Dark Side! NOT!!
Harry (Dark side)?
STB: First I don’t want to be put into the “Dark Side” box with Duke, or anyone else here. I am an upbeat happy person. I have had periods in my life that I look back at as 'learning experiences’ not disasters I wouldn’t change them if I could, but I have learned a lot from them. I would prefer to be a ‘realist’ I do have a good relationship with my wife that meets the description that I advise for you and Sue. I work on it faithfully every day because I know it needs ‘maintenance’. Apparently your story has portrayed primarily the Cuckold portion of your relationship (for the benefit of the cuckolds in the readership), and not the every day welcome home [Big hug and kiss, love you, glad you had a nice day at work, would you like to go out to dinner and a movie with the family relationship) Im Glad you explained that more fully in yesterday's post. As I said, I am not there to observe your life, I only get the report you write in this thread, most of which is written to titillate other Cuckolds with a few questions thrown in for us to respond to. So now I am glad you have included more of your life with Sue and family. It makes the picture clearer and less of a concern, Thank you for that input. STB, I really felt the ‘passion’ of your last post. The love and connection you and Sue share does come through in you're writhing and I feel the emotion of it just as I feel the reality of my own ‘passion’ for my wife: “I know what a lot of you are thinking, but I'm sorry - despite the rushed-ness of last night - there is just a connection I feel between us when we're together having sex when she gets home. It's more like a passion that I feel from her and I know she feels from me. As long as I feel that with her, I don't think I'll be worried about anything just yet”.
Truth be, I am a few years older than you and have, as I have explained earlier, gone through some of the same situations. I have at least 3 close friends that are Cuckolds. I have learned a lot from them, I have followed your thread from the beginning and would not have continued to follow it if I thought all was doomed. I believe you & Sue have the potential to make this work for several years yet, If you keep your romance with sue alive by participating in an erotic sexual life together, as much as possible with or without a 2nd. Sexual partner.
I perceive that the greatest excitement in you're writing is when you are writing about being there with Sue and Brad (or with Sue with Don). Your excitement level showed in you're writing and shows again as you recall those occasions. It is also evident from you're writing that Sue liked for you to be there, and was encouraged for you to be there. That is why I advise you to want to be there for her.
At some point Sue will have had enough of this lifestyle. It will be a difficult struggle for her to ‘pull away’ She will need you there, as in ‘present’ to help her in that transition. You both are having fun now playing the “game”. But you must always be Sue’s ‘Champion’. Don’t give that position away because you think that is what a Cuck should do.
Maybe I’ve said enough now, So I will try to be more of a reader and less of a critic. Your’s is the only thread I have really gotten into. Maybe I’ve become a little too possessive.
I wish for you & Sue, a wonderful life!!
Cheers, Harry