Advice and thoughts would be appreciated.
My wife and I are taking our first steps in the scene and as her first date approaches this Saturday an unexpected emotional reaction popped out yesterday.
My wife's meeting an old friend who we both know and trust. We're all in a group chat and conversation has been flowing well between everyone throughout. Until yesterday. He posted a few statements that 'put me in my place' and basically 'shut me up', practically excluding me from the conversation from this point on.
My reaction, though not posted (neither I nor my wife have responded yet) hacked me off, a lot. I've talked to my wife about it and come to the conclusion that this massive shift in the dynamic is him asserting dominance over the situation, and my reaction may simply be a response to my role changing from an equal partner on the group/conversation and though it jarred against my otherwise dominant nature, its possibly/probably a normal part of a new and emerging hotwife and cuckold relationship.
Course, it might be a red flag of a sittuation developing between us that could open irrecoverable issues, which we'd clearly loke and need to avoid, but today, and now the moment has settled I can see that it could instead just be a normal and natural response.
Prior to this incident, everything has been a headdy mix of excitement and heart attack inducing anxiety and I'm just reaching out to ask others experiences if this kind of incident/emotional experience is typical or if it is a red flag that we might want to watch or discuss.
Thanks for taking time to read and for any responses.
My wife and I are taking our first steps in the scene and as her first date approaches this Saturday an unexpected emotional reaction popped out yesterday.
My wife's meeting an old friend who we both know and trust. We're all in a group chat and conversation has been flowing well between everyone throughout. Until yesterday. He posted a few statements that 'put me in my place' and basically 'shut me up', practically excluding me from the conversation from this point on.
My reaction, though not posted (neither I nor my wife have responded yet) hacked me off, a lot. I've talked to my wife about it and come to the conclusion that this massive shift in the dynamic is him asserting dominance over the situation, and my reaction may simply be a response to my role changing from an equal partner on the group/conversation and though it jarred against my otherwise dominant nature, its possibly/probably a normal part of a new and emerging hotwife and cuckold relationship.
Course, it might be a red flag of a sittuation developing between us that could open irrecoverable issues, which we'd clearly loke and need to avoid, but today, and now the moment has settled I can see that it could instead just be a normal and natural response.
Prior to this incident, everything has been a headdy mix of excitement and heart attack inducing anxiety and I'm just reaching out to ask others experiences if this kind of incident/emotional experience is typical or if it is a red flag that we might want to watch or discuss.
Thanks for taking time to read and for any responses.