Ladynsniffer said:Lexxi, a lot of great information has been given to you to begin the process of cuckolding your husband. As you can see from these articles, it is a lot of work and it can be a very emotional process. It is good to note that you are young, no children, and you are sexually attracted to other men (very natural for you to feel this way).
I often tell couples who want this lifestyle to be careful. Fidelity is a goal of marriage for good reason. The potential for a break up is extremely high because of the emotions involved. Some men, who are actually good candidates for becoming a cuckold, will get so emotional when their wives are having sex with other men, that they leave the marriage just to calm down their jealousy/envy. They want these feelings but can't handle them. Another pitfall, the wife may "fall in love" with her lover and leave her husband. You cannot avoid this possibility!
You have decisions to make, especially because of the situation you are in right now. Are you willing to risk your marriage to gain sexual satisfaction from a lover?
Do not answer this question lightly. In my situation, my wife has cuckolded me from day one of our marriage. Watching (or hearing about) her have sex with a lover was thrilling and I never regret this lifestyle. But, over the past several years, she and her current lover have become very close and are now faithful to one another. He is at our home a lot. The sex between them is so powerful and intense, that my feelings of inadequacy-jealousy-envy are overpowering. It is difficult for even a very experienced cuckold like me to handle my feelings...but I would never give it up.
My wife is a cheater. She said so to me when we first got together. Cuckolding was the best solution for us. You may discover that cheating on your husband is the best solution if you want to experience sex with a well hung black lover without all the work involved in cuckolding your husband. This would simply be letting nature take its course with you and your lover. If you find out sex with a well endowed black man is to thrilling to give up...then cuckolding your husband becomes critical.
A less threatening way of cuckolding your husband is to suggest swinging. If he is truly cuckold material, then when the two of you go to a swingers' club, he is not likely to find a woman to have sex with him and you are very likely to find a man (and it could be set up with your current love interest).
Cuckolding is an awesome lifestyle. But, the intensity and emotions are high. When my wife is with her lover, she goes in to what we call "cock lust." And she is a very experienced cuckoldress! It takes a few days for her to calm down from cock lust. I never thought she could be so "high" on sex with any one particular man. But, she is and I adore her for it.
Just my thoughts. Good luck!
marcus
First of all, let me agree. A LOT of great information has been given to me, and I appreciate it very much.
I do realize that the risk here is tremendous. That's why I'm so torn about all of this.
You say your wife was a cheater, and suggested that I may want to do the same thing...that it may be the best solution. I think it might be the EASIEST solution, but that's just not me. I couldn't do this behind my hubbys back.
I also couldn't suggest swinging. I want to him to know that his being with another woman is totally unacceptable.