Courage to Face Reality

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Just a thought, but have you ever considered either mc or individual counseling?

A therapist might be able to help you communicate to your wife, exactly what type of relationship that YOU would like to have with her?

Other than that, all anyone could suggest, would be joining a gym, to get your confidence levels up? Also might not be a bad time for a dr's appt, to get your testosterone levels checked?
 
On Counseling

I have been to counseling. About 6-7 years ago when I got laid off from a good staff job I went to counseling for two years. It was honestly pretty tough to deal with having my career languish while my wife continued to do very well.

I learned not to attach so much of who I am to a career, relax and love the things I have.
 
You must realize she hasn't been honest with you, she hasn't been
direct, she hasn't been faithful, she hasn't held your relationship
in high fidelity. She cracks jokes at your expense. Cowards die a
thousand deaths, Mr. Hers. And each is real and final. Eventually,
she will discard you once a Mister Master comes along. And she
will do it as calmly and professionally as she has been 'toying'
with you thus far. You see, that is the way for all cuckolds.