I have been reading and checking out this place for a long time now, and for the most part I enjoy it and the things people post here. I’m maybe an old fart to some at 55. But I have been married for 37 to the same woman. We have had many ups and downs, and where very much into swinging for many years when we where in our 20’s and 30’s. My wife and I are both white. My wife had a thing for big cock like many women do, and we both thought she should try black. She did and loved it and I loved seeing hre with black guys. So it was a win win for both of us.
We had 6 kids over the years, all mine, 2 boys 4 girls. We hid our sex life, swinging and her love of black cocks from our kids. It was a very different time then now. White girls did not openly date or have sex with black men. If they did they where shunned, by friends and family alike, you could lose your job and or housing, and it was a big scandal if others found out.
I bring this up, because over the years as our children grew, all our girls dated both white and black boys in high school. 2 of our daughters ended up marring black men, and have had mixed babies. 1 of our daughters got black preg and had 2 kids before getting married to a white guy. Our other daughter married a white guys and as far as we know never got onto black guys. But, we really don’t know.
So here we are now, with 11 grandchildren, 7 are mixed for are white. We love them all the same, they all have mothers and fathers who love them, care for them, and live in a happy health home. My wife and I would not of picked black men for our girls nor would we have thought it a good idea for them to have mixed babies.
But, now that they are here, I love them all the same, and would not wish they where any different. I have sent he world changing, and I think it is changing for the best in this area. In all the years since they where born, there has only been one incident where someone said or did anything inappropriate in front of the children. But the police where called and the man was charged with a hate crime and went to jail for his actions.
That’s very different from when my wife and I where young. I think it’s a shame that so many people here are still give the girls and young couples so much heartache and grief over wanting to have a mixed baby. I don’t fully understand why they want to do that…. But it seems the time for hating others for this kind of thing has long past in American.
Even today my wife and I still feel some shame over the things we did when we where younger, but we don’t regret any of it. But, we also do not make a show of it, nor have we ever told our kids, and never will. But, we don’t let our generations hang ups, affect our children or grandchildren.
Ok, I know I’m going to get flack for this post, and I guess I brought it on my self for even posting. But I got so mad reading some of this crap and wondered if the people who post it would say this to people with mixed kids or grandkids face to face, If not, don’t post it here either.
This old fart is going to bed now.
