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Her date this past Friday night

Interesting...

Having her lover telling her to wear a chasity belt whenever she is not with him does sound like a HOT idea!!! Her lover would be in control of yours AND your wife's sex life...interesting...anybody out there tried this one yet?
 
Serves me right for updating this from work.

Rick is a guy I work with and I had his Email on the other window. He's probably wondering why I referred to him as
Don. Duh...

And, uh, no - that was just a whimsical thought....
 
Maybe Don's not so bad after all?

Well, this past Friday night was something different than in the past.
I know Sue said she'd spoken to him about how he'd been behaving regarding me and I think the weekend we had away may have also affected things as this past Friday night was something very different.

As I posted, I came home and puttered around the house, updated a few threads here and then went out about 8pm or so. I guess our kids have become used to mom and dad going out on Fridays because neither of them were around - our daughter was staying over at a friends house as they are preparing for next weeks Halloween party they're planning and my son seems to be happy that we don't care if he's not around so he was off with his girlfriend somewhere.

I got to the club near Don's place just before 9pm and they were there already and were hanging all over each other including openly kissing and her sitting on his lap at times. I watched from a distance at first as I got a beer from the bartender. Seeing her on his lap and seeing the smile on her face made me feel very good inside.

It was maybe 15-20 minutes later that they saw me and Sue came over and gave me a kiss and said she'd been talking to Don about me and that I should go over and join them. So I did and it was weird. He was actually friendly with me. He shook my hand and welcomed me into their little world. I knew some of the other people and I guess it helped that Don actually spoke to me in that it seemed to break the ice with the group. At one point, Don and I actually played pool together while Sue and another woman chatted and looked on. He beat me that first game as my focus just wasn't there altogether and I made some stupid shots.

What surprised me was that for the second game, Sue partnered with Don and the woman she was talking to, Karen, partnered with me. I am sure she knew that Sue was my wife but it never came up. We shared a few more beers and in general, just kind of hung around. I think Karen was looking at me as Sue would sit on Don's lap and openly kiss him and make out with him. I had to hide my hard-on as we found stuff to talk about as it just turned me on to see her and Don acting so openly - as if they were truly just enjoying their date together and, for that time, I felt like I was just another friend at the bar. We talked about the Yankees and how the game was going to probably be rained out on Saturday.

It must have been about 11:30pm when Sue came up to me and said that they were going to get going soon and she asked me if I was going to follow them to his place. I whispered back asking her if I was truly welcome there and she said "yeah, I talked to him and he does really want you to come back with us".

It was all of 5 minutes before we were in Don's place. I didn't know what to expect - last time we got there it wasn't 5 minutes before Sue had gotten undressed and I didn't know how I was going to feel. I knew my way around Don's place and when he said "get yourself a beer while we get more comfortable" I began to get that queasy feeling as the 2 of them went upstairs. But not more than 5-10 minutes later both of them came back downstairs. He'd changed into what I can only call "lounge pants" - not flannel pj's but just comfortable cotton pants and a t-shirt. Sue was right behind him in what looked like some new lingerie - a lacy top under which I could make out her breasts and nipples and long silky pants.

I actually felt relieved as despite how erotic it had felt, being there with her naked and the 2 of us still dressed in the past wasn't always easy for me to deal with. But this was nice - I knew she was being sexy for him but it didn't make me feel awkward. And the 3 of us actually had some good conversation. Don lit the gas-fireplace and the 3 of us had some red wine and just talked. We sat separately at first but after Sue came back from the kitchen with some cheese and crackers, she sat next to Don on the couch. I did feel a bit like a 3rd wheel but Don genuinely seemed to be making an effort to befriend me.

At one point Don said something funny and then complimented Sue and she seemed to feel nothing weird about turning to him and passionately kissing him not more than a few feet away from me. He said to me "Sue's such a great person" and then he stunned me, he said "I've been meaning to say this for a long time - thank you for letting me share her with you". I nearly choked on my cracker and I just said "that's okay - you treat her well and she seems to like you".

It honestly felt like we were just 3 friends all talking and having a good time. I even laughed at some of the jokes he'd shared and he enjoyed some of what I'd been telling him. It actually felt nice - for once I could see the side of him that must be what Sue liked.

