Geglu said:
You're welcome, Ms. Aila.
Geglu said:
I have been thinking, from time to time, why I love to be "unfaitful" to Geglu, why I love and need so often other cocks, other men to "sleep" with me. I have found it a very difficult question to answer, but still, I do like it!
The author of:
Ley David J., 2009, Insatiable Wives: Women who stray and the men who love them (Roman and Littlefield Publishers, Inc., 291 pp. [hardcover])
put it this way (I'm paraphrasing):
"Comparing the orgasmic potential of an average woman to that of an average man is like comparing the drag-racing potential of a Ferrari to that of a beat-up used Chevy" [or, fill in the beat-up used car brand of your choice].
Geglu said:
I think I have had a very understanding hubby from the beginning. He was not angry with me when I first told him, "I WANT OTHER MEN; OTHER MENS COCKS." Even when I continued on, telling him (this happened when we were in bed), "I want all your friends to do me," he did say anything for some five minutes.
He was stunned, almost certainly...
Geglu said:
I begin to be a little nervous, wondering, “what is he thinking?”
No doubt he was weighing the benefits of being married to such a beautiful and strongly-sexual woman (you) against your... ahem... unconventional or, by the normal standards of marriage, seemingly outrageous... request.
Geglu said:
I took my nightdress off, and said: "You see this? It is MY body. It is very nice, don't you think?"
A totally reasonable statement and demonstration...
Geglu said:
He then said, in a slow voice: "I understand that I cannot own your body, even though we are married, and I love you so much."
This is a very difficult concept for a large percentage of married men, and men in long-term-relationships (LTRs), as well as men with "steady" woman-friends, to get their heads around.
With his reply, Geglu told you… in essence… he had made his decision. He would acquiesce in your sexual needs in exchange for continuing marriage, because he loved (and continues to love) you and was (and is) VERY turned on by you.
Geglu said:
What does this mean, I asked him, as I took his cock in my hand and slowly began masturbating him. He was hard, and I could see he wanted me very much.
Intuitively, you understood what you needed to do. That was exactly the right approach….
In the future, when you want to engage Geglu in a serious conversation, especially when you want him to do something or agree to something, you might consider using the “power grip.” The procedure is as follows.
—stand close to Geglu and, seductively, order him to lower his pants and underpants, addressing him as (e.g.) “sweetheart” or “darling;”
—then, hold his cock gently in one hand and his balls firmly (not too tightly) in your other hand;
—then, tell him (seductively) what you want him to do or agree to, even if it’s something very mundane (say, washing the dishes or vacuuming the rug).
—If Geglu seems reluctant and does not respond appropriately… saying, for instance, “yes ma’am”… squeeze his balls a little tighter and (still seductively) repeat your request.
—When he agrees to your request, probably after no more than the first tightening of your hold on his balls, ease your grip (while continuing to hold his balls in one hand), and reward him by starting to masturbate his cock with your other hand. You can then continue to whatever level of reward you consider appropriate… possibly a hard erection, but no ejaculation… until he has finished his task.
Use of the “power grip” is among the strategies suggested by Lady Misato, on her site “Real Women Don’t Do Housework”, here:
http colon doubleslash rwddh dot com slash
(fill in the indicated punctuation without spaces). Or, you can google it. If you read through the whole site, clicking the chapters one at a time (they’re listed at upper left), you might find it will provide you with a method for improving your marriage even further, in a way that would appeal to Geglu as well. (If you’re skeptical, note there’s a section called “frequently asked questions” [FAQ].)
Geglu said:
Come to me, my love, I said to Geglu. “This is still your wife’s pussy, and I will not close it to you. I may even need it from you much more, after other men have been there. Is that OK with you?” I asked. “Please tell me you accept this, please Geglu…” By then, he was making love to me more strongly than he ever had; he was good and hard. I could see he was very hot. He fucked me five (5) times that night and before going to work the next morning! I understood that was his promise. I was then 23; we had been married only about 3 years.
That was really hot. You understood, intuitively, exactly what was required to transform Geglu from your conventional husband to your self-acknowledged cuckold, and you did it.
Thank you for your steamy description, Ms. Aila.
