Are you a good hubby?

[Sevwin]

So as I've recently become a very willing cuck, I've noticed that I've become a little more helpful around the house. I clean a lot more, I cook her breakfast lunch and dinner whenever work allows for it and I let her pick what movies to watch. Normally I do these things just to be nice, but lately I've actually enjoyed doing them for her. It's almost like I get turned on by he fact I'm rewarding her for fucking other men.

So, do any of you guys (or your husbands as the case may be) experience this? Are you a better husband when you're cucked?

 

[dsmith3717]

So as I've recently become a very willing cuck, I've noticed that I've become a little more helpful around the house. I clean a lot more, I cook her breakfast lunch and dinner whenever work allows for it and I let her pick what movies to watch. Normally I do these things just to be nice, but lately I've actually enjoyed doing them for her. It's almost like I get turned on by he fact I'm rewarding her for fucking other men.

So, do any of you guys (or your husbands as the case may be) experience this? Are you a better husband when you're cucked?

This is a good topic. Actually, I have been better as of late. My wife is a hotwife, and when she's out working the load out of a new lover to bring back home for me, I reward her with making sure to do things like the dishes and clean, so she doesn't have to do them.

 

[far2easy]

I think a lot cucks end up being more attentive to their wive's needs. Less burden around the house frees her and her mind to do what she wants and you want. If you are into trying denial of her pussy, you will find that your helpfulness and emotional closeness will be even more heightened.

 

[duke9555]

of course you've become more womanly as
she becomes more assertive / your testosterone levels
have plummeted

 

[babyruthiezhubby]

Na, I'm still the same lazy bastard I've always been and Ruthie better not even touch my TV clicker.

 

[Sevwin]

of course you've become more womanly as
she becomes more assertive / your testosterone levels
have plummeted

yeah ... next step is to start taking depo provera once a month to reduce testosterone ... LOL! Eventually, your nuts will shrink to the size of raisins, your nutsack draw up close to your body, and your penis decresase to less than half its current size. Maybe then she'll hire you as maid service.

Haha no intention of it going anywhere near that far. And I'm not interested in looking, acting or being treated as a woman. I'm just a bit more helpful in return for her fulfilling one of my fantasies.

 

[jelous_of_wifes_bf]

Haha no intention of it going anywhere near that far. And I'm not interested in looking, acting or being treated as a woman. I'm just a bit more helpful in return for her fulfilling one of my fantasies.

And so it begins...

Yes, housework is definitely the domain of the cuck, particularly locked ones like me. Next you’ll be on to cooking meals, bringing them breakfast in bed etc. It’s not about behaving like a women, its about being subservient to your wife and her lover(s).

 

[cuckhub05]

Guys....

Just because Sevwin is being more helpful around the house deosn;t mean he wantto ,or is detined to become a sissy maid or subbservient to his wife and/or lovers... Not that there s anything wrong with that if that is what one is into..it's not my cup of tea,and I don;t think t is his either. His wife isn't orderinghim to do these things,or even expecting him to do them...he is just doing it to be nice,since . as he said, his wife is fulfillinghis fantasy by having sex with other men..Ther is abenefit in it for him too,in that if she spends less time doing housework,cooking, etc.she will be less tired and have more time to go out and get fucked. He said he enjoys doingthses things for her,voluntarily and without bing told or aske,and also it is a turn on for him to be "rewarding"" her for having sx with other men aand mkingim a cuckold.Ican completel y relate to that,as I have been doingthe same thing for years. not so much the housework,becasue we have cleaning people to do that ,but whenshe has date I will gladly mak dinner whilse she is getting ready for her lover and then do the dishes anand starightn up while she is upstairs gettting fucjked,or has gone out to meet one of her lovers.,and it is a turn on doingi so she can enjoy herself with other men..Of occurse , Ido plenty of "cleaning" too...of he rpussy after she gets fucked

 

[Sevwin]

Guys....

