First off, my respect and prayers to all the fallen officers, thier surviving family members and the officers who continue to keep our neighborhoods safe. We just got back from the National Law Enforcement Memorial in DC. Jess's new friend is a retired cop and goes to the memorial every year and invited us to come with him. It was my first time ever attending the memorial and it was very deep.
Just some updates...Jess' friend is also married. When they exchanged numbers he hinted to Jess that he was married and that me may not always be able to talk or hang out. Jess took the hint and told him that she was married too. He asked her if she had marriage problems and she told him that she was happily married and from time to time saw other people. He jokingly asked if saw other people with or without her husband's knowledge and she told him about our arrangement/lifestyle and his eyes opened wide.
He sees other women but without his wife's knowledge. He told Jess that he has flings from time to time but does not want a relationship, he has no intention of leaving his wife. He just loves women too much and can't help himself, and he and his wife have had a dry spell for a while now.
On Thursday, he told my wife he wanted to go to the police memorial in washington DC but hated making the 5+ hour drive alone, his wife used to go with him the first few years but doesn't want to go anymore. He invited her to go with him. She accepted on the condition that I was allowed to go too. He again asked her to confirm that I would be ok with her accepting his invitation and being his "date."
We made arrangements for my mother-in-law to take our kids to school and pick them up and left for DC. He picked us up and we took turns driving.
Just some updates...Jess' friend is also married. When they exchanged numbers he hinted to Jess that he was married and that me may not always be able to talk or hang out. Jess took the hint and told him that she was married too. He asked her if she had marriage problems and she told him that she was happily married and from time to time saw other people. He jokingly asked if saw other people with or without her husband's knowledge and she told him about our arrangement/lifestyle and his eyes opened wide.
He sees other women but without his wife's knowledge. He told Jess that he has flings from time to time but does not want a relationship, he has no intention of leaving his wife. He just loves women too much and can't help himself, and he and his wife have had a dry spell for a while now.
On Thursday, he told my wife he wanted to go to the police memorial in washington DC but hated making the 5+ hour drive alone, his wife used to go with him the first few years but doesn't want to go anymore. He invited her to go with him. She accepted on the condition that I was allowed to go too. He again asked her to confirm that I would be ok with her accepting his invitation and being his "date."
We made arrangements for my mother-in-law to take our kids to school and pick them up and left for DC. He picked us up and we took turns driving.