I want to be cuckolded

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Hello,

This is the confession area, so I thought I would confess. The thought of being cuckolded really turns me on. It started in a previous relationship when I found out from one of her concerned girlfriends that she was having sex with other men. I found it immediately humiliating, but it turned me on too, especially as she had cut me down to just sex once a month.....and the specifics of those sexual sessions just reinforced my thoughts. She always claimed to be dry when we had sex (even though she would never go without panties for me because she said she was always "leaking"), so I started using lube on my cock. Well, I started using more and more lube so that I felt less and less friction, which ironically made me cum even faster. Also, when we got started, she would have me push my dick between her legs and just squeeze it, I am assuming to get off, before she let me in her.

I want my current wife to cuckold me, any thoughts?
 
I have only been married once before, the first woman I talked about, and no, it wasn't due to the infidelity....it was because she didn't want children. The infidelity issues I never confronted her about.
 
So this is your second marriage, I presume?
 
Yes, it is my second marriage.
 
Going back to Macnfries questions, with my first wife, it all started soon after I proposed. She started reducing the amount of sex we had almost immediately. Partly that was due to her having endometriosis, but even after that was taken care of, she kept cutting down on the sex. Around the time we got married it was down to about once every two weeks. At the wedding I got another humiliation. After the opening dance, I never danced with her again unless it was a group dance. When she danced as a couple, it was with the other guys at the wedding. When I complained, she said she was trying to “circulate”. It really bothered me and made me a bit angry, but part of me did respond to seeing her dance with other guys in her wedding dress. Even though looking back on it I recognize the feelings, I don’t think I really knew what I was thinking at the time.
 
miniaquifer said:
Going back to Macnfries questions, with my first wife, it all started soon after I proposed. She started reducing the amount of sex we had almost immediately. Partly that was due to her having endometriosis, but even after that was taken care of, she kept cutting down on the sex. Around the time we got married it was down to about once every two weeks. At the wedding I got another humiliation. After the opening dance, I never danced with her again unless it was a group dance. When she danced as a couple, it was with the other guys at the wedding. When I complained, she said she was trying to “circulate”. It really bothered me and made me a bit angry, but part of me did respond to seeing her dance with other guys in her wedding dress. Even though looking back on it I recognize the feelings, I don’t think I really knew what I was thinking at the time.
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Speaking of dinner, We went to a wedding dinner once of her cousin. My wife was twitching around and I asked her what is it. She told me she wanted to go dance and I let her go. The dance floor was packed and guys swarmed around her with my eye caught one or two guys grabbing her buttocks while she giggled.

When the music was over, she went back to me with a satisfied smile. I told her if the next music was played, she can go at it again. She told me that I looked like I could pass out of jealousy! :D
 
MacNfries said:
Along with the other many emotions I went through, however, I do recall masturbating over the thoughts of each of them fucking other men. At the time I didn't even know about cuckolding. And even now, I wouldn't want to go through "true cuckolding" again, but yet, HERE I AM ... at a cuckold website. It really just doesn't make sense to me. Maybe something way down deep inside my brain wants it.

Cuckolding has grown quite rapidly in popularity over the past 3-4 years with the internet and women gaining their sexual liberation. Most is fantasy play; however, when guys introduce their women to steak when they've only been use to hotdogs, a lot of them don't want to give that up once the cuckolding fantasy gets old to the guy. So I always like to encourage guys to play WITH their women in this fantasy, not send them out on their own to cheat; not if they care anything at all about their relationship. Mac:)
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Thanks for the warning, but, like you, I can't seem to get the thought out of my mind. I am still mildly obsessed with my ex and often think about her fucking other men while we were married, especially the three I found out about and knew. All three of them hung around at some point or another, and it was always going through my head how I was being so polite to the guys who were fucking my wife behind my back. I even ended up giving them chances to be alone together. All this while I was only getting sex once a month, and quite frankly, it didn't last very long. Looking back on my relationship, it is much clearer now the intentional steps my Ex took......but while I find it humiliating, I also find I often jack off thinking about it too.
 
True cuckolding is nasty but a certain degree of it should be fine, I guess.

As for your ex, just forget about her. My wife has three boyfriends before me and I sometimes get hard on or jack off myself when I imagine what they might have did with her before.
 
Well, if not true, does anyone have any other suggestions on how to proceed? Let me know, I'll be happy to fill you in on my current relationship if that helps.
 
Try discussing about it, but don't be argumentative or confrontational about it (some one gave me this advise earlier). If she slowly reveals the details, then up to you to proceed from there.

If she keeps quiet, I mean dead quiet, or suddenly becomes defensive, don't push your luck. My wife almost went ballistic once when I made some unkind remarks about her boss and then fell really silent. I know I had hit a nerve there and did not continue.

It takes time, really.
 
Thanks!

Waht about things I could do indirectly, things to discreetly encourage her to start thinking that way based on my actions?
 
That would be great, too.

Before my wife dropped her bombshell, she always wanted to get back in shape after our second child and rave about this on and on. So I did what I could to support her.

1. When she wanted to go to this slimming center to get rid off those extra fat, I encouraged her, even gave her some money. After every session, I would compliment her on her improvements and remind her not to overdo on the dieting because it may affect her health.

