Pretty Good Sign, I think

[Custer Laststand]

Just a pic, worth 1000 words. And, of course, a pretty good sign I think. [My wife] knows what it signifies and is very ok with it. [/ATTACH]
Thanks for posting a pic of your hotwife-in-waiting's black spade tattoo. It looks good. And, it looks like this may be a good time to introduce her to the site for which the index page can be found here:

Black on white; interracial sex and relationships:
http colon doubleslash moderndirections dot com slash bwsex dot htm

(substitute the indicated punctuation without spaces, of course). It's good; well-written, rational, and not pornographic. Your cuckoldress-to-be is much more likely to be intrigued than offended by it (IMO). I recommend it.

I want to add that my wife mentioned keeping me 'locked-up' for a couple of months at a time... she is obviously enjoying my [enforced] chesty, and enjoys teasing me. I told her how erotic that sounded to me. She joked that I wouldn't be able to do it. I jokingly replied that I didn't think SHE could go that long. She sexually whispered to me, 'oh, I get to keep getting mine.'

Excellent! Obviously, both you and your wife have adapted well to the concept of her being sole owner of your erections and orgasms (if any) by being sole holder of the key to your locked cock cage, and you have adapted well to that also. Clearly, that's important.

As your wife's cuckold-in-training, you should... needless to say... be providing her with cunnilingus whenever she shows the slightest desire for it, such that she comes to view you as her cuntsucker. In addition, I suggest introducing her to the pleasures of you giving her analingus, such that she becomes accustomed to that also and, as well, comes to view you as her asskisser. You might then suggest she tease you further by referring to you, in a sultry voice when you're alone together (or by whispering in your ear when you're out together in public), as "cuntsucker baby" and/or "asskisser darling."

Saraha has given you some good advice.

 

[Allen Roberts]

Dancing is a good way for a wife to get used to touching another man's hands, etc, and be inside his comfort circle. Dancing with different partners soon develops into something that feels OKAY and then of course is sitting close at the same table for drinks and conversation.

Strangers who become dancing partners can become lovers. Dancing does 80% of the work, and hugging and kissing is a natural progression when a friendship is forming quickly.

A wannabe cuckold needs to encourage his wife to dance with men as often as possible - coz it starts off holding hands innocently to complete the movements of the dance.

So glad you chimed in on this Saraha. That is a very good lesson for all of us out there wondering how to start things off.

 

[Cuckykny]

I am planning another 'date' night for July. We just have too much going on until then. I plan on hitting up a place with a strong club scene. We are not really 'club' people, but I know my wife likes to dance and I agree that this is a good venue for my wife to let down her guard and really tease me...while experimenting with her own freedom.

I don't know what all will happen, but I think it will be a good start to our desired reality of a developing a cuckold marriage.

@Custard, I will send my wife the link. I am positive she will check it out. In the Keyholder book, it mentioned allowing your caged hubby look at porn online and show the keyholder some of the videos that interest him. It will give the keyholder a better idea of what turns on the caged hubby and maybe even give the women some ideas. So, I did download some cuckold vidoes for her to watch. She has checked it out, and joked with the other night about knowing what I want. And I was worried that for sure she would have shut it off and thought what perve I must be.

I will keep you all posted, but it will be a while until we go out.

 

[Cuckykny]

Pretty good sign...

The other day my wife playfully asked what I had been chatting about with my fellow cucks. I told her that they thought we should either consider putting up an ad to see men who might be interested in her or checking out a few ads to see men who are out there to be a potential Bull. I quitely added that I thought that it would be a resonable thing for us to do. She agreed! So I am currently checking out some potential Bulls (what a sexually exciting thing to be doing.....fsearching for an Alpha male to really fuck my wife) through various websites. I thought that would be easier than posting an ad...I am sure if I posted an ad with my wife's body attached I would get more ads then I could possible sort through...with most I am sure being flakes or posers.

As soon as I find and meet a couple of potential Bulls, I am to send them to the wife for her to text/chat/call...and hopefully meet.

--She has watched the various porn video recommendations I have downloaded for her, and is good with them. I am trying to get her to feel comfortable about watching them as a couple so I can get her use to cumming while watching those bigger cocks take care of the on screen Hotwives and let her see how excited I get by seeing these wife's getting truely sexually satisfied.

