Not If She's Catholic - or Christian too.
I assume that you had no clue about her affairs until she told you. If this disclosure is due to her religious awakening, then subtlety is not the approach you should take. She is looking to put her life of sin behind her, and you must convincer her that doing it with your permission and at your request is not a sin.
Here is my advice. First, tell her that you appreciate her honesty, and that honesty is very important to a successful marriage. Second, tell her that you want to be honest with her, and tell her that you are turned on by the idea of her having extramarital affairs. This is when you should tell her how you would like the affairs to be handled, are you present or does she tell you about it afterwards, etc. Third, you must convince her that extramarital affairs with your permission and request is not a sin, and therefore it is compatible with her religion. Sex per se is not a sin, but clandestine extramarital sex is. Tell her that she would be doing it with your permission and at your request. Tell her that it would strengthen your love for her and the bonds of your marriage. I just hope that her new found religion is liberal.
Good luck.
Let's first do a Religion check on this gal .... Christians are not permitted to give into another's spouse. So, if you two are Christians, you'll have to handle it very differently than suggested herein.
If Catholic, you are pretty much fucked unless you follow my scripture. Masturbatiion, giving into others spouses, lusting after
anything, and adultery are all major no-nos (sins.) Your wife, being a soul returning to the flock will see you as encouraging her to remain on the "dark" side when she has - obviously - chosen the light. Suggesting that she return to her sinful ways, is spiting in the face of what she has embraced - she has now embraced the idea of living a prim and proper life with the end game of being one with all that is good and creative. You have to find another, more devious (sinful) way around good and proper. With Catholics it is usually catering to her masochist side. In short, make her pay for her sins. Remind her of her past failures in being a proper and dutiful wife for all these years. Pay attention to what she has been drawn to in the LIGHT. Ask her about her new instructions from her pastor .... like the devil that you are, use his words against her. Remind her always (as Mother Church reminds us all on a daily basis) that she is human and MUST fail, she has no choice but to give into the flesh and "ruin" everything. She will always be seduced by the dark men. She will always humiliate her husband. She is a sinner because she is who she is.
If she is Protestant, you need a bit of a different point of view. She will be saved no matter how sinful she is. It is just so human to fall short of God's eternal grace and His divine plan. And you too, you're a sinner as well. God's plan for you has been detoured by her adulterous ways. Tell her you want to share in her exploration for the Eternal One. Now that her actions have waylaid you from the path to your soul's salvation, you seek her guidance and offer your support for her own journey to God's Will. Let her know you too have sinned by finding pleasure in your mind and by fantasizing about her with others. You are trapped in her web of deceit and her failure to be God-like. But as a Protestant, Christ has saved you already! She can repent, you can repent and reveal all the (tasty) details to each other - over and over again ...then get down on your knees and repent again! If you're really creative, you will both be on your knees repenting before her lovers! Ask their forgiveness for your sins against their wills. Pray to them like some sissy praying to a dom mistress or money mistress. Pray for their understanding, repent to their sexual drives. Then you'll get to do it all over again as good Protestants when you get back into the sanctity of your bedroom.
And consider yourself a pioneer, a fore runner and path finder for mankind. You are so special and innovative because you are expressing your self absorbed sexuality! You are building the new religion that will certainly arise as the population expands and "our" life style catches hold. You must start today. Because much of what we see today as new perversions and we hear as hype for a new founded sexual expression is none other than that old man sin getting a grip on our society. And like-wise as in past history, other more stable and disciplined cultures (maybe Muslim) will step right in and crush all of us sissies. But for now, bring Satan into your life in an enjoyable manner as I suggested above and a new and better day will cum to you. A better cum will be yours; and you will see the light!
Amen.
Luck 2 u.