2. When she wanted to buy new fancy clothes, I encouraged her and even gave some money. My wife bought several new fancy clothes and even lingerie without me knowing it until I saw our wardrobe. Instead of berating on why the hell she bought those clothes, I kept quiet and when appropriate, tell Ann that she must be pretty with those clothes. E.g. There was once she bought this tight, bright red football vest (which really hugged her figure) and when I arrived home, the first thing I said was "Wow, dear, you look really cute and young in that new shirt. And don't think I'm being sarcastic about it. You really do."

3. Try to help out with the household and be understanding. When my wife comes back from her shift work and too tired to cook, I would tell her that I don't mind at all and I can cook my own meals. I would remind her several times and even added that she is my wife, not some maid or slave.

4. If she dresses up all sexy, try to compliment like "Honey, I can tell you that there is no production at work if you go to work like dressed up like that but I like it very much" or "Honey, did you notice that the guys on the street are ogling you dressed up like that, wow, I was so excited to see the looks on their faces" or something along that line.

5. If during your usual conversation she would say "Honey, I heard the guys talking about how sexy I'm at work and one of them wants to finish me off at the hotel" or "The postman came by and he gave me this weird look all over me", tell her its a splendid thing that other men find her attractive. If she asks how you feel, just admit that you are naturally jealous but very much excited by it.

Look, I do not guarantee any of the above will work but it takes time, really.
 
Mac is quite right---"what is happening is men are losing any control they ever had with their women." And furthermore, women are turning the table on men and in many cases are controlling men. This is not to say that women's control of men is brand new. In fact, men have always been controlled by women--- but much more covertly. I must say though that present day womens control of men for their own gain and pleasure has the same social, ethical and moral baggage as when men once did this to women. Two wrongs never make a right.
 
CuckoldMick said:
Mac is quite right---"what is happening is men are losing any control they ever had with their women." And furthermore, women are turning the table on men and in many cases are controlling men. This is not to say that women's control of men is brand new. In fact, men have always been controlled by women--- but much more covertly. I must say though that present day womens control of men for their own gain and pleasure has the same social, ethical and moral baggage as when men once did this to women. Two wrongs never make a right.
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also two Wongs don't make a white :eek:
 
Yes, we need some extra details.
 
OK, here are some more details. I am not quite sure where to go, so I will post what I can and let your questions direct me further. By the way, yes, I am still somewhat obsessed with my Ex, but I mainly wanted to give some background as to what got me consciously into thinking about cuckolding. There are still more details, but for now I will focus on my currnet wife.

OK, I am 42, and my current wife is 36. I think we have as healthy a relationship as anyone, we talk and get along, etc. She is the youngest of three sisters, and all three of them are very assertive and can be quite blunt, my wife included. She tends to be the boss in the household. No, my wife is not into porn, but I think it is a thing with porn itself because in other ways she is very blunt and sexual. She is into sports and likes the UFC and football players the most, I know she is attracted to them. To give you an idea of how frank she can be, I know all about her sisters’ bodies, what they look like naked – she goes to great lengths to describe them, their sex lives, how her middle sister almost never wears panties, etc. I also know a fair amount about my two brothers in law regarding the size of their genitals, and she keeps me up on sex shenanigans at work, etc. She likes pointing out both men and women that she finds attractive. She also had made no secret that she had several boyfriends prior to our hooking up and still keeps several momentos from some of them around the house. She likes finding and watching things like the Visanthe Shiancoe and Cooley accidental exposures, the football players.

She dresses very sexy but professionally. As I said before, she has commented about her maile and female coworkers sexually, nothing overly crude, but she has let me know which ones she finds attractive and not, etc. I know that she likes being looked at, and she is aware of her assets. Sometimes when we go out to dinner or if she goes out with male clients, she will often go without a bra. As she has very large prominent nipples, it is obvious that she knows they will be noticed. I have gotten her to go without panties on occasion, but it is a fairly rare thing. I think we have a healthy sex life, although lately we are only having sex about once every two weeks. We split about 50/50 with me or her on top. I know that if she is a little tipsy, she gets a lot more aggressive sexually and likes to finger me during sex. Currently, I will usually get her off during foreplay and then I will cum during sex. Many times she pulls her legs back and grabs my back and tries to pull me in as close as she can during sex. She does have a large 8” thick dildo I bought her. I know she uses it although she doesn’t in front of me. She keeps it in a little chest of drawers in the bathroom next to the bathtub.

Some things she does which make me feel that she may be interested in this. I wear mostly briefs, and she always refers to my briefs as panties. Several times she has made references to my “little guy”, although it is usually off-hand and most times she will catch herself and try to qualify it. I went through a brief period where I was unable to keep an erection, and, although that problem has gone away, I find that I am so anxious about it that I now don’t last very long at all, and I know that if I haven’t gotten her off beforehand, it isn’t likely that she reaches orgasm by the time I go soft.

Hope that helps.
 
Oops! forgot a few things. We have been together 7 years and we enjoy sports events together, bike riding, hiking, the outdoors, coffee and talking, wine, etc etc. She is sexually adventurous in terms of trying things, but not so much into like roleplaying or anything like that.
 
Ever tried introducing her to any of your sports events buddies? Or them to your wife?
 
yes, a few of them. I always make sure to say how hot she is and I have commented when other guys check her out and told her about it.
 
What does she say about their comments? Every try to give her their number or the other way around?

Or maybe you call one of them and then pass the phone to her?
 
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