Just because Sevwin is being more helpful around the house deosn;t mean he wantto ,or is detined to become a sissy maid or subbservient to his wife and/or lovers... Not that there s anything wrong with that if that is what one is into..it's not my cup of tea,and I don;t think t is his either. His wife isn't orderinghim to do these things,or even expecting him to do them...he is just doing it to be nice,since . as he said, his wife is fulfillinghis fantasy by having sex with other men..Ther is abenefit in it for him too,in that if she spends less time doing housework,cooking, etc.she will be less tired and have more time to go out and get fucked. He said he enjoys doingthses things for her,voluntarily and without bing told or aske,and also it is a turn on for him to be "rewarding"" her for having sx with other men aand mkingim a cuckold.Ican completel y relate to that,as I have been doingthe same thing for years. not so much the housework,becasue we have cleaning people to do that ,but whenshe has date I will gladly mak dinner whilse she is getting ready for her lover and then do the dishes anand starightn up while she is upstairs gettting fucjked,or has gone out to meet one of her lovers.,and it is a turn on doingi so she can enjoy herself with other men..Of occurse , Ido plenty of "cleaning" too...of he rpussy after she gets fucked

Bingo! She seems so happy when she returns and I've actually done something useful. Before our new arrangement I was almost worthless at home and it was starting to bother her. Now I do a good chunk of the work and it makes her happy, and her being happy makes my life very fun!

The only thing I'm not sure about cleaning is her pussy. I just don't know if I could handle semen...

 

[cuckoldinpanties]

Na, I'm still the same lazy bastard I've always been and Ruthie better not even touch my TV clicker.

Pretty much describes me too. I couldn't even tell you the last dish I washed.

 

[jelous_of_wifes_bf]

Bingo! She seems so happy when she returns and I've actually done something useful. Before our new arrangement I was almost worthless at home and it was starting to bother her. Now I do a good chunk of the work and it makes her happy, and her being happy makes my life very fun!

The only thing I'm not sure about cleaning is her pussy. I just don't know if I could handle semen...

It's great that you're both happy!

Of course you could handle semen, just don't let any get in your eyes.

 

[rural]

I've been helping out with the dishes (after she cooks) and looking after the kids, its a good start.

 

[Atlopencpl]

I clean the house, I cook, do all the grocery and houshold shopping, pay all the bills and manage the finances.

She shops for slut clothes, chats with bulls and potential hook ups, works out with her trainer and dates black men.

A good division of labor don't you think?

 

[jelous_of_wifes_bf]

I clean the house, I cook, do all the grocery and houshold shopping, pay all the bills and manage the finances.

She shops for slut clothes, chats with bulls and potential hook ups, works out with her trainer and dates black men.

A good division of labor don't you think?

Exactly the way a cuckold house should work!

 

[babyruthiezhubby]

I'm pleased that everyone here seems to be happy with the roll reversal But I don't understand. Don't get me wrong I have no problem with a husband helping out around the house a little. I'm talking very little hahaha. Just joking.
can someone explain why just because a wife fucks other guys so many of you husbands here no longer want to be a man and slowly start willingly turning yourselves into a women. and why would a women want to be married to a man that's not a man anymore?.... A Women is married to a man that's more of a women and a man is married to a women that's more of a man... Did I get that right ? I'm soooo confused.

I'll bet you guys wish I would go away don't you hahaha. Not gonna happen!!! I seek only the truth. Are we talking fantasy or reality here? Am I looking at true comments from real people who actually want this kind of life or fantasy?
Not judging anyone . just looking for truth.

 

[Susan's Slave]

Susan and I have switched traditional roles several times during our 25 years of marriage. At this time I find it feeds my sissy fantasies to do all the chores traditionally defined as woman's work. Since I am retired and Susan is still working full time this also works for her. She gets a reasonably clean house and somewhat edible food and I get to feel subservient (although she does not always see me that way). Actually, I am better at keeping the house picked up and organized and she is better at the more serious cleaning, and I just made a batch of chocolate expresso waffles that were to die for!