--@Custard, she has not had a chance to check out the modern directions website (she has been busy).

 

[Custer Laststand]

I told [my wife] that they [forum members] thought we should either consider putting up an ad to see men who might be interested in her, or checking out a few ads to see men who are out there to be a potential Bull. I quitely added that I thought that it would be a resonable thing for us to do. She agreed! So I am currently checking out some potential Bulls (what a sexually exciting thing to be doing.....fsearching for an alpha male to really fuck my wife) through various websites.

Sounds like a good strategy...

As soon as I find and meet a couple of potential Bulls, I am to send them to my wife for her to text/chat/call...and hopefully meet.

This sounds better still. Given your wife's buy-in to this approach, obviously she should be the one to decide which adverts strike her as most appealing.

Do you have in mind actually meeting one or more candidates in person, prior to your wife screening the online adverts? Or, will the procedure be for your wife to screen the adverts first, after which you will meet the candidates that appeal to her, prior to introducing your wife to one or more of them? (The latter strategy would seem preferable...)

My wife has watched the various porn video recommendations I have downloaded for her, and is good with them. I am trying to get her to feel comfortable about watching them as a couple, so I can get her used to cumming while watching those bigger cocks take care of the on-screen hotwives and let her see how excited I get by seeing [those married women] getting truely sexually satisfied.

Excellent. Your wife is progressing...

Custard: she has not had a chance to check out the modern directions website (she has been busy).

I suggest continuing to gently encourage your wife to begin reading around on that site (the individual letters are relatively short, so she can spend whatever amount of time she wishes). Given that she is already well along in a psychological sense, I suspect it will help move her toward acceptance of the rational desirability of moving to a "cuckold husband / hot wife" form of marriage.

 

[horngylatina]

Keep it up! Sounds like its going in a positive direction. Good for you man We started slow, and clubs and dancing was def the pinnacle of change. She will get more comfortable with herself and other men...goodluck man !

 

[Cuckykny]

Just an update...but still a pretty good sign!

Things are still progressing...just more slowly than I would like, but I just keep reminding myself (while in my cage) that it is about my wife and definitely not me. And when I hear about or watch her receive a real mans cock it will be worth it.

Finding a real Bull is not that easy. I would say that there are just as many Bull - wannbes and fakes as there are husband cuck - wannbes. Our search continues, but even searching for a Bull is pretty exciting. Sometimes I cannot believe I am actually helping my wife search for an Alpha man to fuck her like she deserves, but my full-on (albeit small) erection cannot hide my sexual excitment of it all!

During sex when I ask her if I should go get her the toy/Bull, she has gotten pretty comfortable with telling me in her sexy voice that she doesn't care who fucks her she just needs it! I kiss her long and deep when she says it to let her know my approval. Additionally, when I talk about how hot she is and me being her cuck during sex, she orgasms pretty quickly. So, I know the thought of all of this is very exciting for her.

She definitely enjoys me being caged and has gotten pretty good at teasing me. The book helped.

I will keep you all posted on our continued progression and search for a Bull.

 

[Cuckykny]

Just a pretty good sign, I think.

After we got into bed for the evening, my beautiful Hotwife rolled over turning her back to me so we can spoon...our norm. But when she is feeling horny...like tonight...she will grind her ass into my groin indicating her needs. Of course, lately it has been into my cage. As I rubbed my hands over her curvy, sexy body and lifted her top over her head trapping her hands, she asked if I had been good enough to release. As I messaged and kissed her breasts, I told her that I am definitely not good enough to enter her and we really need a Bull to properly rub her body down and fuck her with his big cock.

She was getting so turned on by this talk. She requested that I go get our lotion and the Bull (dildo). As I slowly pulled down her panties to ****** her very wet pussy and her QOS tattoo, I told her how after she properly sucked the Bull hard, he would get between her legs and place the tip of his fully erect cock at the entrance of her cunt.

I got between my wife's legs and placed the toy just at the entrance of her cunt and before I could explain that the Bull would slowly penetrate her...she came hard!!

It was one of the best sexual moments we have had...and since we have been moving into cuckolding we have had quite a few. I am positive she is ready...we just need the right situation, and of course, Bull.

 

[slammer69]

Hi Cukykny, just wondered how things are progressing? I hope all is well.

 

[Cuckykny]

Thanks Slammer69.

