As you see it isn't just Mike. He is just someone she is really interested in from college and feels comfortable being with him. That is big for her.Raks said:Dear Bobby,
I am really sorry if I sounded very offensive last time. You have to understand that I have nothing to gain from these comments except to put new light on what you are thinking and going to do.
If Sue and you have thought out well and discussed it well, no problems. What I do not understand is
1) Why it can't be someone else if you do not like Mike?
2) Why you are communicating to Sue through her friends and why don't we see any passage on communication between you and your wife?
3) I might agree that her friends might be teasing you, to know your boundaries, why do they need to humiliate you?
4) And why the emphasis on impregnation?
Sorry if sound obnoxious again, but dear bobby these are the questions that need answers for you. Step into any relationship and any lifestyle with your eyes open and heart open and you may not regret. If you find my comments offensive, what would happen if Sue were really to do it and some one real in your life said the same things to you as I did.
Regards
My wife and I do communicate. i dont post everything in my life. I do good to get all this up.
They arent trying to humiliate me. Sorry if it comes across like that.
impregnation doesnt come up alot. it just gets mentioned here when it does. They want me to be aware that it could happen. We dont want it to, but it is a possibility. Jill especially wants me to know what could happen. That is a sign of a good friend.