 

[cuckhub05]

I'm pleased that everyone here seems to be happy with the roll reversal But I don't understand. Don't get me wrong I have no problem with a husband helping out around the house a little. I'm talking very little hahaha. Just joking.
can someone explain why just because a wife fucks other guys so many of you husbands here no longer want to be a man and slowly start willingly turning yourselves into a women. and why would a women want to be married to a man that's not a man anymore?.... A Women is married to a man that's more of a women and a man is married to a women that's more of a man... Did I get that right ? I'm soooo confused.

I'll bet you guys wish I would go away don't you hahaha. Not gonna happen!!! I seek only the truth. Are we talking fantasy or reality here? Am I looking at true comments from real people who actually want this kind of life or fantasy?
Not judging anyone . just looking for truth.

The "truth" is that there are really some husband's ,,like Susan's Slave, who do have a desire to be sissified and look at taking on the jobs of cooking and cleaning as a "role rversal" becasue it feeds this desire,while others, like Jealous of wife's bf liek to feel "subservient to thhier wives and her lovers, and there's nothing wrong with that if it makes them and thier wife happy. Just because you don't "understand" how they can get enjoyment from that because you enjoy being a more more macho "lazy bastard" is no reason to doubt their veracity and assume they are just fantasizing. Likewise, to say that "everyone here" who helps out with the housework annd cooking ,or even takes it over completely is "turning themselves into a woman is extremely judgemental and again assumes that anyone who doesn;t fit your definition of what a "real man" is..presumably one who sits around drinking beer and watching football...and would never consider doing "woman's work"(?) must be a sissy..which,of ocurse , is rediculous.In todays society where many many couples both work full time jobs they also share the housework,cooking, and even chidrearing duties.. and it has nothing to do with the husband becoming "womanly"... It just makes sense because they are saringthe duties of "bringing home the bacon" and expecting the wife to do all the cooking and cleaning etc on top of holding down a full time job would just not be fair or sensible. Most of us who help out around the house primarily becasue our wives are fucking other men are doing so for similar reasons..and have no desire to become womanly or subservient. It simply frees up more of our wives time which they can then devote to looking for, getting dressed up for ,and spreading thier legs for other men and is a way of being extra nice to them and showing them we really appreciate that they are cuckolding us. There is definitely the added turn on, for me , and ATLcuck and Sevwin and other cucks who do this , I'm sure of knowing that we are ,in effect. rewarding our wives for fucking other men ,which doesn;t make us feel like a woman,it makes us feel like a cuckold.

 

[jelous_of_wifes_bf]

I'm pleased that everyone here seems to be happy with the roll reversal But I don't understand. Don't get me wrong I have no problem with a husband helping out around the house a little. I'm talking very little hahaha. Just joking.
can someone explain why just because a wife fucks other guys so many of you husbands here no longer want to be a man and slowly start willingly turning yourselves into a women. and why would a women want to be married to a man that's not a man anymore?.... A Women is married to a man that's more of a women and a man is married to a women that's more of a man... Did I get that right ? I'm soooo confused.

I completely agree with cuckhub05's sentiments, I believe that the traditional 'man's role' and 'women's role' don't really apply anymore, thus housework duties etc are jobs that both partners should assist in, in all fairness. Having said that, the whole 'sissy husband' fetish thing often does involve behaving in ways that have traditionally been feminine and also wearing panties and make up and stuff, which I am not into, by the way.

I think that, with respect to you babyruthiezhubby, you'll probably always find it difficult to understand this particular fetish, it seems to be something your either get or don't get, depending on how you are wired upstairs. I find being dominated and humiliated exciting because I believe it's wrong, you aren't meant allow yourself to be treated in this way. The wrongness of it is, I don't know, it's sort of like a taking the forbidden fruit type excitement. Doing things you know are wrong often is exciting, examples of that are everywhere, some people find stealing things exciting for example.I hope this sheds some light on it for you, this is just how I see it, I don't know if it's the same for others.

I'll bet you guys wish I would go away don't you hahaha. Not gonna happen!!! I seek only the truth.

Not at all, disscussing these sorts of things is interesting.

