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alanej
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but not the response i expected now what
some history
we often bring the idea of her with another man into our sex romps where she takes the lead and says all the right stuff. Saying how I could meet her at a bar where I would watch her with other men, dancing, flirting and having a generally good time. She proceeds to say things like how he walked her out to car or she went back to his place where they had sex. I feel she really gets into it as she tells me all the dirty details about how he touched her how she sucked him and of course how he fucked her. Continuing on with how she and I would have sex afterwards while another man’s cum was in her.
Within moments I lose my own self control and actually forget this is all a role play scene. As we continue I sometimes momentarily wonder if she really is doing something as her descriptions of the evening sound so realistic. Needless to say all this builds up to a great climax for both.
Current day, Last night during a romp she started at it again. Telling me how we should go to a bar, how I would like to see her talking to other guys, while I watch from a distance. Moments later she’s describing how he was feeling her up on the dance floor, how she felt his cock grinding up against her. Again saying they ended up in her car in the back seat with him on top of her. Why, what I don’t know but somewhere during this I mustered out how much I enjoy this and how much I want this to happen.
She slows down the action a bit and with a different tone asks me if I would really want this, I tell her yes. the conversation (readers digest version)
Her, are you really want me to be with another man
Me, yes
Her, that wouldn’t bother you, to know I was with someone else. Some other man fucking me, touching me
Me, not at all
Her, why, how, can you be okay with this? I don’t know think I could ever do this, I love you too much
Me, as I love you. Its about pleasure you would receive being with another man. I know men look at you, I know you look at men so wouldn’t you want to experience this with no consequences and my permission
Her, this isn’t good, this tells me you don’t love me if you’re willing to share me
Me, of course I love you. You doing this wouldn’t change any feelings I have towards you. I love you and nothing will change that. This would be simply something we can both enjoy.
At about this time obviously the sex had wind down and was pretty much over we both got up not saying anything and went about our ways. We didn’t mention our talk but sparked up a conversation about the weekend and eventually going to bed.
Today, so far all the norm around here, we’ve talked multiple times and no mention. I’m kind of on pins and needles wondering if she will bring it up when she comes home. So that is my story, sorry it was so long and all that to say, any advice on where to go from here?
thanks
some history
we often bring the idea of her with another man into our sex romps where she takes the lead and says all the right stuff. Saying how I could meet her at a bar where I would watch her with other men, dancing, flirting and having a generally good time. She proceeds to say things like how he walked her out to car or she went back to his place where they had sex. I feel she really gets into it as she tells me all the dirty details about how he touched her how she sucked him and of course how he fucked her. Continuing on with how she and I would have sex afterwards while another man’s cum was in her.
Within moments I lose my own self control and actually forget this is all a role play scene. As we continue I sometimes momentarily wonder if she really is doing something as her descriptions of the evening sound so realistic. Needless to say all this builds up to a great climax for both.
Current day, Last night during a romp she started at it again. Telling me how we should go to a bar, how I would like to see her talking to other guys, while I watch from a distance. Moments later she’s describing how he was feeling her up on the dance floor, how she felt his cock grinding up against her. Again saying they ended up in her car in the back seat with him on top of her. Why, what I don’t know but somewhere during this I mustered out how much I enjoy this and how much I want this to happen.
She slows down the action a bit and with a different tone asks me if I would really want this, I tell her yes. the conversation (readers digest version)
Her, are you really want me to be with another man
Me, yes
Her, that wouldn’t bother you, to know I was with someone else. Some other man fucking me, touching me
Me, not at all
Her, why, how, can you be okay with this? I don’t know think I could ever do this, I love you too much
Me, as I love you. Its about pleasure you would receive being with another man. I know men look at you, I know you look at men so wouldn’t you want to experience this with no consequences and my permission
Her, this isn’t good, this tells me you don’t love me if you’re willing to share me
Me, of course I love you. You doing this wouldn’t change any feelings I have towards you. I love you and nothing will change that. This would be simply something we can both enjoy.
At about this time obviously the sex had wind down and was pretty much over we both got up not saying anything and went about our ways. We didn’t mention our talk but sparked up a conversation about the weekend and eventually going to bed.
Today, so far all the norm around here, we’ve talked multiple times and no mention. I’m kind of on pins and needles wondering if she will bring it up when she comes home. So that is my story, sorry it was so long and all that to say, any advice on where to go from here?
thanks