Humiliation?

[cuckkent]

she may continue to love you, but things will change. You will no longer be a "man" to her, over time you'll be more like another g/f. Maybe that's what you want, but once she's seen you in the humiliated way, you can't turn back the clock--you will forever and always be a cuckold to her.

 

[JimmyHCO]

What about bulls? Not that I care much, but in the past when I had sex with guys, there was no disrespect after sex - no matter how submissive I would get, we were always cool after the sex.

Like I was saying before, its mostly my wifes respect that I'm concerned with, but just out of curiosity, want to hear from straight bulls - would you respect and be cool with a guy who cleaned your cock with his mouth after you fucked his wife?

I think if I was the bull, I'd have no problems with the cuck no matter what, and totally respect him as a person. But I'm at the very least bisexual, and we have much more tolerance than straight guys.

 

[slavecc]

Once you take the leap into accepting humiliation in the bedroom, it's not likely to be limited only to that location. Especially if your wife begins to enjoy the humiliation. You would be "fair game" wherever you are and whomever you are with.

My humble opinion, mind you.

Well my wife and I are in femdom marriage and she really enjoys humiliating me. She started off slowly but she realized how much she enjoyed it. I take it to heart at the time so it’s almost like she’s hitting me with an invisible whip. She humiliated me with several of her boyfriends over the years the comparison test. My little white dicklet and a black man’s beautiful big cock . I don’t care how many times I got that, it’s always very humiliating and it crushed my male ego , my wife “says my goal is to emasculate you as much as possible”. So I guess you know what happens when your wife enjoys humiliating, well what happened to me anyway lol

 

[hubbyofasianslut]

I wanted to make this post inside one of the threads that I have previously posted, but then I figured not everyone is going to see it, so I decided to start a new thread.

My question has to do with the humiliation aspect of cuckolding. The question is mostly for those who are already enjoying the cuckold lifestyle, and I'm especially interested in hearing opinions of the ladies.

The truth is, most of us who want to become cuckolds, are probably having normal relationships with our wives/girlfriends. I certainly do - I provide for my family and spoil my wife every way I can, but I don't take any crap from her either, and she never humiliates or disrespects me.

Those of you who read my other posts already know that I'm working on getting my wife into the cuckolding lifestyle. Of course if I'm ever successful, it is most likely going to start with her screwing other guys by herself and eventually moving onto threesomes with myself involved. Of course I wouldn't want it to stop there, and I would like to bring some cuckold aspect into this. I would like for her to actually have a bull, with me submitting to them and doing cleaning and fluffing for both of them. If they both verbally humiliate me during this process, I would only enjoy it even more.

Now the thing is, this is where I would like for humiliation to stop. I wouldn't want for it to extend beyond sex, but the truth is, once they have humiliated you during sex, it will be hard for them to respect you outside the bedroom as well. Now I'm not so much concerned with the disrespect from the Bull. I think all theres to it is finding the right guy, who understands this lifestyle, and knows how to handle himself. However losing respect of my wife would be hard to swallow.

So I'm looking for opinions and suggestions from those of you who went through this. How has your "every day" relationship with your woman get affected after you started cuckolding lifestyle?

All women are different so I do not think there is a universal answer. Culture differences enter into it as well. My wife has really taken a more domme roll with me in the bed, but it has not spilled over at all into our everyday lives.

 

[encasedforfun]

Old thread but I figured I'd chime in. I personally don't believe it's possible for a wife to view her husband in the same light once he's surrendered her to another man. In a wife's eyes the husband is the protector, and ultimately the "man of the house" for lack of a better term. Once that illusion is gone, it can't be recaptured. You are, and always will be, a beta because you willing submitted her to another. Sure she may say she loves you but she won't respect you like she did before. From my personal experience the ideal man women swoon over are alpha. They are possessive and controlling. They take what they want, and do not share. They will want to control your wife and as a result control your relationship. Once you cross the bridge into this territory there is no going back to 100% the way it was before.

 

[slavecc]

It sounds like your wife is going to be one very confused lady. Going from Mr. Macho to "allowing" your wife to have sex with other men, to submitting to her and to a bull, is going to be a very slow process or a very difficult one.

Ultimately is has been my understanding (and my experience) that even the most loving wife will lose respect for her "man" when he goes down this path. If this is something you feel you must do, then do it slowly.

My wife has a black man who she dates openly . They don’t sneak around and hide and she told me in front of her lover that she has absolutely no respect for me as a man. The only sexual contact I have with my wife is when her lover lets me clean her cream pie. When he allows me to do it everything goes through him. He emasculated me in front of my wife.