My girlfriend and I had just got back together(now wife) we had a foursome, and I came to fast(big surprise) and watched as she got with the girl and other guy...I didn't deal with it very well at all when we were done, I felt kinda blindsided as it was all idea(promoted by the other girl)
It was amazing to watch her lick, suck and get fucked by them.
I didn't have a sit down with her after and tell her I wanted us to have an open relationship...where we tell each other everything that happened if either one of us went out.
I worked on the road traveling 9 months a year, and had felt guilty about leaving her alone, when we all have needs.
After 31 years, she still won't add anyone to our playtime, male, female, black or white...even though I have given her a total free hall pass to bring anyone she wants into bed.