We must have spent an hour or more just hanging around. By this time Sue was nuzzling up to him while still looking at me from time to time looking for some sort of reassurance from me. Finally, Don took a minute to use the bathroom and he left Sue and I alone. She came over to me and said "isn't this better?" and with that I asked her what happened. She said that after our weekend away, she said that Don said he realized that he needed to be better about sharing her with me and being better about me - apparently he must have finally figured out that she's not going to leave me and that if he wanted this to work, that he'd have to figure out how to make it better for all of us. She looked at me at one point and asked me if I was okay with this and I said "of course" that it was much more comfortable. Before I could ask or even get the words together she sort of asked/reminded me that Don still really didn't want me to have sex with her at his place and she asked if I was going to be okay with that and I told her that I guessed that would be okay and she smiled and said "then you won't mind maybe leaving soon so we can have some time together?" and I just smiled and nodded my head okay.

Yesterday I told her how hearing her say that was really a turn-on for me and she said she thought it was by how I looked and acted after that. I told her that it was so sexy to hear her say that she wanted time with him and she giggled and said that she thought we were all finally getting along.

Anyway - Don came back into the room and jokingly said "what are you doing with my woman?" and we all laughed at that a bit. He sat back next to her on the couch and at that moment, I actually felt really good about essentially giving her to him. He flipped on the TV but turned the sound down and after flipping from channel to channel - he stopped on a soft-porn movie on one of the cable channels. We all commented on what was going on in the movie including the woman going down on the guy and Don was saying stuff to Sue about how "that looks good".

Within a few more minutes, I knew their part of the night was getting started. They'd gone from mild kissing to now being quite passionate. Even with me there, I just felt they were much more relaxed about each other and in almost no time he had his hands under her top and both of them had all but forgotten about me. When she put her hands in his pants and began to start to stroke him I got the feeling it was time for me to leave. Sure enough a few minutes later Don got up and said he was going to get some more wine. While he was out Sue came up to me and put her arms around my neck and pulled me close to her and just said "will you be okay if we go upstairs now?" I was so turned on - I knew she could feel my hard-on pressing against her and all I could do was sort of nod and say "uh huh" and she said "are you going to wait here or are you going to go home?". I asked her what she wanted and she said, in a very quiet meek voice "it might be easier if I just met you home later" and all I could do was just nod yes.

When Don came back with the bottle of wine I just said something like "none for me but you two can have some, I'm actually going to be going now". And I finally felt okay about saying "you two want some time". I think it surprised all of us - including me - when I said that. Sue stood up and came over and gave me a kiss and whispered "thank you" and after a second pause "I'll be home later".

Believe it or not, Don actually walked me to the door and as he opened it for me he was very polite and just said "You're alright, thanks for leaving her here with me, I'll take good care of her". And I just stood there and thought for a second and I shook his hand back and just said "you'd better". And with that I walked out to my car and headed home. I saw her car parked next to his SUV and I saw the lights go off in the downstairs of his place and I don't know what to say other than I actually felt really really good at that moment. Yes, I was WICKEDLY hard - my cock actually hurt from throbbing so much but seeing the lights go off like that just made me feel really good.

It was well after 2am Saturday morning by the time she got home and she immediately threw her arms around me and all she could say was "Thank you" over and over.

More about that later when I have more time.
 
STB,
Wow, that is all I can say. Your post really shook me, it reminded me of my feelings when my wife wanted to be alone with her boyfriend. You are a stronger man than me though. I wanted to be there and had a very hard time with the one on one time they spent together. Like I said, wow, that really brought back some emotions. Some good and some not so. Thanks for the excellent posts and keep them coming.
 
I do totally agree with woodshed and duke9555. Please keep on sharing your wife with Don and your experiences with us.
 
Sorry for the delay in getting back to posting here but, well, that's life sometimes....

So, like I was saying, when I left them it was one of the first times that I really felt good about everything. Yesterday Sue shared with me some more of what she and Don had talked about and she said that the weekend that we went away seemed to change how Don looked at the whole situation. she basically said that he seemed to realize that she wasn't going to leave me and that maybe he should just enjoy the good thing that he has and not continue to push things or whatever was behind his cold/macho attitude around me. Hearing this yesterday, it meshed with how I seemed to feel about how things went on Friday night.

