Pretty Good Sign, I think

[Cuckykny]

Definitely another good sign...I think.

--Last night we were attending a charity event with a casino theme. We had eventually made our way to the craps table. Now we both no nothing about playing craps and it is not an easy game to learn especially after a couple of drinks, but the older gentleman helping to run the table graciously explained the game to us while the other younger man was keeping the game going for the other players. After learning the basics and putting down some bets, I innocently asked my wife if she was going to play any of the numerous side bets. She quipped back (with a huge grin), "I guess I will play the 'Field'...since that is what you like for me to do". And because she had been drinking, she was very loud when she said it. I looked at the older gentleman as I leaned in and kissed my wife (giving her my approval for the comment) and the man definitely heard her! He was being particularly helpful to us the whole evening. We played back and forth like that the whole night...it was pretty fun.

--I guess I answered my own question...'yes, my wife does think about Hotwifing/Cuckolding'.

--Aside: I did notice an interesting change in my wide's behavior when she was winning and I was losing at the casino games. The more I lost and the more she won, her personality would become more dominate and so would her confidence. She would say things (albeit playfully), 'wow, what a loser' or other remarks against my manhood. And of course with her confidence up she was definitely being more flirtatious than usual.

--Progress? I think so.

 

[Cuckykny]

Fantasy-wise things are still going strong. My wife loves being referred to as my Hotwife and playing along in the bedroom.

--One point of interest, she use to only wear her Hotwife anklet on days I was off...usually to tease me. However, I noticed she has been wearing it for 3 days straight...wearing it when I was not around. I haven't said anything, but I am hoping this is a sign she is either testing the waters and/or getting more comfortable with being recognized as a Hotwife! Additionally, she does take more time getting ready and dresses up even just to go to Costco!

--Still no good opportunity to bring up the adult/sex club visit...yet.

Cuckykny

 

[Custer Laststand]

Fantasy-wise things are still going strong. My wife loves being referred to as my Hotwife and playing along in the bedroom.

Sounds positive...

One point of interest, she use to only wear her Hotwife anklet on days I was off...usually to tease me. However, I noticed she has been wearing it for 3 days straight...wearing it when I was not around. I haven't said anything, but I am hoping this is a sign she is either testing the waters and/or getting more comfortable with being recognized as a Hotwife!

Ah... a discrete step forward, although seemingly a small step. You might find a way to compliment your wife and encourage her to wear her anklet every day...

Additionally, she takes more time getting ready and dresses up even just to go to Costco!

Great! That implies your wife recognizes other men find her sexually-attractive if she dresses for that, and is getting over the idea that she has to hide her sexuality because she's married. You might find a way to encourage her to engage in some "mild flirting" with other men she finds attractive while out and about.

Still no good opportunity to bring up the adult/sex club visit...yet. —Cuckykny

Keep at it. Have you managed to identify a swingers club somewhere in your local area...?

Incidentally, in a previous post you mentioned that your wife seems attracted to pornography. You might consider introducing her to:

http colon doubleslash www dot sensations4women dot com slash

(with, of course, the appropriate punctuation filled in). She could click open the link easily if you were to e-mail it to her.

 

[rjone]

Cuckyny..... PHOTOS!!!

Sorry man but progress is pretty slow on the hotwife developments, so we need something to hang onto... give us photos!

 

[Cuckykny]

@rjone...I posted some previously, but never received any comments desiring more. I will post another for your viewing pleasure tomorrow.

 

[Cuckykny]

--comments?

@Laststand...yes, there is an adult club relatively close to us.

 

[zippless]

Looks promising lovely back and butt. Now turn her around.

 

[Custer Laststand]

--comments?

Cool... your hotwife-in-waiting looks nice and sexy; tempting and delectable. No reason she should not expand her sexual horizons to encompass other men, thereby greatly increasing her satisfaction. Thanks for posting her photo.

Also, it's positive that your wife allowed you to photograph her almost fully nude (albeit facing away from the camera). It suggests a way for you to expand your "cuckold fantasy." You might suggest to her that she "force" you to photograph her from time to time in risqué, revealing poses... perhaps wearing a carnival or party mask each time to conceal her face, if she wishes... for purposes of building up a "library" of erotic pics. She would then be able to taunt you with sultry comments about how she intends to send them to potential lovers, and you could pretend to agonize over that. (In advance, you could assure her you won't send her photos to anyone else — unless you ask for, and she gives you, her permission — so they would remain part of your "game.")

Laststand...yes, there is an adult club relatively close to us.