Things are still progressing (much slower than I would like) but we are still actively pursuing the lifestyle. We still roleplay cuckolding pretty reguarly. Just last night we used the scenario where I tie her hands above her head and then go let the Bull into the bedroom to have his way with her. I had her cumming and cumming again in seconds.

I am caged for the majority of the time. I get to cum maybe once a month if I am lucky. The toy Bull has pretty much replaced me. She wears her 'Hotwife' anklet pretty much full-time; however, she tells me that no guys have said anything. I think she would tell if she had been approached because of the anklet. She has gotten very comfortable with the lifestyle choice and even refers to me as her cuck.

She has shy'd away from actively finding a Bull by posting an ad. She (and I) would like for it take place a little bit more spontaneously. However, sometimes I think she is waiting for me to find a Bull. The reason I say this, is anytime we roleplay the scenario where I let a Bull into the bedroom she gets very excited. She also gets very excited with the scenario of getting picked up at a bar.

When I ask her if she has found any guy(s) she is interested in, she denies it. She says she has found guys she is attrated to but none she would sleep with. We are planning a trip next week, so I am hopng being in an unfamiliar area may make her a little bit more open to (sexual) opportunities.

I know everyone is waiting for the update with her getting taken by an Alpha males cock and so am I!! I will post after we get from our trip.

--Feel free to let me know anything I am missing?

Cuckykny

 

[Custer Laststand]

.... [My wife] says she has found guys she is attracted to, but none she would sleep with. We are planning a trip next week, so I am hopng being in an unfamiliar area may make her a little bit more open to (sexual) opportunities. .... Feel free to let me know if there is anything I am missing. —Cuckykny

Most large hotels stay in business by attracting conferences. (Between conferences, many of them are essentially empty.) Usually, there's an "icebreaker" in the hotel bar the evening before a conference starts, and the bar is well attended each evening while a conference is in progress.

Many conference attendees, of course, are men (as well as women) who are married or have long-term partners, but during the conference they're "away from home" and unencumbered by the presence of wives and partners.

Thus, a strategy you might consider... if you haven't already... would be to monitor several of the "conference hotels" in your area, to see when they will be hosting conferences. Then, while one is in progress, accompany your wife... her suitably dressed... to the hotel bar during one of the conference evenings (say, early in the week). But, do not walk in with her. Rather, let her walk in by herself. Then, somewhat later, walk in by yourself and find a table, or sit down at the bar (not with her), as if you're a single dude.

There will be nothing "inappropriate" or "out of the ordinary" about your wife walking into a hotel bar by herself during a conference, because (almost certainly) more than a few of the attendees will be women who are there without their husbands or partners.

Since many (if not all) of the men at the conference will be "single" (in effect) during the week, and more than a little horny (especially after 1 or 2 drinks), and since their accommodations will be upstairs in the same hotel (thus readily available without making any advance arrangements), they will be optimal targets for a one-night stand with a woman who is apparently by herself, seems friendly, and signals her interest by flirting with them in the bar.

From your wife's point of view, she needn't worry about whether she "really wants" to go to bed with her candidate — rather, all she'll need will be to find him mildly appealing (because, after the conference, he'll be gone and... most likely... she'll never see him again).

From the point of view of your wife's potential one-night lover, he won't have to be concerned about complications like whether his one-nighter with your wife will destroy his marriage, for the same reason. And, it won't cost him anything, because your wife is not a **********.

From your point of view... if you and your wife adopt this strategy, I suggest arranging a way for her to let you know her "one-night-lover's" name and room number before she heads for the elevator with him. She could, for instance, ask him to excuse her while she visits the "powder room," then call you on her cell phone and give you that info.

If it works out well for your wife, she could arrange to meet her new lover in the same bar during one or more subsequent conference nights. If, however, she doesn't find it a particularly good experience, she will have gained experience as a hotwife who has accomplished her first extramarital fuck (she will no longer be a "married virgin"), will probably have some ideas about how to make future encounters of that nature better, and you will have attained your goal of becoming her cuckold, in a formal sense.

 

[zippless]

My God Custer that is hot! Going away on a conference and getting fucked by a co-worker is one thing. But going to a conference where she knows no one and having your pick of a room full of Horney strangers to choose from Wow. I would love it if my wife did that and got taken bareback with his sperm swimming inside her. Yum!

