Is 'cuckold' the right term for us?
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My wife and I are in a cuckold/Hotwife relationship that suits us fine, and really has little to do with humiliation. It is about giving up power and placing it in her hands. Sexually, I am an ultra submissive, so as such, feel that it is best for her to control our sexuality. I leave it to her to determine when, how, and with whom she has sex and the same for me. I should also add that we are polyamorous, which adds another layer to this sexual sandwich. My Goddess needs more than a cock to get her off. she needs emotional stimulation, so while she likes the fuck buddies and one-offs for periodic release, she wants to keep a constant "Spare Someone" at all times who is conversationally stimulating as well as being able to satisfy her sexually.
Our overall sexuality doesnt involve substantial humiliation, I don't have a small cock, and I don't dress in women's clothing. While she does emply some light humiliation tactics, it is to keep me in my place, and is only between us and her lovers. From everything that I have read, I believe to be a cuckold, and my wife to be a HotWife, even though the definitions (Which I don't totally agree with) don't exactly apply. I found an excellent read for both cuckolds and hotwives called "Insatiable Wives - Women who stray and the men who love them". It explains a lot about the dynamics of these types of sexual relationships. I stroungly suggest it for those in the H/c lifestyle, and struggling to make sense of it all.
Our overall sexuality doesnt involve substantial humiliation, I don't have a small cock, and I don't dress in women's clothing. While she does emply some light humiliation tactics, it is to keep me in my place, and is only between us and her lovers. From everything that I have read, I believe to be a cuckold, and my wife to be a HotWife, even though the definitions (Which I don't totally agree with) don't exactly apply. I found an excellent read for both cuckolds and hotwives called "Insatiable Wives - Women who stray and the men who love them". It explains a lot about the dynamics of these types of sexual relationships. I stroungly suggest it for those in the H/c lifestyle, and struggling to make sense of it all.
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Ya dun sed it all aint much i kin ad to dat.
MacNfries said:This is becoming a " BITCHING HOT" thread on a "HEAVY" conversation we're having here on such a simple word. This is real "COOL" ...
Speaking of misuse of words ... the ones that drive me insane are the constant usage of the words have & got in the same sentence ... "I have got a hot wife" ... what a corruption of words, as their meanings are so different and should never be used together.
"I have a hot wife, and I got her a date." ...
Ya dun sed it all aint much i kin ad to dat.
As long a wife is getting adequate social and sexual encounters, it doesn't really matter too much what hubby calls himself, or whether he wears panties, enjoys chastity, CBT, BDSM, sucks the Bull, or lets the Bull pound his ass or spank him.
It is all about a woman having a great sex life - and ideally, hubby should feel excited she is. It is silly to have a pussy and not share it around to help other men who are not getting enough sex. Hubby can't fuck her every minute of the day, so she might as well not leave it idle for long periods of time when she can be eye candy and a good Samaraton to other men.
A true cuckold only has sex with his wife, he doesn't swing with other women at swinging groups. He is 100% devoted to her needs, he is secondary in all things.
A cuck has only a certain amount of sperm he can manufacture in a week, so his wife can decide how much she wants in her vagina, and how often he is allowed to masturbate the rest into the waste disposer - or over her titties.
Hot wifing is wife-swopping, something that makes some marriages a lot more exciting, particularly where a couple have limited experience of sex before marriage. A wife can become a lot more adventurous when she enjoys a variety of men who are eager to teach her new ways, other than missionary.
Hubby benefits from his wife becoming hotter and hotter as she lets go of "text book beliefs" that have given her a boring routine in bed.
A wife can often throw out her depression pills if she starts letting men enjoy her body. It is an uplifting feeling to know that men are lusting to get in your panties - and you husband is 387% keen for them to get their chance while he watches and "learns how to be a better man".
A CUNT is an alpha husband that can't handle other lovers circling his wife. Okay, he got a trophy wife, so he has to expect some takeover offers, because he can't watch his wife 24/7. If she is horny, other men will try their luck, even if they wait for a moment when she is feeling her husband is too controlling (and not understanding her primal needs).
