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acuriouswife
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Hi! I'm new here. My hubby has been trying to get me into this (I think) and I just am not sure I fully understand what this is all about, so please excuse my ignorance. I've spent most of the day looking and reading some posts.
Sure, we sometimes fantasize about another man or several men during sex...but this is not something I am interested in doing for real.
I'm starting to feel pressured. He keeps bringing it up during sex. There are times when it's a fun fantasy, but ALL the time? We have been married for a long time, over 20 yrs.
I see that he has been on this site and several others that show videos. The videos are quite disgusting to me, I am not turned on by them at all. He watches the so called "gang bang" ones and a LOT of the videos he watches are of men doing men. I'm starting to think he is a closet bisexual or something. I just don't know or understand! I am beside myself.
I am not sure what to do. Any advice would be appreciated. I am hesitant to confront him until I have more knowledge. I'm wondering if our marriage is a complete sham.
Sure, we sometimes fantasize about another man or several men during sex...but this is not something I am interested in doing for real.
I'm starting to feel pressured. He keeps bringing it up during sex. There are times when it's a fun fantasy, but ALL the time? We have been married for a long time, over 20 yrs.
I see that he has been on this site and several others that show videos. The videos are quite disgusting to me, I am not turned on by them at all. He watches the so called "gang bang" ones and a LOT of the videos he watches are of men doing men. I'm starting to think he is a closet bisexual or something. I just don't know or understand! I am beside myself.
I am not sure what to do. Any advice would be appreciated. I am hesitant to confront him until I have more knowledge. I'm wondering if our marriage is a complete sham.