lessons learned
I was not going to post this update, as <SPOILER ALERT> there is not any "action" in it, but I decided to post it anyway as it was a lesson learned.
My wife and I went back to the swingers' club last weekend, and we decided beforehand that she would not get shitfaced ***** like she did the last time we went (because she really couldn't rememeber all of the details of her BBC encounter). So, we only took one bottle of vodka with us to keep on the more sober side. This time, we opted to get a local hotel room also, so we could stay later and party longer. I really had little hope that she would repeat her previous performance, but knew we would have a blast no matter what happened, as we really didn't get to explore all of the club's amenities the first time.
After we got settled in and had a couple of drinks, we went to check out the "theater room" (which we missed the first time around. The room had a big hi-def TV with porn showing, with couches to sit on. Also, there were about 4 or 5 beds in the room full of people getting it on. That was pretty awesome to walk in on; we got a front row seat of some hot girl on girl action that rivaled any porn I've ever seen. They were 2 SMOKING hot 20-something blondes, and they were indescribable. I cannot even try to type how hot they were, and how hot their sex was. My wife and I moved to an empty love seat to watch the action and a black couple came and sat on the bed right next to us. I took the opportunity to take my wife's leg and place her spades anklet on her, raising her leg up in the air for the man to see her crotch (which was covered with some BBC panties which you can see in an earlier post). I began to kiss her and rub her pussy. She slid open her panties to show me how wet she was. I fingered her and kissed her as the couple watched us (her, mainly).
After a while, she wanted to get another drink. As they had just put out new food on the buffet (and I was starving), I suggested we eat while the food was available. We made some plates and got a table. A minute later, she said she needed her drink, and told me to stay with the food as she would be right back. She came back with 2 drinks, and told me, "Hurry up and eat. I found one."
"Found a what?" I asked.
"A BBC".
I finished eating pretty quickly. To make a long story really short, we met up with this guy in the orgy room upstairs (which had about 20 people going at it in every possible way). It was pretty amazing and (admittedly) shocking to see that much action live for the first time. It took a little while to let it all sink in. Our friend found my wife and sat down next to us (on what can only be described as "the bleachers"). He started some foreplay, and my wife said "Let's get a room".
We went to the desk to get a room, but unfortunately, there was a 45 minute wait. They gave us a pager like you would get at a restaurant when a room was ready for us. As I was booking the room and getting some condoms, my wife was sucking face with our studly black friend and grabbing his cock under his towel. We told him we'd meet up with him when the pager went off, and went down to the bar area for another round.
When the pager went off, my wife suddenly got cold feet, and said she just wanted to fuck me. I didn't pressure her. We went up to our room, and damn if they didn't have one of those sex swings in there. I was not going to let that opportunity pass me by, and I fucked the shit out of her and as I was slamming her, I had her tell me how big his cock was (about 8 inches) and tell me how bad she wanted to fuck his big black cock. I came like you wouldn't believe.
After we cleaned up and left the room, we ran into our friend. I could tell he was thinking "what the hell happened?" and we kind of apologized for not being able to restrain ourselves... he seemed cool with it, but it kinda sucked...
We went back downstairs to the hot tub area. My wife walked over to the only hot tub that had a black couple in it and asked if we could join them. The man of this couple was HUGE. We hopped in the tub and had a nice time with them, but never talked about hooking up. Another black couple soon joined us. The man was a skinny guy, I'd say about 5'6" and 150 pounds - half of which were due to his huge dick. It was the biggest cock I'd ever seen in person. It had to be at least 9 inches long. I heard my wife say, "Damn!"
We drank until we ran out of booze, and we ended up going back to the hotel to sleep for 3 hours before checkout time. We had no real BBC sex experience...
But, I learned some big lessons from all of this, and I hope to pass them on.
1) always bring more booze than you think you will need.
2) when your wife leaves to get a drink or go to the ladies' room, talk to the guys to see if they are interested in her. If so, tell them what you would like them to do and to hit on your wife! Flirt with her! Take charge!
3) Keep for your "friend" close while waiting for the pager to go off. I know I could have persudaed her to fulfill her "promise" if he was near by.
4) Don't let your own sexual urges stop you from your goal of watching your wife get a real BBC. You can always buy your own sex swing... you can't always have an 8 inch black cock in your bedroom.
5) And don't underestimate the power of abstinance... perhaps this event will keep my wife hungry for "what might have been". I know she was into the studs in the hot tub. I have a feeling she has regrets of not pusuing them both. Maybe NOT getting black cock will fuel her hunger the next time we go.
I have a feeling it will...