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Wives can have limits in their life, but they also are very curious what other women get up to - and sometimes, they start to want "what she is having".
A husband who is prepared to stick by his wife in the rough times (no matter what happens), can give his wife the confidence to act out her fantasies, safe in the knowledge her marriage "can't be damaged no matter how much she lets her hair down".
True love is "for better or for worse". Adultery points to a problem in the marriage, but is NEVER AN EXCUSE to dissolve the marriage.
Never an excuse, never an excuse, never an excuse, never an excuse.
Marriage is forever - and if adjustments have to be made to the wedding vows, SO BE IT.
Adultery occurs because one spouse's pride is hurt. TRUE LOVE always means forgiveness and a chance to re-negotiate the wedding vows.
"Forgive those that Tresspass against us". "Go and sin no more".
If a hubby can't give his wife the sexing she needs, it is entirely appropriate that she calls in the Bulls to "do the job" - just like a car with mechanical issues, help is needed.
If a wife suffers Divorce, another dozen guys will see their opportunity to "move in and pay her the sexual and emtional attention she needs".
A husband who is prepared to stick by his wife in the rough times (no matter what happens), can give his wife the confidence to act out her fantasies, safe in the knowledge her marriage "can't be damaged no matter how much she lets her hair down".
True love is "for better or for worse". Adultery points to a problem in the marriage, but is NEVER AN EXCUSE to dissolve the marriage.
Never an excuse, never an excuse, never an excuse, never an excuse.
Marriage is forever - and if adjustments have to be made to the wedding vows, SO BE IT.
Adultery occurs because one spouse's pride is hurt. TRUE LOVE always means forgiveness and a chance to re-negotiate the wedding vows.
"Forgive those that Tresspass against us". "Go and sin no more".
If a hubby can't give his wife the sexing she needs, it is entirely appropriate that she calls in the Bulls to "do the job" - just like a car with mechanical issues, help is needed.
If a wife suffers Divorce, another dozen guys will see their opportunity to "move in and pay her the sexual and emtional attention she needs".
I fall on Saraha's side on this one. If you get married, marry for life. Life gets hard, suck it up and work it out! If you can't commit to working through the hard times, stay single and set up temporary housekeeping.
If she gets pregnant with your baby then you might as well marry her for life cuz as far as I am concerned you are going to pay for the next 18 years anyway! Not willing to pay, then don't play.
Mac, the best way to avoid a nasty divorce is to stay married!
Saraha, if you want to quote scripture (and I have no problem with that) you gotta know that adultery is the only excuse for divorce given in the bible (Matt. 9:18).
If she gets pregnant with your baby then you might as well marry her for life cuz as far as I am concerned you are going to pay for the next 18 years anyway! Not willing to pay, then don't play.
Mac, the best way to avoid a nasty divorce is to stay married!
Saraha, if you want to quote scripture (and I have no problem with that) you gotta know that adultery is the only excuse for divorce given in the bible (Matt. 9:18).
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Saraha said:
"Forgive those that tresspass against us" is one line from the lords prayer taken out of context.
"Go and sin no more" is a totally different scripture all together. That is from the story of the wife caught red handed or cock handed as the case may be, in the act of adultery. So the towns folk drag her off to be stoned to death. When Jesus arrives and sees whats happening he says. "LET YE WHO ARE WITHOUT SIN CAST THE FIRST STONE". One by one the town folk all left because each knew they had sin in their lives. The women says looking up at Jesus " is no one is left to condemn me?" And Jesus says as he helps her to her feet " THEN NEITHER SHALL I, NOW GO AND SIN NO MORE"
I'm pretty sure he never said " NOW GO AND RE-NEGOTIATE YOUR WEDDING VOWS"
Be careful quoting scriptures unless you know the context of the verse your using. You destroyed your own argument Saraha.
It's not Sunday anymore so I guess I'm safe right ?
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rural said:
I have been through 2 messy divorces and I'm damn glad to be rid of the bitches. There is Adultery and then there is a couple having a little fun. It's totally different. What Ruthie and I do and many others here do is all out in the open. We have no secrets because we love and respect each other enough to be honest with each other. That's what keeps a marriage strong.
That is totally different than my 2 ex wives cheating on me behind my back while I worked to support the family so they could stay home. What they did was adultery. Adultery involves lies, deception, humiliation and disrespect. When a spouse takes the love honor and emotional attachment you both promised to each other when you recited your wedding vows, takes it away from you to give it to another all the while spinning a web of lies telling you she's just not happy any more. Coming up with some excuse to get out and leave you to take care of the kids night after night while she fucks some prick behind your back and spends your money on him showing him a good time. We are talking about a cheating bitch that is committing adultery.