 

[oldguyfl]

Unfortunately for me while my wife is mildly interested in intercourse with a man, I have incurable ED, she is not into strangers. But this is a common way for wives to find lovers. Good suggestion.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Feel free to let me know if there's anything I am missing. —Cuckykny

Here's an addendum to my post 136 (above), which seems to have met with the approval of Zipless and Oldguyfl:

If your wife seems slightly intrigued by this suggestion (not completely put off), you might mention to her that she'll almost certainly be turned on by her knowledge that you're somewhere in the bar, watching it all happen, with your weenie trying its best to get hard, but unable to because it's locked in your chastity device, for which the only key is in her possession.

You might go on to point out the whole experience will be doubly hot for her, if she wears the key to your chastity device around her neck as if it were a necklace. When a potential candidate sits down beside her, or she sits down beside him, she will then automatically have something to talk about. The conversation might go something like this:

Strange man (SM): Nice necklace. Is that the key to your bicycle lock...?
Your wife (YW): No. It's the key to my husband's chastity device.
SM: Um... really...?
YW: Yes. I don't allow him to masturbate, or even get hard without my permission, and I certainly don't allow him to pursue other women. Keeping him locked in a chastity device solves both problems.
SM: But... doesn't that make it inconvenient for him to satisfy you, whenever the two of you feel like "doing it"...?
YW: It doesn't much matter. My husband's weenie is so small he's incapable of satisfying me, whether he's in or out of his cock cage. He's so small, he's agreed it's OK for me to seek satisfaction from other men, while he remains faithful — as if he has a choice (seductive smile).
SM: —no doubt he'll realize he has a license to proceed, and... almost certainly... will take it from there.

Regardless of the details of how it works out, it seems likely your wife will feel heavily turned on just by knowing you're totally frustrated, your teenie-weenie straining against its cage, as you watch her conversation with her lover-in-waiting unfold, him not knowing who or where you are, but gradually becoming aware he's fully licensed... in effect... to take your wife upstairs and fuck her, perhaps multiple times, throughout the night.

 

[zippless]

And the approval of my Wife Custer. She had only one problem with it because I am usually with her when she fucks another to keep her safe and I love to watch. I phoned our local convention hotel and got business rates for a room and it's about half normal price. I can get adjoining rooms and she can bring her new lover back to her room. She also suggested we get a nanny cam in the form of a bear and I can watch from the other room. She will just say the kids gave it to her to remind her of them and keep her safe.
She wants to go when there is a convention of professionals and see what happens. I'm thinking lawyers.
The only problem I will have is not busting in and fucking her straight after he is finished.
Jerking off is not an option as I want to be full of cum when he leaves the next day. Perhaps its time to purchase a chastity device. I'm not keen on that but it would stop me from masturbating as I will be surely temped.
In any event this will be the first time she will be used for an entire night like lovers. Usually she gets fucked and he leaves. She says it will truly feel like she is cheating on me and she is finally ready for that. She will ware her wearing ring so that she can feel like a total cheating slut.
She is also turned on by the thought that the guy that approaches a married woman in a bar will a dominant personality and if she is attracted to him ravage and use her body. She of course resist his advances and then give in totally and completely.
Don't mean to hijack this thread but might be some good suggestions here to calm some of cuckneys wife's apprehensions.
I can hardly wait.
Thanks Custer

 

[Cuckykny]

Just an update...

I am starting to think cuckolding and unicorns have a lot in common...both may just be fantasy for me. And while I do enjoy the fantasy aspect, I know I truely desire for her to experience a fucking only a Bull can deliver...not a husband.

--Our trip to New Orleans was a blast. To spare everyone from the suspense and to my dismay, the wife did not hook up with anyone. We did have a good time and on a positive note she did dance with a couple of strangers on the packed dance floor; however, when the singers/DJ would take a break they would part ways with my wife coming to our table and the guys getting lost into the crowd of people. It was sexually thrilling for me to watch her on the dance floor with other men having a good time. I will say at the end of that night she did end up on her knees sucking me off and letting me shot my load onto her tits. Very awesome.

--I did put an ad out looking for a potential Bull to meet us at a local club and try to seduce my wife, but no takers. Maybe it was the short notice or maybe there are few Bulls outside the porn industry. Who would have thought it would take so much work to get one's wife laid.