Are we talking fantasy or reality here? Am I looking at true comments from real people who actually want this kind of life or fantasy?
Not judging anyone . just looking for truth.

I think you can be confident that you are dealing with real people who do indeed fantasize about this kind of life, there are other cuckold forums of course, as well as products on sale such as chastity devices, panties for men etc that you can buy. Whether or not comments you read on here are reports of things that have happened, or people indulging themselves in their fantasies, is I guess something you’ll have to make your own mind up on.

I personally like to think that I am dealing with others who experience a similar lifestyle to my own and so I don’t think too hard about whether these people are telling the truth. Truth, in general, is usually quite boring anyway.

 

[Jaxunman]

I just hate to see a particular kink or category being pushed on newbies coming to the board asking for advice. I can take or leave any behavior I don't find appealing. But many on the board try to push their particular kink or lifestyle actions as the only 'true way' of being a real cuckold. It surprises me to see the venom spewed toward Babyruthiezhubby for simply asking questions and telling of his own take on things.

 

[babyruthiezhubby]

I just hate to see a particular kink or category being pushed on newbies coming to the board asking for advice. I can take or leave any behavior I don't find appealing. But many on the board try to push their particular kink or lifestyle actions as the only 'true way' of being a real cuckold. It surprises me to see the venom spewed toward Babyruthiezhubby for simply asking questions and telling of his own take on things.

That's OK Jaxunman. I can see where my questions could maybe get a little irritating for some on here. I'm asking legitimate questions for the most part that I don't understand. I think one of the problems is that they're many definitions for the word cuckold and most here believe that their definition is the is the only true definition.
In the mainstream of society to be dominate is a male role and to be a sissy is a female role. So I naturally came to the conclusion that if a man wants to be sisified and impotent, not having sex with women but sucking his dominate wife's partners cocks it means he wants to be the woman in the relationship. Which in most circles would be called gay. Not an insult, just an observation.

The women however is totally different. She is dominate as in the traditional male role but still loves sex with men and I assume still loves being a women..... I'm just a regular guy who loves porn and loves to see my wife being a slut. I love making my own porn and see my wife fucked by a big black cock, although I have no desire to suck cocks , be dominted or sisified and my wife Ruthie has no desire to dominate me. We are just having fun and making hot movies.

So you can see my confused take on all of this. I've been called a cuckold because I enjoy my wife fucking other guys. I have no Idea if I am or not and I really don't care. Hell I've been called a pervert by some in my family. I'll except that definition of myself. I could care less. In my mind I'm just having fun, so people can call it anything they want as far as I'm concerned. I also notice there are many like me here as well. Are we cuckolds as well? or do we have to be dominated , humilated and sisified to to be considered part of the club? It's not an insult. it's a legitimate question

The thing that really confuses me is that many cuckolds will call themselves sissy, impotent, worthless men with tiny cocks. they are obsessed with sucking cocks, they say for their wives benefit. while many are no longer having sex with women at all. they not only allow themselves, but welcome being domesticated into the traditional female role..
I'm not saying these things to insult anyone. I have read all of that from men in the pages of cuckold.com.
Most wear a description like I've just described as badge of honor but are totally insulted to be termed as Gay. Which in the mainstream of society is what it would be called.. My Question is Why? Again not an insult, a legitimate question.

I understand men helping out around the house. Hell I do it too. Me and Ruthie both have fill time jobs. most people couldn't make without 2 incomes anymore. I was just trying to keep the discussion light hearted.

I personally don't care and have no I'll will towards anyone who is in a life style that they and their spouse find satisfying. No matter if it's bi, gay, cuckold, straight or sucking donkey dicks. I just have an inquisitive mind and up to now no one has been able to explain

I suppose I may never know. It's possible that most sissy cucks and dominate wives don't even understand it. It's just a feeling and a desire they have that they can't totally explain themselves. I guess I can understand that to a certain extent. Some have ask me at work and other places that have seen Ruthie's website. How can you stand watching 100s of other men fuck your wife. My answer, "Well I guess because it's hot" hahahaha. Not much of an answer is it.