You can put a cute little name on it like cuckold if you want but all I know is it fucking hurts to a point where you want to be dead.
Shit! did that sound bitter? I had no Idea I was still that pissed off after 20 years. huh. interesting. I think I'm having a break through here hahaha.
I am all better now but this is why I always tell men wanting in the life style to be careful not to push your wives to fast. go slow and do it together with everything out in the open. No secrets. Do not ever encourage your wife to go fuck some guy behind your back just because you have a cuckold fantasy and think it will be a thrill. Eventually the thrill wears off and all you have left in you life is the pain of it all. I know how it feels to be cuckolded and it's not good trust me.
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MacNfries said:
No one believes me when I tell them Mac so I generally don't ever bring it up. Ruthie attended Faith Baptist Bible college before I met her in Iowa for 4 years and graduated with a Christian teaching certificate. Her father is a pastor who graduated from the same college 40 years earlier . I was Born again at the age of 38 after I could no longer take the pain of my second divorce without wanting to off myself. That's the reality of being cuckolded for most... I have read the scriptures through and through and both Ruthie and I are still believers.
Most would call us hypocrites and say that we are no better than any other sinner. hypocrites? No but we are no better than any other sinner for sure. we are just backslidden Christians that understand we are all sinners. I know some won't understand what I mean but I know you will with your Christian background.
What a strange conversation for a cuckolds site lol.
Ruthie does read many of my threads here. She probably would have fun and probably be a good influence here but to be honest I have to remind her to answer her own forum most of the time haha. I'll ask her if she wants to join in though. That could be fun. We both have face book accounts that we use to zing and tell embarrassing stories about each other. All true but clean stories mind you. we do have fun though. Ruthie is all about fun and is serious very seldom even though she is very intelligent. I'm not sure everyone here could handle her silly personality. But I will ask her.
Pornos are made for men not women
Generally, porno flicks are a terrible way to introduce a woman to this lifestyle.
Gentle suggestions, encouragement, and rewards each time she goes a bit further work much better. Verbally build the fantasy each time you bring her to an orgasm. (orally or by hand) By hand is best because you can talk to her as you make her cum.
After she cums, enter her, but do not make her cum more. The faster you cum, the better at this point.
You want her to experience many orgasms, but not through actual intercourse with you. Depriving a woman of sex does not make her horny. That's what makes a man horny.
She's not going to pursue what she's already getting. If you want her to want another man's cock. Make her feel sexy. Make her feel desirable. Give her everything but satisfactory intercourse and gently let her know that door is open to her.
Generally, porno flicks are a terrible way to introduce a woman to this lifestyle.
Gentle suggestions, encouragement, and rewards each time she goes a bit further work much better. Verbally build the fantasy each time you bring her to an orgasm. (orally or by hand) By hand is best because you can talk to her as you make her cum.
After she cums, enter her, but do not make her cum more. The faster you cum, the better at this point.
You want her to experience many orgasms, but not through actual intercourse with you. Depriving a woman of sex does not make her horny. That's what makes a man horny.
She's not going to pursue what she's already getting. If you want her to want another man's cock. Make her feel sexy. Make her feel desirable. Give her everything but satisfactory intercourse and gently let her know that door is open to her.
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babyruthiezhubby said:
I know the moment I registered myself for this site, I would be reading all sorts of comments and experiences shared by like wise members. Well, we are all in the process of learning.
If you don't mind, I would like to know how she did it.
For my case, my wife had 3 boyfriends (that is her "official" figure) before this and she told me that she did all the petting, groping and caressing with them but not sex (yeah right) and I accepted her as my wife. After all, no one is perfect and I was not expecting to marry a virgin.
My wife loves to flirt with men and I even told her that I find that exciting and she told me that there is nothing much she can do if she catches their attention. She does not wear sexy clothing all the time but she has a pair of beautiful brown eyes and has a good sense of fashion. She flirted (both mild and sometimes heavy) during our dating days, to engagement and marriage.
4 years ago I made contact with an ex gf and even sent her gifts. My wife found the courier receipt and we had a big argument about it. She knew about my ex because I did mention about her during our dating days. When my ex texted me my wife intercepted the messages and pretended to be me to answer it. When we settled our argument, one of the condition I set to her was not to contact my ex anymore (using my hp and under the pretext it was me). That time, we had one kid already. So we patched up and carried on with our lives.
