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Henri
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Lexxi,
I have just read your complete post for the first time, and you have certainly made a huge step in the direction you want to go. I would comment that your husband may find it exciting now to be denied, but longer term that may drive a wedge into your relationship. Are you prepared to alter your position on marital sex/making love, or is that a non negoitiable position. It just happened too quickly, and from a third party reading, made me very uncomfortable. I am not making suggstions or trying to influence your thinking, just trying to make sure you are really comfortable with this twist.
I have just read your complete post for the first time, and you have certainly made a huge step in the direction you want to go. I would comment that your husband may find it exciting now to be denied, but longer term that may drive a wedge into your relationship. Are you prepared to alter your position on marital sex/making love, or is that a non negoitiable position. It just happened too quickly, and from a third party reading, made me very uncomfortable. I am not making suggstions or trying to influence your thinking, just trying to make sure you are really comfortable with this twist.