back from vacation, cont'd
So, I began to suggest that if there were couples or men around here, we should meet them for dinner and drinks just to see. I got a maybe. The web play and photo sharing continued for a while until we got a unsolicited request to join a yahoo group, whose name I forget. Anyway, it was a black gangbang group. I joined and posted a few pics of K. I got some emails from a guy I will call "fred". He is black and said he set up sessions in a hotel near O'Hare airport. He wanted to know if we would be interested in coming. These sessions were to start out with a "meet and greet" and then those interested moved to the rooms. I asked K and she said she would love to be a fly on the wall in one of those sessions. I told her she could be. We told Fred that only if there was no pressure and no expectation of K doing anything. He said those were the main rules and that all the women had to feel comfortable. After speaking with K we agreed we would try. Fred said he needed to meet us a couple of times before he could bring us in. We agreed. We met him a total of 4 times. He was enamored with K. Said he had a think for redheads. He could not keep his hands out of her long, curly red hair. It got a bit annoying for her. At the 4th meeting it became apparent that he either misrepresented his role with the O'Hare thing or he just wanted K for himself. K told him she couldn't do anything and if that was a requirement, then she was done. We left the bar and we never heard from him again. She really wasn't attracted to him, so in hindsight I think that was the real problem.
*more to come in the next post*