Last year, my wife told me that one of her married male colleagues was hitting on her heavily and this was even noticed by one of her close colleague and friend. She even added that she is hitting on her married boss now to get good grades on her work performance and it does show results (she is promoted, easy to get overtime work and no problem in obtaining half day or annual leave). However, lately when I asked her about her secret admirer and boss, she would either keep quiet or just gave the usual answer like "we're good friends now or I have to be on good terms because he's my boss".
As of now, I'm just waiting to hear what more she needs to say.
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rural said:
It's a long story rural. it would take 3 pages to get it all in and I would probably get so pissed of just writing it that I'd have to go take a pill of some kind lol.
I have learned a couple of things though. If anyone suspects a wife is cheating on them the first place to look for evidence is in her dresser drawers. If you find brand new sexy little panties and bras that you have never seen her in she's cheating on you. It's a bad deal rural and I feel for you but don't jump to any conclusions till you know for sure.
My second ex and I did try the swinging thing a couple times with another couple. It was my fantasy, she wasn't really interested but like some of you I let my boner cloud my thinking. I did my best to push her into getting something going even though she really didn't want to. It didn't last long and after a time or two she just said no more.
So did I open the door for all the heartache and pain that came later? I don't know, maybe. Did that make her loose respect for me? That's why I always say be careful when going into cuckold or swinging or what ever.
Here's a small part of the story rural. There is nothing in this story that that is hot or will turn anyone on. I probably shouldn't even tell it because I'm all about fun. I tend to try and let the past be the past, learn from my mistakes and move on. Someone get me a pill of some sort before I get started please haha.
One of the things that made it so bad and me so much more angry and hurt in my case is that my daughters who are now in their 30s were 10 and 12 at the time and they had been with my ex, met the guy and knew something wasn't right about it. It's not like my ex and him had sex in front of my kids but kids aren't dumb either, they could see he was something more than a friend . They watched me day after day heart broken because they know I suspected their mother was cheating. She put an impossible burden on the kids and they carried it for months.
Every time she left, the kids knew where she was going and who she was with while I sat home with them on the verge of tears all the time . My kids had to carry the burden of choosing between betraying their mother or betraying their father. My 10 yr old ended up choosing me. She told me one day after her mother and I had a fight over where she was going. An hr or so after my ex left my 10 yr old came up to me with tears in her eyes and said "dad I have to tell you something" We hugged and cried together and my 12 yr old joined us.
I felt bad for me but I felt so much worse for them that they were ****** into the position to choose which parent to betray. Once my ex realized she had been outed by the kids she filed for divorce. At the same time filed a restraining order on me labeling me a wife beater so she could have me removed from my home and kids. Women don't have to prove it all they have to do is accuse a man and the court takes her side. With in a week she had moved her boyfriend in my house with my kids. He was driving my kids and wife around in my car all over town. I had been replaced, my kids taken away and left with nothing but pain.
I took every dime I made every week for months and gave it all to my attorney. I spent thousands and I did win everything in the end, kids and all.
Some of you can possibly understand now why I called her a dirty bitch in one of my comments.
Not a hot story but true . Sorry everyone but he ask so everyone can blame this on rural. I'm thinking he should probably even be banned for causing me to tell this depressing tale haha.
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Thanks Mac. I'm glad someone enjoyed it anyway. I know from talking to you that you have also went through similar hell. maybe not with the kids involved but I'm sure you felt just as hurt and desperate at the time as I did.
I purposely did not tell about the things she use to do to get out of the house or how she looked when she got home or about finding her panties stuffed under the seat in her car and how she explained it away. people would have thought it was hot. I wanted everyone to know how it ended rather than how it started. It was not hot to be cuckolded in any way.
We think alike because we have lived it and know the truth about true cuckolding. My first wife cuckolding me didn't end well either. There is never a happy ending for a true cuck.
I shouldn't say that, I'm happy now but I had to go through hell to get here.
I purposely did not tell about the things she use to do to get out of the house or how she looked when she got home or about finding her panties stuffed under the seat in her car and how she explained it away. people would have thought it was hot. I wanted everyone to know how it ended rather than how it started. It was not hot to be cuckolded in any way.
We think alike because we have lived it and know the truth about true cuckolding. My first wife cuckolding me didn't end well either. There is never a happy ending for a true cuck.
I shouldn't say that, I'm happy now but I had to go through hell to get here.
