Jaxunman said:
I just hate to see a particular kink or category being pushed on newbies coming to the board asking for advice. I can take or leave any behavior I don't find appealing. But many on the board try to push their particular kink or lifestyle actions as the only 'true way' of being a real cuckold. It surprises me to see the venom spewed toward Babyruthiezhubby for simply asking questions and telling of his own take on things.
That's OK Jaxunman. I can see where my questions could maybe get a little irritating for some on here. I'm asking legitimate questions for the most part that I don't understand. I think one of the problems is that they're many definitions for the word cuckold and most here believe that their definition is the is the only true definition.
In the mainstream of society to be dominate is a male role and to be a sissy is a female role. So I naturally came to the conclusion that if a man wants to be sisified and impotent, not having sex with women but sucking his dominate wife's partners cocks it means he wants to be the woman in the relationship. Which in most circles would be called gay. Not an insult, just an observation.
The women however is totally different. She is dominate as in the traditional male role but still loves sex with men and I assume still loves being a women..... I'm just a regular guy who loves porn and loves to see my wife being a slut. I love making my own porn and see my wife fucked by a big black cock, although I have no desire to suck cocks , be dominted or sisified and my wife Ruthie has no desire to dominate me. We are just having fun and making hot movies.
So you can see my confused take on all of this. I've been called a cuckold because I enjoy my wife fucking other guys. I have no Idea if I am or not and I really don't care. Hell I've been called a pervert by some in my family. I'll except that definition of myself. I could care less. In my mind I'm just having fun, so people can call it anything they want as far as I'm concerned. I also notice there are many like me here as well. Are we cuckolds as well? or do we have to be dominated , humilated and sisified to to be considered part of the club? It's not an insult. it's a legitimate question
The thing that really confuses me is that many cuckolds will call themselves sissy, impotent, worthless men with tiny cocks. they are obsessed with sucking cocks, they say for their wives benefit. while many are no longer having sex with women at all. they not only allow themselves, but welcome being domesticated into the traditional female role..
I'm not saying these things to insult anyone. I have read all of that from men in the pages of cuckold.com.
Most wear a description like I've just described as badge of honor but are totally insulted to be termed as Gay. Which in the mainstream of society is what it would be called.. My Question is Why? Again not an insult, a legitimate question.
I understand men helping out around the house. Hell I do it too. Me and Ruthie both have fill time jobs. most people couldn't make without 2 incomes anymore. I was just trying to keep the discussion light hearted.
I personally don't care and have no I'll will towards anyone who is in a life style that they and their spouse find satisfying. No matter if it's bi, gay, cuckold, straight or sucking donkey dicks. I just have an inquisitive mind and up to now no one has been able to explain
I suppose I may never know. It's possible that most sissy cucks and dominate wives don't even understand it. It's just a feeling and a desire they have that they can't totally explain themselves. I guess I can understand that to a certain extent. Some have ask me at work and other places that have seen Ruthie's website. How can you stand watching 100s of other men fuck your wife. My answer, "Well I guess because it's hot" hahahaha. Not much of an answer is it.