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[tegelad]

I would agree with jwff ... since she was really irritated with you when you were using her for phone-sex. One of the boundries you could push yourself with her is through the use of chastity. You can share with her that not only do you love and treasure her, but you can show her through an action like that. There are multiple awesome websites dedicated to the service of women through chastity and the act/devices themself. chastityforum, chastitymansion etc. ....

If you do go down the "Rabbit's hole" ... take your time and work your way up with it. Given your excitement and hormone levels it will be a hard but very beneficial journey. There are spins/activities you could wrap around this. E.g. you can use your motivation of the fantasy turning into reality as one goal, another could be through going to the gym and buffing up, losing weight, getting a six pack, hitting your academic goals.

I wouldn't drop the chastity bomb directly on her, but would work up in a way (if you do this) that states you love her so much that you want to better yourself through not fapping, self-abuse, masturbation etc. Probe and see if that fits and seems ok to her ... if she is good, then after you are locked (if it goes that far and if you can make sure easy access to the key isn't there), then work on really working her up and making her horny .... things may fall into place faster ....

cheers ...

thanks jwff for advice. but right now i want to do a test run to see if i am comfortable in chastity or now.

 

[Custer Laststand]

.... I always wanted to try wearing a chastity device, and I am thinking after thanksgiving i will buy one and see how long can i go without masturbation.

If you want to wear a chastity device, that's easy. Just buy one and lock it on yourself (after shaving your pubic hair). But, it won't make any sense to be your own key holder. Rather, you should give the key to Jen with instructions to her that she should unlock you briefly, to masturbate, only when when she is pleased with your behavior (but not more often than once per week). Jen will then quickly come to see the advantages of having her boyfriend (you), and perhaps eventually her husband, kept in a cock cage.

Does long-term chastity actually shrink one's penis?

I've read that if one's cock is kept locked in a chastity device for as long as a year (possibly 6 months to a year) without release, it will shrink to about half its original size. Also, one's penis skin loses its elasticity due to one's inability to become erect. And, you would probably lose your ability to become erect under any circumstance after a year continuously in a cock cage. I don't know whether one regains one's ability to become erect eventually, after extended lock-up. So, there are disadvantages that can be summarized by the maxim: "Use it or lose it."

If, however, your girlfriend were to unlock you once a week so you could masturbate for her amusement, then that may be sufficient for you to maintain your functionality (so to speak). She could, for instance, require you to strip, then masturbate on your knees in front of her while she relaxes in her easy chair sipping her favorite drink, then require you to ejaculate into her hand, then lick up and swallow your own cum.

Some women like to watch a man masturbating on his knees before them, in the nude, while they're fully dressed. Perhaps your girlfriend is among them. If so, you might suggest to her that she could require you to perform for her in this way (say) once a week, while she seeks and finds sexual satisfaction with other men — say, Aaron.

 

[George]

Daniel, How was Jen's weekend with Aaron?

 

[smallcockedcuck916]

I am very anxious to know that as well george!

 

[danwcap]

Adding my voice to the chorus. I keep checking hoping for an update. Hope all is well.

 

[Saraha]

It would be very nice if Daniel can progressively explain to us all, over several weeks, what being a cuckold would mean to him, where his ideas came from, what websites he looks at, what articles he has read to feel that being a cuckold could be more important to him than a vanilla marriage?

What makes men turn into cuckolds? Is it the pressures of life? Where does the desire to be submissive come from?

Daniel has repetedly said that Jennifer's happiness is very important, and he wants her to remember her College days as having been fun times - rather than only being able to have a two-day a week boyfriend (Daniel).

Daniel wants Jennifer to date other boyfriends on the other 5 days of the week ............ but Daniel still wants to marry Jennifer, so he is a little bit worried that he could lose her if Jennifer only dates one guy such as "horny handsome Aaron").

Daniel would prefer Jennifer to date quite a few guys, rather than just one who might try to get a wedding ring on her finger ................ and cut Daniel out of her life completely.

Listening to a young man open up his head to where he wants to take his cuckold thoughts, is of huge interest to a lot of us. We don't see cuckold wishes being a weakness at all. I (for one) think it is about Daniel wanting to express/enjoy his deepest secrets in a meaningful way.