Excellent. You might bring it up with some sort of indirect comment... say, "I've heard there's a club not too far from here where men can take their wives if they feel they aren't getting enough from their marriages..." (or something along those lines). Then, don't say anything further or suggest going there — just wait for her to respond. If she says nothing, say nothing further yourself... rather, just give her some time to think about it. (She will — the thought will circulate in the back of her mind.)

If your wife does respond in some way you interpret as an expression of interest, you might then go on to mention that they welcome visitors who don't want to participate (initially), but just want to observe in order to decide whether they're interested. That is, if that's the case, as I would guess it is (most likely).

 

[rjone]

Alright that is more like it

Thanks for the photo man, OK now time to get her to go out and seduce another man.

By the way, if you have a front on photo... we would all like you to show us her tits.

 

[Cuckykny]

--Enjoy.
--Comments?

 

[Tanboat05]

Your wife opened up and posed for you in a very provocative way. Just imagine another man seeing this before he pulls those panties off and enters her deep.

One idea that might relieve some of her nervousness is visit a town where you don't know anyone. Nice hotel and with a brisk hotel bar nightlife there at the hotel. Get 2 rooms that are adjoining and let her get dressed up so the guys know she is hot.

Leave early and find your own spot in the place. A dark corner 'minding your own business'.

She gives you 15 or 20 minutes, then comes down and takes her own seat at the bar.
She can let if flow and she can pick the one that she wants to fuck and let the guy work his magic right there in the bar.

Believe me, it is hot to watch and there is nothing like the feeling you are going to have watching them pick up and head for the elevators.

You need to give it 15 minutes that will be the longest 15 of your life but you need to be cool so the guys friends or the bartender doesn't think you are following them.

As you enter YOUR adjacent room, you are quiet. Once you are inside, you can open your side of the doors and hear what is happening.
And she knows if she chooses, she has a safe way to have you join if necessary. But don't count on that happening. Count on laying on your side with a raging hard on while the guy fucks the living shit out of your wife. Hearing them both moaning and going at it hard is amazing. The guy might want to sleep some and this continues through out the night until he decides he cant handle any more and leave.

When you hear the door close and yours open, seeing your wife ( and I am picturing her from your photos) maybe with a rob on and nothing else except cum, red face and tits, then the swollen lips of her well used pussy is always the most fun you guys can ever imagine. When she accepts that you are going to go down on her and she rubs the back of your head and pulls you into her is hot as you can ever think. But entering her with another man's cum will be a feeling like no other.

You guys give everything to one another and will sleep like babies. And waking up to another mans cum with yours makes you hot all over again in the morning. Trust me.

Good luck dude.

 

[Cuckykny]

--Seriously hot!

 

[Tanboat05]

--Seriously hot!

Have Mrs Cuckykny read it and tell us when she is ready for the real deal.

Did I mention she has really nice nipples?

 

[Cuckykny]

@Tanboat. Ok, this morning I told my Hotwife about your idea.

--After we woke up we were lying in bed and I told her that I had a crazy sex dream. Of course she asked me about it. So, I basically told her your idea. I told her that we were at some strange hotel getting ready to go out. Then she told me to go ahead and get us a table while she continued to get ready. As I was waiting at the table, she came down and sat at the bar. After a couple of minutes of talking with some guys she left with one. I followed her back to the room, but when I got into the room you and the guy were in the adjacent room. I couldn't see you two, but I could definitely hear you two!

--I told her it was quite erotic. She jokingly told me in my dreams...BUT, then we proceeded to have some pretty hot sex.

--I am sure I gave another idea to think about.

 

[Cuckykny]

I know she is thinking of the 'dream' I had...

--This morning she brought the dream back up asking for/about details...of the guys at the bar flirting with her, who she left with, and if was the kind of thing that really did turn me on.

--I told her I could not really see faces, but there were a mix of several guys (black, white, hispanic, etc...) and all were definitely bigger in statue to me...so I just stayed at the table you told me to get. I explained to her that I could not tell which 'lucky' guy she left with, but by the sounds from the other side of the wall I am sure he was bigger in manhood then me!

--She just gave me her usual smirk and said, "I guess our code word will be 'go get us a table'".

--I know these are small...and slow steps, but must be a good sign. And she continues to wear the anklet!

Cuckykny

 

[dano1]

I think you're doing a good job so far Cuckykny. You've got it in her mind and thinking about it. Seems to me to be a good step. When my wife and I started this process she was looking for a female to join us. She got many more males wanting to join. She asked me one day if I was ready to watch her suck a dick. So began our journey.