It is all about a woman having a great sex life - and ideally, hubby should feel excited she is. It is silly to have a pussy and not share it around to help other men who are not getting enough sex. Hubby can't fuck her every minute of the day, so she might as well not leave it idle for long periods of time when she can be eye candy and a good Samaraton to other men.
A true cuckold only has sex with his wife, he doesn't swing with other women at swinging groups. He is 100% devoted to her needs, he is secondary in all things.
A cuck has only a certain amount of sperm he can manufacture in a week, so his wife can decide how much she wants in her vagina, and how often he is allowed to masturbate the rest into the waste disposer - or over her titties.
Hot wifing is wife-swopping, something that makes some marriages a lot more exciting, particularly where a couple have limited experience of sex before marriage. A wife can become a lot more adventurous when she enjoys a variety of men who are eager to teach her new ways, other than missionary.
Hubby benefits from his wife becoming hotter and hotter as she lets go of "text book beliefs" that have given her a boring routine in bed.
A wife can often throw out her depression pills if she starts letting men enjoy her body. It is an uplifting feeling to know that men are lusting to get in your panties - and you husband is 387% keen for them to get their chance while he watches and "learns how to be a better man".
A CUNT is an alpha husband that can't handle other lovers circling his wife. Okay, he got a trophy wife, so he has to expect some takeover offers, because he can't watch his wife 24/7. If she is horny, other men will try their luck, even if they wait for a moment when she is feeling her husband is too controlling (and not understanding her primal needs).
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Hmmm...
The op's got a strange username considering his style of being cucked. That name's more fitting for a true sub, rather than the husband of a hotwife. I guess it could be his wife who's getting degraded and such, but it doesn't seem this way either from his description.
Btw, sorry MacNfries, but I just had to use "the op's got" instead of "the op has" despite its grammatical incorrectness. Actually I wonder if it really is grammatically incorrect. Let's say I won a game. I can say "I've won", or I can say "I won", or I can even say "I win". In the op's case, he had to get the username in order to have the username. Therefore can't one choose to use either "he has" or "he has got(ten)"? (either got or gotten can be used as the past participle of get)
The op's got a strange username considering his style of being cucked. That name's more fitting for a true sub, rather than the husband of a hotwife. I guess it could be his wife who's getting degraded and such, but it doesn't seem this way either from his description.
Btw, sorry MacNfries, but I just had to use "the op's got" instead of "the op has" despite its grammatical incorrectness. Actually I wonder if it really is grammatically incorrect. Let's say I won a game. I can say "I've won", or I can say "I won", or I can even say "I win". In the op's case, he had to get the username in order to have the username. Therefore can't one choose to use either "he has" or "he has got(ten)"? (either got or gotten can be used as the past participle of get)
Buggalee said:
Yeah, I know. It's a holdover from days where our kink was D/s with me as Dom. Which we still engage in from time to time, and I spend a lot of my online porn energy on that particular kink, so it's still an interest and not entirely un-fitting anymore, but mostly I keep using the username because I'm used to it and don't want to bother remembering another one.
Wow, a bit of a rollercoaster last night.
Initially we were going to be seeing a couple with the possibility of having some fun with them. But circumstances changed, and my wife was going to go see them by herself. Would have been the first time either of us had been off on our own with someone else. Was really excited about it.
But then circumstances changed again, we both went out, but timing didn't work out and nothing happened with the couple.
But we did come home and have some mind blowing sex, so all was not lost.
Initially we were going to be seeing a couple with the possibility of having some fun with them. But circumstances changed, and my wife was going to go see them by herself. Would have been the first time either of us had been off on our own with someone else. Was really excited about it.
But then circumstances changed again, we both went out, but timing didn't work out and nothing happened with the couple.
But we did come home and have some mind blowing sex, so all was not lost.
