Seems like a lot of people are having an issue logging into chat since we updated. Here is what you need to do: Logout of the chat and forums, clear your cache and cookies. Log back in to the forum, then login to the chat with the same user/pass you use for the forums.
I love it. I know my girlfriend would love it too. I am thinking you and her might just hit it off if you ever met. Maybe even share a BBC one night and both get your fill. Check out her photo's under my threads....you'll like