I'm not into humiliation nor is she. We play together with mfm's though she knows that I'm perfectly comfortable just watching if that's necessary. She did ask me why I was a voyeur. I told her I looked at it as live porn with my favorite actress. IR wasn't an issue as she dated blacks before we met. This way she gets to play with her favorite while knowing I'm there to protect her.

I think your wife is close. She may just surprise you some evening though I do agree that taking it at her speed is the best suggestion. Knowing that you'll continue to love her and you approve of her actions will make her more comfortable in playing. Your role playing goes a long way in doing that.

Your wife btw is lovely. Get her to let you take some pictures modelling that sexy lingerie she's wearing to bed.

Keep it up and good luck.

 

[Cuckykny]

Thanks for the comments. I will have her model some of the lingerie and post.

--It would be awesome if she would come home after a girls night out and surprise me with 'you are now officially a cuck' or like your wife, ask if I am really ready to watch her suck another man's cock.

--We are going out this weekend, so hopefully opportunity comes a knocking.

 

[Tanboat05]

Oh I think she is ready now. You need to get to another town where she can feel anonymous. Keep us posted.
I bet she gets wet fantasing about this. And if she is wet, she wants it to happen. Just take it low key. The actual moment it happens will be powerful for both of you.

And you need to remind her about opening the door to you

 

[Cuckykny]

Tanboat, I am sure you are right. We just need the right opportunity...mixed with a little alcohol...and I am sure she would overcome her reservations and let another man (real-man) take her beautiful body.

Fantasy play last night...last night we role played the bondage and mask scenario. I pulled her lacy lingerie top over her head leaving it wrapped around her wrists. I then put a mask over her eyes and told her I needed to lock the bedroom door. When I came back I told her that she could tell a different set of hands were rubbing her breasts and curvy hips. I told her that she wanted to see what was going on but couldn't free her hands.

--She was really squirming and moaning with each touch

As I kissed over her body, I kept reminding her that she could tell it was not her husband kissing her.

--Even as I was telling her I was not her husband kissing over her, she would passionately kiss me on my mouth.

Then I told her that I was a Bull her husband had brought over to give her what she deserves...a long, deep fucking.

--She was so wet and ready.

Then I asked her if I could fuck her. Of course, she readily agreed. Then I placed just of the head of my cock inside her wet pussy. She was bucking like crazy. Then I whispered that I was now going to fuck her, but before I could fully enter her she was already cumming like crazy!

Must be a good sign. I know I really need to introduce the adult club idea, but I just have not had a good opportunity.

 

[Cuckykny]

Another bold move. Finally an opportunity had presented itself for the adult club suggestion.

--This morning my (to be) Hotwife was getting ready for work. I came into the bedroom and caught her in nothing but her robe. As I started rubbing on her from behind I mentioned that we had never settled on the fantasy football 'prize'. Here is our conversation:

Wife: (playfully) What twisted sex thing are you going to want if you win?
Me: (nervously) hmmm, I was thinking if I win, I would like for us to visit an adult club (@Custard...I know you don't think this is the best idea, but honestly it is all I have)
Wife: (to my surprise doesn't just shoot the idea down; instead, asks) What happens at an 'adult club'?
--She thought I was referring to a strip club. AND she told me that back in college her girlfriends and her would occasionally go out to male strip clubs (Chip-n-Dale dancers). She said she always felt a little out of place, but it was fun and exciting.
--This was the first time she had told me this...this process has definitely built a better trust between us and I have learned she isn't so innocent. I let her know of my approval for her to visit these types of clubs with her girlfriends.
Me: (again nervous) Well, it is where like-minded adults go to have fun with their fantasies. We don't have to DO anything, but maybe we could find people interested in sharing our lifestyle desire. Just check it out, meet people, and have fun....learn more about Hotwifing.
Wife: Ok, but I am not sure I could relax enough to enjoy myself.
Me: (still nervous and now doing my best to hold back my excitement) Yeah, me either. But, I think it would be something fun and different for us to try.
Wife: (curious) How did you learn about adult clubs?
Me: I told her from the Cuckold community (she already knows I visit this site).
Wife: Have you checked any out?
Me: Somewhat, but I still need to find us one I think we will both enjoy.
Wife: Ok, you find your club.
Me: You never know you could still win, what do you want?
Wife: (doesn't mention what she wants) Oh, I am sure your gonna win.

--Definitely a pretty good sign. I am trying to play this cool, but I am raging hard with excitement that she did not immediately shoot down this request.

--Any adult/swing club first timer suggestions? Thanks.