As I've said all along, I have always wanted to feel that this is something that Sue wants for herself in addition to it being something I wanted to experience. Well, she finally felt that way - I could tell she did - and I really felt nothing but good feelings about it all.

She told me when she came home Saturday morning that it was one of the first times that Don truly made love to her. She said that after I left that they went up to his bedroom and she undressed herself and then undressed him and that for one of the first times she can remember, she felt truly loved by him. I was so turned on as she was saying this and she kept on telling me thank-you for letting her feel this way and for wanting it for her. It was as if it all sort of started to make sense to her.

She lay naked next to me and as I looked at her - seeing her breasts moving as she breathed - seeing her nipples hard - seeing her flushed with obvious arousal - it was such a turn on. I knew deep inside that I would enjoy this moment when it did finally happen for her. I was rock-hard in her hands and she told me how she loved that she could feel so good about what was going on.

As I said in the past that we are pretty comfortable and open in what we can talk about and at that moment, even with how tired we were, it felt so good to hear her just be able to tell me so calmly and openly about how Don had made her feel and how he'd made love to her. I asked her what was different and all she could say was that she truly felt connected to him - that there was no longer this sort of barrier between them - that maybe he'd finally relaxed about everything to finally be himself and not some macho guy or whatever.

Hearing her tell me how she'd made love to another man drove me crazy. And she knew it - there was no doubt, not from how my cock felt - it was like this was some super-Viagra or something like that because even for it being so late at night, my god, we were both so keyed up and aroused.

I loved hearing her tell me how she lay back on his bed and opened herself for him. I loved hearing her tell me how they felt so fluid together - how they moved as one - and yes, how she came all over his cock in her. It's still not something I'm totally used to - hearing her be so open about this - but at that moment, it sounded so beautiful.

Just a few minutes later she lay back the same way for me and all I could really think of at the moment was how incredible it felt knowing Don was right where I was only a little while before. Looking down - seeing her swollen and reddened pussy - seeing and feeling how wet she was from him - it totally turned me on. I ran the tip of my cock up between her pussy lips and it slid around so easily from how wet she was - she moaned loudly under me and that really got me going.

He fucked her twice - well, made love to her the first time - but then she said he did just fuck her the second time. As I played with the tip of my cock around her open pussy smearing around all of whatever was dripping out of her still - I asked her if she'd cum a lot and she smiled, giggled and moaned her response "uh huh" yes. She said she couldn't really count as at one point one simply led into the next. She said he took his time "in her" and at one point she said she felt a bit self-conscious when she became aware that he could feel her orgasm in his cock in her pussy. At hearing that, man I was so turned on that I just pushed into her. It felt like warm butter inside her - she was warm all over. I cannot describe that moment of pushing almost effortlessly into her - all I could think of was Don's big cock in her and how they'd cum together.

She wrapped her legs around me and pulled me close and we both seemed to get lost in the moment - I could feel her every movement and her every breath through my own cock in her pussy and it gave me this incredible feeling to know she'd shared this same moment with Don not an hour or two earlier. I didn't mind it at all - far from it - I loved knowing she'd felt this way earlier and now wanted to share that moment with me.

She rolled her hips back and pulled her knees back - telling me that was what she did for Don too. Looking down - seeing her pussy spread and stretched around my cock - seeing all of her so openly availalbe and so openly being given to him as well as me - it nearly made me cum on the spot. Our bodies rocked together back and forth with it seeming to feel like just my cock was moving in and out of her. And it didn't take long till we both were on the edge. She asked me something about whether I liked how she felt - and that was it, a second later I started to cum and she followed along a second after that. It was quite an intense moment - there are times when I just feel so connected to her (it's odd that they are usually after she's been with Don or, had been with Brad) - and it was one of those.

More a bit later today...
 
Happy days

Your last two posts have eased my mind considerably, setting most of my reservations to rest. The situation is now far more equitable. Don has learned that a bit of civility costs very little but can markedly improve the whole ambiance.
 
I have noticed, you lost staying power with Sue.
Maybe Don's sexual dominance is starting to show through.
 
