troubled_cuck said:
I just got a whatsapp message from Carl. He said my wife was all hot and horny this morning, and invited him to come over. It was early morning, most likely just after I left for work — their first tryst since New Year's eve. Carl said he gave her 3 cream pies. Then, he added a photo of her lying in our bed — the same bed where we fucked yesterday. She was wearing her 'just-got-fucked' face. Which means, when that photo was taken, he was probably still balls deep inside her. She was smiling from ear to ear, hair in a devious mess, eyes averted sideways, completely flustered by the intensity of her orgasm.
Jeez… I hope you’re able to stay focussed sufficiently to retain your job while thinking about (and viewing) all this.
Anyway, clearly your wife was still feeling the libido rush caused by the power rush that resulted from you giving her control of the family finances….
troubled_cuck said:
And, my wife was flipping me the finger, straight into the camera.
That seems sort of extreme. I mean, couldn’t she have just waved at you…?
While Apple was developing the smart phone, I wonder if Steve Jobs (may he rest in peace) visualized men who fuck married women using it to send photos of freshly-fucked wives to their cuckolds. (Perhaps he did, while thinking along “Anything’s possible…” lines.)
troubled_cuck said:
It looks like Carl will still be around in 2016. Oh well….
You should become accustomed, if you aren’t already, to your wife having a lover… perhaps more than one, at times… indefinitely. When her relationship with Carl wears thin, most likely she’ll find other men to fuck. When the door is opened to one’s wife taking lovers, I don’t think it can be closed again.
troubled_cuck said:
So, I am definitely not calling to ask her to return my credit card. Seeing the mood she is in today, no doubt she would just laugh at me.
It’s hard to imagine a more clear-cut picture of your wife enjoying her new-found power, than her giving you the finger as her lover took her photo with his (no doubt large) cock still in her pussy, and sent it to you.
troubled_cuck said:
The way my wife is playing me, I’m not sure I will ever get my credit card back.
Sounds like that won’t happen anytime soon. Incidentally, how will your wife’s new-found financial control work? Since your credit card has your name on it, not hers, presumably she can’t use it. Will she hold it hostage (or cut it up), while she uses her own credit card, which has her name on it, to make purchases, etc., out of your joint account(s)…?
And, will your wife use her own credit card (which doubles as an ATM / bank card, I gather) to make cash withdrawals from your joint account, in order to give you your small weekly allowance…?
troubled_cuck said:
I guess I married the right woman, all right. She is a monster!
Yes, you’ve married the woman of your dreams. And, she is not hesitating to let you know she is finding it a pleasure to give you what you’ve always wanted (secretly, even if you are not yet completely out in the open about it).
troubled_cuck said:
Those remarks [Custer — about the possibility of my wife fucking Carl once or twice a week rather than once or twice a month] are hitting me harder than expected.
Sorry. That was just speculation. Since Carl sent you a phone message recently (complete with photo) letting you know he was fucking your wife, perhaps she was telling you the truth about how often they’ve been fucking.
troubled_cuck said:
I realize my wife and I have not been completely honest with each other. I have never told her about my chats with Carl. But, I can tell she isn’t completely honest with me either. She is more kinky than you might realize from what I have posted.
Your wife’s inclinations toward kinkiness, so far, have complemented your own desires for a femdom marriage with many elements most couples would consider “kinky”….
troubled_cuck said:
I am wondering if there are other things she never told me about?
The answer probably depends on how you met your wife, got to know her, and brought her to your home in Europe. You’ve said she’s from Africa. Did you advertise for a woman with some of her personality characteristics, and did she respond to your advert? After an exchange of photos and letters, did you then travel to Africa to meet her and her family? And, did you then marry her in Africa, then bring her home as your wife, thus by-passing potential difficulties with immigration?
If this is more-or-less the right picture, there are probably aspects of your wife’s background you don’t know about — things she and her family may have been reluctant to talk about, because they feared (perhaps without justification) her chances of a future with you would be jeopardized.
troubled_cuck said:
So, how do I get things out into the open? Do I open up myself, and just spill my beans to her? I am thinking about sending her a link to this thread, just to see how she reacts. This is probably a bad idea, though.
I wouldn’t do that. Since:
you agreed to your wife taking a lover (Carl, back in the days when he used a condom); and
you agreed to her becoming pregnant by Carl when it turned out you couldn’t impregnate her; and
you agreed to wear a chastity device, then an upgraded more secure version, for your wife; and
you submit to your wife giving you bare-bottom spankings whenever she feels so-inclined (which she obviously enjoys); and
you’ve turned over your credit card to her, thereby giving her control of the family finances (which has increased her libido even farther); and
you don’t object to your wife continuing to fuck Carl, even though she has already become pregnant successfully (by him);
I think you can conclude your wife has substantial understanding of what you are all about.
This might, however, be a good time to begin guiding your wife toward the concept of “loving female authority,” not to be confused with “dictatorial female authority.” A way to do so may be to order a copy of:
Sutton, Elise, 2003, Female Domination: An exploration of the male desire for loving female authority (297 pp., softcover)
and read it. If you decide it describes the kind of relationship that appeals to you, suggest your wife read it. It’s available from well-known online sources, such as Amazon.
[Disclaimer: I have no relationship with Ms. Elise, and gain nothing, financially or otherwise, from suggesting her books.]