As a follow up to the experience that I posted about above; years after that experience, my than wife connected with my than boss. While my co-workers were aware that I was married, they did not know what my wife looked like. Before I knew that they were doing more than simply talking on occasion; when I come back from a job site, my coworkers were talking openly about a hot woman that come to pick up our boss for lunch. So as you can imagine, I was interested to see whom our boss had gone out with since he had been divorced and single for a while. It took me by surprise when I seen that it was actually my than wife. They kissed in the lobby before she went back to her car and he went into his office. Later that afternoon, he was talk to loud to some of the guys near by cube about this amazing woman that he had been dating although they had kissed and she had given him head in his office before; he had not yet hit a home run yet. Near the end of that work day, I received a message from my than wife, said that she wanted me to meet her after work (happy hour at a local sports bar near the office); she went on to say in the message that we needed to talk and she wanted to introduce me to the man that she wanted to be her next lover.
So that evening, we did meet for drinks and apps... She always knew that she could select her lovers and no matter what she would have the final say even if I disapproved. To gloss over it; during the talk it come up that that man was my than boss and that before anything could go any further, my boss wanted to here it from me, that I was good with them developing a more intimate relationship and it would not stop at simply recreational sex; it would be a full blown affair. He said for this to work out without any issues, I had to do the following (1) remove all images of my wife from my work space, (2) moving forward she would be his girlfriend and would be introduced as such at the work place and at professional socials. My than wife, affirmed at the meeting that this is what she wanted, so I went along with it.
<fast forward> I did remove all of her images from my work space and they did have an open intimate relationship, to the point were they acted like a couple, he would attend family events with her parents (my in-laws), she attended a more then a few business socials with him, over time she moved a good mount of clothing into his home as she split her time between our home and his house, the home they were sharing together. At his direction, she did cut me off from intercourse for a good bit of their relationship.
Some of our coworkers were taking about how our boss would have his girlfriend come to the office to give sex in his office and even in our conference room after hours. A coworker had caught and recoreded them on a hidden webcam that he had put into the conference room.