And so you should, wise call !!I totally respect that
DWilson said:.......... I do not chat much with Marquis but I called him today and asked how did the evening go with Shelly. .....
It's been a quiet week. Any thing to report?DWilson said:As some of you are engaged so I will share more details, nothing substantial
I do not chat much with Marquis but I called him today and asked how did the evening go with Shelly. He said it was great and he loved the way Shelly responded to him. He said he almost held her hand throughout their meeting. She was more open to conversation and was also open to listening to him on things which she never cared about such as his basketball team. She asked about how many games they play every month, where they are in their local league, who is his fav player, etc. and even asked him if she can come and watch some time. She never talked about sports..so ..it seems she made an attempt as well. She never told me this but she did say they had long conversations this time.
He told that they sat for 40 min after finishing the dinner and finished a few glasses of wine. For dessert he proposed to go the nearby bakery instead. He also said it's clear Shelly is not looking for one night stand and respects that. I asked him what's next and he said he will wait to hear from Shelly but he also said she wanted to meet like this a few more times. He also thanked for the choice of restaurant, it was dim lit, seats were scattered in corners and gave them good opportunity to sit and talked without being bothered about others seeing or interfering them.
That is typically never a good signmsbevw said:Almost 2 weeks and no posts. Everything okay?
So it took her years to become an overnight slut. So very common.LincsCpl said:Don’t be so negative, it took my Mrs years to finally let herself go, but when it happened it happened very fast.
It’s possibly already happened, and now DWilson is trying to process the multitude of weird emotions that hit a hubby afterwards. These emotions can leave a hubby in a total state of confusion for quite a while. I remember going through this phase for a couple of weeks.
Alternatively, maybe ordinary life and work have got in the way, meaning there really is nothing to report as yet.
It’s also possible that one of the three got cold feet, which would be understandable in these circumstances.
Either way, fingers crossed for a happy outcome for all involved.
KandJPlus said:Maybe his wife and the mover were hot for each other from the first day. They were just stalling for time to get everything arranged. Now he's out and the mover is in.