She's having fun but enjoying some degree of dominance over him, be it mild or extreme.
RyanBax said:So... what's the difference between being a cuckold, as opposed to having a hotwife. Can someone explain?
Son of John said:The husband of the cuckolding wife suffers, the husband of the hotwife does not.
The cuckold husband cries when he knows someone else is fucking his wife. The husband of the hotwife is very excited.
There are some men who fuck married women who definitely prefer that the husband suffers. Some of these guys have told of getting phone calls from the husbands, saying "Please stop fucking my wife! She's MY pussy! Please don't fuck her!"
Most of these men love to hear this and keep right on fucking her.
The guy who fucks "Hot wifes" gets telephone calls saying "Thanks for fucking my wife! She told me all about it, how your cock was so much bigger than mine! I'm sure you agree that she's great Pussy!"
trurate1234 said:Someone once described it to me in nonsexual terms:
If you have a hotwife,they're laughing with you. If you're a cuckold, they're laughing at you.
An imperfect analogy, but apt- hotwives are basically a take on swinging, fun, easy going, her getting sexual enjoyment. Cuckolding leans more towards domination. She's having fun but enjoying some degree of dominance over him, be it mild or extreme.
radicalguy said:But the twist is, the cuckold husband enjoys the crying, the humiliation. The cuckold husband deep down LOVES to "suffer," so to speak. He likes being out of control.
Son of John said:Some of these guys have told of getting phone calls from the husbands, saying "Please stop fucking my wife! She's MY pussy! Please don't fuck her!"
Saraha said:Husbands should decide whether they prefer their wife to become a hotwife and chase men at every golden opportunity, or wait until she is ready to admit that she has been having affairs behind his back for a long time, and she has no intention of stopping now.
Jack Hammer said:In my experience, some cucks stick it out because they don't have the balls to dump their ***** wives because they know they're going to have a hard time attracting another woman, while some cucks are just eager to see their women fucked by a strong dick, and are actively involved in making it happen.
I've had both situations. Some women I just started fucking behind their boyfriend/husband's back and it developed into a cuckold relationship, and I've had situations where a husband has courted me for his wife. I think I like the first one better. It's more fun for me when I get to witness the process of the "man" losing his pride.
Curious Observer said:Have you had any personal experience of this yourself Saraha, or are you just spouting garbage on a message board? We're not dealing with idealised fantasies here, we're dealing about real life.
If a woman had started having affairs behind my back and I wasn't happy with it and I could do something about it, I would. I don't need women like that about the place.
MacNfries said:Curious Observer, certainly the majority of individuals would react, just as you suggest, if they caught or found out their spouse was cheating.