--All I can say is to the current cuck's bravo! I hope to join you one day in the lifestyle. And for the men whose wife's introduced them to the lifestyle...you are so very damn lucky.

--Here is where I am....wife has QOS tattoo, I am in chasity, we role play in/out of the bedroom, watched porn, and visited websites together. Hopefully she will come around soon.

--Here is how our sex went last night...after getting her semi-naked (only her panties on), I begin to slowly to pull her panties down her thigh's and began telling her what a hotwife she is and how beautiful she is...and that she deserves a real man to rub down her body. How she should order me to find her a Bull with a real cock. (With this talk she was very wet and moaning, and being very submissive, bring her hands above her head). As I slowly penetrated her with my fingers and rubbing/licking her clit, I told her the Bull would penetrate her deep and hard. As I brought her to orgasm she came hard...crushing my fingers! She told me what a good cuck I had been, but denied me...said she was too sensative to continue.

--I feel I/we must be somewhere near the border of fantasy and reality...but wondering if maybe I don't act drastically will I be forever stuck in fantasy? Always looking for solid advice.

Thanks.
Cuckykny

 

[Nazareth]

The only advice I can offer is to apply patience. Trying to 'rush' things can have the opposite effect you desire.
I doubt I could tell you much more than what you have already thought of. But don't give up!

It reads as if you are off to a good start, keep that going! Continue to engage her in fantasy at every opportunity. Tell her how good she would look being pleasured by another man, and you would love to see her beauty in those moments.
Do you typically use toys in foreplay or to achieve orgasm? Perhaps it's time for a "new" one....

Best wishes for success. I totally understand the desire.

 

[Horny wolf]

Patience... patience...

 

[Cuckykny]

Do you typically use toys in foreplay or to achieve orgasm? Perhaps it's time for a "new" one...

We do. We have a 9" Black, vibrating dildo that we refer to as the Bull. It gets plenty of action...defintely more than me.

What were you thinking? Maybe something with a little more girth?

 

[Cuckykny]

Pretty good sign...I think.

I had been thinking about 2Wheel's post (wife stalling) and my current situation. Even though my wife has been open to developing a cuckold relationship, we really have not moved towards finding a Bull. So, last night during sex I took the fantasy roleplay a different direction that led to some exciting, open discussion.

During roleplay (eventhough I was caged, I played the Bull), I told my wife that I am so happy her husband set us up on a date...as I began to slowly work my hands around her breasts and hips. Then I told her, after going out for drinks and dancing, we decided to come back to my place for a drink. After a drink (or two), we started to get a little bit more comfortable. I told her, she knows she should leave...after all this is our first 'date', but after a few kisses along her neck, she knows she is going no where. I told her how (me) her caged husband is so turned on knowing his wife is about to experience a larger man's cock and having the sex a smaller caged husband cannot deliver.

--Her nipples were at full attention as I creased her body with the Bull (toy). As I slowly penetrated her with the toy, I told now she can tell her husband he is a real cuck. I eventually had her cumming/screaming!

Afterwards, we discussed where we are with cuckolding.

1. She told me that cuckolding me does turn her on.

2. We both find her having sex with another man would in fact enhance our marriage...and sex life. She admits that she does get a little bored with it, but is at times afraid to say anything (respect for me and how she was brought up to think about sex)

3. The #1 reason she has not been looking very hard for a Bull/Dom is that she is worried they will end up being creepy. (I thought this was interesting...not pregnancy or diseases)

--The only other reason is societal guilt. Which she says she is getting more comfortable with.

4. She would be more comfortable with cuckolding me with someone she knew and/or a common friend (she did say none of our current common friends...maybe I should become friends with Alpha males or maybe get to know her male friends). She said she would consider a one-nighter, but would perfer to be in a relationship with the Bull. She says for her sex is really about the relationship/mental (which is common for women, I think).

This is good for me know. I have not been considering roleplay scenario's that involve her and her 'BF'. But more of my fantasy's that involve more of one-night stands...heat of the moment scenarios. Hopefully, her getting comfortable with me knwoing she has a BF will hopefully move us in the right direction.

Her having a BF does sexually excite me, but also scares me a bit. Look forward to hearing from cuck's that thought they were getting into one-and-done situations, but wive's ended up in a BF situation. How did/is it going? Thanks.

I am feeling pretty good about my chances of becoming a cuck.

cuckykny