talk to her u both have to be open to make it work, and it is well worth taking your time to find the right guy for her first time be clear what u both want out of it and respect the other guy, then enjoy the ride :)
Since joining dc i have met many sexy hot blk guys, also many fakes to, but eventually you learn who is fake and who is real. Just dont take it all to seriously sit back chill and enjoy the ride lol