it. The next day, though, he was pissed. The relationship between us guys never really did recover after that. We maintained it, but it was pretty cool. It turned out that they'd discussed bringing a man in as fair to her. But it was too much for him as it turned out. She, he, and I don't talk much any more. After a few years, she decided she'd been too immoral when she was younger...
 
chopchop I m glad there is someone else on here that has some logic! :)

Not sure those lecturing us about morals where they coming from !! lol those who want to talk morals go to Sunday Church!!

I asked a simple question and I got lectured on morals which is funny consdiering the sexual nature of this website we are using lol

Yeah english girls with green eyes are dayum hot!! specially the shy type!!

Anyway, I think her husband got that curiousty going on now after I lent him some IR movies as someone has suggested on here. Tonight I gave him another movie a bit more hardcore! He never said what his wife thought of the movies. I am curious lol
 
I may not know if the women are married to the man their accompanied by but they are accompanied by a man who, from all indications, is their husband. Single women (or at least those claiming to be) attend alone.

Your situation was unfortunate but hardly uncommon. Many men who think they want to see another man fuck their wife often can't handle it. It's a bane of the lifestyle that has no place but unfortunately exists.

As far as blackdud and chopslop are concerned....they seem to think that bad behavior is a common thing among swingers but the reality is that it isn't. They give a bad name to an otherwise (usually) very fine sect of people. They don't like being called to task for being louses and lacking basic decency, figuring their owed a "get out of jail free card" on the charge of classless behavior merely because they are among swingers on an adult website. They fail to realize that swingers have standards, rules of conduct and a moral code just like most people and practice them accordingly.

How sad for the pathetic ones like these two that they just don't get it.
 
chopchop I m glad there is someone else on here that has some logic! :)

Not sure those lecturing us about morals where they coming from !! lol those who want to talk morals to Sunday Church!!

I asked a simple question and gotlectured on morals which is funny consdiering the website we are using lol

Yeah english girls with green eyes are dayum hot!! specially the shy type!!

Anyway, I think her husband got that curiousty going on now after I lent him some IR movies as someone has suggested on here. Tonight I gave him another movie a bit more hardcore! He never said what his wife thought of the movies. I am curious lol