Saturday was a busy day around here despite the rainy weather. In addition to her expecting her period probably Wednesday as she's already sort of PMS-ing, we're due to have company - her sister and brother are due to be in town with their kids and to get together next weekend for Halloween... While cleaning and such may not be terribly arousing, I have to say that even despite that, we were both still pretty horny.

When we had some time alone on both Saturday and Sunday we did talk about lots of stuff. It was obvious from how she was speaking about Don that she felt they'd connected and made a breakthrough of sorts. Yesterday evening she timidly asked me if I remembered what she'd been talking about for "after her period". Obviously I told her yes, I did and I prompted her by just saying "do you want to tell me something?". She hemmed and hawed for a moment but I wanted her to say it. Finally, in that same meek voice she said plainly "If you're okay with it, I think I'd like to be with Don 'first' after my period.". Just like that without hesitation but in a sort of questioning voice - but she had said it. "Is that what you want?" and she nodded yes but she immediately asked "are you sure you'll be okay with that?". I answered her honestly and told her that my right hand was going to be incredibly busy next week - when she saw and understood that I was serious she got this broad smile on her face and she just said "I'll make sure you enjoy yourself" and after a second she added "before AND afterwards". I told her that she'd better be "in the mood" this week as I was going to want her a lot and she said that if I gave her last night off, that she promised to be there for me until she got her period.

So - I"m all horned up for later tonight and this morning she was teasing me after she got out of the shower standing there drying off in the bathroom she did sort of the same as she did last week - she gently patted her pussy and said "do you want some of this later tonight?" and then she said "you'll need to be a good boy....".

I did ask her if she somehow felt different about Don - whether she'd suddenly fallen in love with him or anything like that. She said no, but that what I saw the other night was what how she'd known he could be based on some of the way he'd treated her and what he'd said about her when they first started getting together - when he was working on seducing her at that stage. I smiled and just reminded her to keep it under control and at one point I said to her "you're moving into the drivers seat, you need to be careful" and she gave me that same giggle and hugged me and said I was being silly and that no matter what she did with anyone else, that she'd never want to hurt us.

Before bed last night she asked me "are you turned on by what I asked you earlier?" and I just told her that she can feel my answer and put her hand on my hard cock and I told her "you can take care of that tomorrow night and see just how turned on I really am".

I know it's a big step - and I know come Monday and Tuesday of next week that I'm going probably, in some way, regret this decision - but at the same time, hearing her say she wants to fuck him first instead of me was such a turn on and such a powerful moment for us as it is really great to hear her want this for herself.
 
I don't know what you mean by "lost my staying power with Sue"?

I think Angle is remarking on the quickness getting off you mentioned the last few times in your posts, starting with the time at Don's house where Sue got you off in her hand quickly.
 
Ah yes - no denying that. The heat of the moment does get to me, especially when there has been a long build-up. But I will also admit that I am reluctant to really ride her hard when she clearly tells me she's had an active evening - of course it's sort of Catch-22 like a dog chasing it's tail. To be honest, outside of those times, I usually take quite a long time to finally get there (part of what Sue always loved about me - that she has plenty of time to cum) - sounds strange but I actually sometimes enjoy the surge and quick release. This really isn't anything new - Sue long ago noticed that I was quick on the draw when were we would have fun with toys and such where we'd be fantasizing or role-playing. She's known for ages that the whole hotwife thing was a trigger for me.
 
Thanks for keeping us updated STB. I'm glad that Don finally seems to understand the great opportunity he has to share such a wonderful lady.
 
Thanks spt - like I said, I came away from Friday night feeling more at ease myself about Don. Plus it was very arousing to hear Sue tell me what SHE wants.

Just a few minutes ago as we were cleaning up from dinner she teased me with "you'd better get me tonight, I think I'll have my period tomorrow for sure".

Now all I can think about is that this may be my last time until a week from Friday when she comes home and will be mine again. Needless to say, that thought will surely fuel my desires later tonight!
 
I would also expect, with this new found ease that everyone has, that Sue wanting an overnighter with Don will now happen sooner rather than later.
 
Marys-pet - I'm not sure about that. To be honest, it hasn't come up when we've been discussing things just yet. She seemed to be much more concerned about my being okay about what she wants next week.

I'm sure we'll have plenty of opportunity over the next week or so.
 

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