I have often wondered how others felt about this
My situation is A little defferent in that my wife is just not sexual, and I took a lover/mistress, who I adore. Thinking back, I think one of the things I loved about my mistress is she never tried to make any pretensions about who/what she is. She has casually told me of her lovers and told me from the beginning she would always want/seek/do black lovers. I am white, she is black and I can honestly say she is the most down to earth honest female I have ever known. I held a company party, and of course I had to take my wife, my mistress invited the hottest attorney in the 5 county area.
No one ever says anything about the sick churning feeling in the pit of their stomach, or maybe I am the only one feeling it. Mistress and her "******" were the only non caucasian persons at the party/dinner/dance. I knew, she told me, her date/****** was fucking her often, but being the lady she is always did her best to please me, and said I was her number one.
Black women, are the strongest, and sexiest of all to me anyway, and let me tell you they keep their eye on the bouncing ball as Jerry Kramer advocated. The point of all of this is a cuck, expecially cuck, does not mind his woman receiving sexual pleasue from others, but does want her to come and sit on his face. She is bisexual, and so am I, monogomy is a forign concept.
The answer, for others to know is a very sharp two edged sword. Sex is one thing, trust, affection, understanding is a large piece of the pie.