pimpology101 said:
It's been said that I have driven a few people away from DC, including Neat & Petite. This may well be true, I don't know.
Oh its true Pimp. Just go to suckywanda's and you will see your name specifically as the reason many left here and joined there. Your making Mod was the last straw for many. I feel that in many cases (before you made Mod) you wanted many folks you felt were "undesirable" (didn't think like you) to leave this site and would attack their (legal) kinks until they either quit posting or left. I never thought that you had that right and you and I argued about it on several occasions. I had always blamed this site for not reining you in.
Unfortunately the die is cast and even though I try to convince people to give the site another chance, they seem to sense a phonyness here now about this whole new look attempt. Especially when, in their eyes, the biggest augmentative, flaming, attack dog of all is made SupMod.
Pimp, I firmly believe this. You are responsible for more people leaving this site since you have been here than any other single poster. Given time only XZPaw would have had a chance to drive more people away. I don't say that to insult you or to start one of our famous "vigorous discussions" but only to state what I perceive as a fact. A fact that I can back up if I want to spend the time to copy and paste all the statements of all the people on all the other sites who have admitted to the fact.
On the good side, you have indeed changed your ways. Not because you believe differently, but because you have to. People know that.
pimpology101 said:
I for one never believed Neat to be a female (and still don't).
Of course nothing is certain on the net and I could be wrong, but Cheryl being what she said she was is as close to certain as I can be. There is just a different way of expressing things between guys and gals. Many times she would write something and I would think "Only a woman would talk like that". Just for one instance, she once said that every time she saw a certain person's posts, it would depress her. Now how many men do you know use the word depressed to describe their emotional state? No man says "it depresses me". Thats a woman talking. We have had perhaps a couple of hundred posts and msgs to each other in the last 3 years and never once did I think to myself "Now thats a weird thing for a woman to say".
Besides Pimp, she admittedly never did anything. How many guys would go to all the trouble of being a phony woman on the net for 3 years and not phony up some IR situations that they were involved in? No Pimp, I believe that Cheryl is what she said she was. A middle forties housewife whose husband didn't know she had fantasies of young black males and whose daughter dated a black guy.
You didn't like her because she was good friends with ExpatDad and Robroy, two guys who you have driven into not posting here and you figured she must have the same fantasies and beliefs as them.
Bottom line is she is gone and I feel it a great loss to the site. She was a very sweet person who was never abusive to anybody and who just liked to come on here and check things out once in a while and dream. Whats wrong with that? Where is the rule that says people have to develop thick skins to stay on this site? She will be happier at suckywand's because you will never find an instance of someone being discourteous there. So I guess you both win.
Ironic isn't it Pimp that if someone joins this site these days with your exact beliefs and principles and is as adamant and abusive as you always were, you would have to ban him?
Great, now I'm depressed.
Norm