Fantasycuck,
Regarding your question:
See my post #52 of 19 April 2011, 10:41 PM, with "An infidelity conjecture... your comments?"* on the subject line, here:
http://www.cuckolds.com/forums/general-cuckoldry/22073-psychology-cuckold-6.html
It's in the thread initiated by Doc in Cleveland that has "Psychology of a Cuckold" on the subject line.
[*Doc in Cleveland did not comment on my conjecture. That may mean he agrees but did not want to appear to be "certifying" my view because it isn't accepted (nor perhaps even recognized) in the "psychological community," or perhaps it means he doesn't agree but did not want to seem antagonistic (which would not have bothered me), or alternatively it may mean _____________ (fill in the blank).]
—Custer
I read your old post with great interest.
My wife was always horny since age 13. She is one of those that grew up masturbating 24/7 and was naked in her bedroom at night looking at herself in the mirror. At age 15 she had oral sex many times with a 35 year old man.
My wife tells me she was wet 24/7 as a young teenager. On top of that she was insecure and craved external validation by men.
If she had a sex drive of 10 I suppose I was a 7. However, one of her first cuckolding activities was with a man that had a very small penis. I verified this because OM called himself “tiny, but playful” in his emails to my wife.
The OM was short and earned less than I did. OM was an old classmate from HS to whom my wife gave no attention when they were both young. However, OM was extremely smooth and set up an admiration and adoration pattern that my wife simply could not resist. Furthermore, OM lived 2000 miles and they only met for sex sporadically.
Despite his shortcomings the OM had something I could not offer my wife. He was NEW MEAT and I was the SAME OLD DISH.
I think variety is huge in both cheating and cuckolding.
My story is unique because one of the men my wife fucked had a tiny penis. I guess that makes it more humiliating.
BTW, when she was cuckolding me with this guy she would tell me how she fucked him and at this time I thought she was role playing. However, she changed the story a bit and said her OM had a large cock, ha, ha.
I also believe that my cuck fantasy turned her into a cuckolding woman.