Dom_Valac said:My question for the cuckolds is from your point of view, which excites you more; the idea that your woman is with another man, or the submissive role you are placed in, and the Dominant role your woman and her lover assumes. Please be honest in your answers, and explain your own personal feelings to the best your ability. .
For me its several things its hard to put them in order but all contributes.
1. That my wife is so incredible hot, sexy and slutty and not ashamed of it. When we have sex its usually amazing, or very good.
2. That my wife is dominant, she is with other men and I can't do anything about it. She wouldn't stop for me if I asked her to. She needs this and she is selfish enough to get it, even if she knows that I would object. The fact that she has onesided changed the rules we made up from the beginning is proof that SHE is in charge and decides.
3. The fear of being single without her makes me allowing everything she wants. Call me a coward, but I'd rather share her pussy with other men than not having it all.
Knowing that she is very good looking, sexy and many men thinks so, including my friends makes me realise that she wouldn't have ANY problem at all finding a new partner if we divorced. But with my overweight, beginning baldness and total lack of condition would probably mean that I would be single for a very long time. IF i found another woman she would probably be only half as good looking, and boring in bed. Yes, I admit I am afraid to loose her. She has said that if I don't accept her affairs and her meeting others I could live alone, she would take the children and move. Of course it isn't that easy but she is a manipulative woman and would make my life a hell if we were to fight in courts. She has openly said that if we divorce she would tell that it was my fault, making her do sexual stuff like threesomes and foursomes against her will. PRobably everyone would belive her, since they know I am a pervert. That my wife is 10 times worse they can't belive.
4. As I wrote above, I am a pervert that enjoys that my wife is having sex with other men. I would love to watch or listen but she is almost always going solo. The last years she has been more and more secretive also about her dates. Sometimes she gives me details but usually not.
I can be honest and say that we are not having the ideal relationship that I would have wanted. I would have wanted more of a swinging relationship there she was more of a hotwife than an adultress. But its not my choise, if I want to be with her I have to agree to her rules.
Will we still be married in 5 years? I don't honestly know. She could get tired on me and dump me or I could grow a pair and put my feet down and demand that she stops. I don't know what would happen then, probably she would leave me. It could also be that she stayed if she found me more dominant. I don't know. For now I take one day at a time.