There is no one way to dress which is right for everybody. Depends on your demeanor, body type, everything.
I grew up around Latin women who would wear shiny skin-tight pants and a skimpy blouse if they wanted to convey a "Come Fuck Me" message.
I have seen blonde types wear a frilly blouse and Daisy Duke style cut-offs and they look exactly like the innocent girl next door. Other women can wear the same outfit and look like real whores. It is all very individual.
If I wear a little black dress, heels and stockings, I tend to come off like a slut. Other women look elegant.
When I got divorced at 29 and began to suspect I was not the "good girl" I had been raised to be, I had a neighbor who taught me a lot about becoming my real self. Classic "slut nurse," early 40s, long blonde hair, big blue eyes, kind of chunky. With her big butt she would have looked horrible in the kind of slinky black dress that looks good on me. She would go to bars in a tee-shirt with no bra and a little denim dress so short you could see her panties whenever she was sitting down. Simple clothes? Yes. But no one had any doubt she was on the prowl for prick.
Funny memory. She used to say, "A woman with visible underwear never has to pay for her own drinks."
Now that I have learned to "become myself," I can say that she was right about that.
Experiment. What makes you look cute but at the same time says, "I'm available." That's what you should wear.
Maria Pike