There was a time when society thought that only one women in 57 had same gender desires, and now we have things like, "I kissed a girl and I liked it". Society and religion have frightened women from forming same gender relations (openly), but research suggests that up to 82% of women do feel sexual arousal when they see both men and women naked in photographs.

Men in general are frightened to admit they may have a curiosity about gay sex. They feel they may be ostracised by society if they admitted wanting to experience a cock up their ass at least once in their life.

I truly appreciate the efforts of Daniel talking about how he wants to try out a chastity device to see if he can fit it into his relationship with Jennifer. It is a way he can prove to his long-term girlfriend that he can "walk the talk", and she truly has the permission she needs to date men of her choice without any rules or restrictions........... and to have a lot of fun doing it.

Daniel has told Jennifer that she can have sex with Aaron if she feels ready for it.

Jennifer is holding out in her mind to lose her virginity to Daniel first. Aaron is pushing to get his "leg over first", so if Daniel likes the chastity device, yes it is highly likely that Aaron will be the first to shoot his sperm inside Jen's "garden".

 

[Saraha]

Men who don't think about sex much, tend to have smaller cocks.

If a man has difficulties with forming friendships with women, then he won't get as many erections (other than masturbation).

 

[Daniel97]

Here’s a quick update. Jen and aaron weekend did not went well. Jen told aaron the truth about us on Sunday and he was very angry he, jen talked with him and he told jen he need some time to think.
Jen was very sad about it and I went to jen room to comfort her. I dont know what happened on Saturday but Sunday was a bust. Jen told me she felt very guilty after Saturday date and wanted aaron to know the truth.
I was able to cheer jen, she is better right now and she said she will talk to aaron tomorrow (today). She want to continue dating aaron if aaron agrees but don’t want to lie to him about our relationship.
Jen told me aaron was very angry at me but jen stoped him from doing anything stupid and I should not meet him for sometime until things cool down.

I wanted to get details about Saturday date but didn’t want to bother jen right now. I tried contacting jen on Saturday around 10 to midnight but was unable to reach her so most probably with aaron at that time and might have spent night at his room. Will try to get more details on Saturday date once things cool down.

 

[George]

Thank you for the update.
While we can all guess, what specifically did Jen tell Aaron? What aspects did she emphasize, especially when she wants Aaron to keep dating her?

Aaron sharing romantic feelings for her while is living a lie vis-a-vis him was to much for her, so she did the right thing; she revealed the truth. But what is that truth today? Date Aaron? Sleep with Aaron? Lrt's just be friends with Aaron? Hey, Aaron, you can try to get me to dump Daniel? What?

You should thank her for resolving some of your conundrums. It appears she is fighting harder to keep your relationship than you are.

 

[smallcockedcuck916]

In the short term it seems doom and gloom, but it could turn into exactly what you want where aaron is her bull and takes her virginity to spite you for doing what you did to him, if he hasn't already taken it saturday night!

 

[George]

Sahara,
I wonder if your views would change if the following were likely.
Jen, like most college students, quickly decides not to go home on the weekends.
Aaron or future Aarons want to spend the weekend with Jen.
Jen's roommate doesn't like Daniel and tells Jen she's better than him.
Jen doesn't want the reputation of having different boys in her room on alternate nights.
Daniel's still a 1-hour cab ride away and has no private place to take her when he visits her.
The result? The sharing ratio is not 5 to 2. It's 6.5 to 0.5.

 

[Saraha]

I hope that Jennifer can smooth things over, and keep Aaron close to her heart. She may have to make some promises.

Imagine the complication ..... if Aaron was to suddenly confess to Jennifer that he is a wannabe cuckold himself?

Enough twists and turns to make a Hollywood Movie?

Jennifer still being a virgin is significant; and also the fact she has never wanted to deceive Aaron.

Will it be water pistols, plastic swords, paper darts, fists or abusive e-mail ... when the two men decide to square off?

Jennifer did say it was a Trial for one month only, and that Daniel was not to mention cuckoldry again after that time.

I guess Jennifer had no eye-deer that she would get to like Aaron so quickly. Now she is fighting to keep him in her life. I am keeping my fingers and thumbs crossed that she can.

 

[jwff]

Here’s a quick update. Jen and aaron weekend did not went well. Jen told aaron the truth about us on Sunday and he was very angry he, jen talked with him and he told jen he need some time to think.
Jen was very sad about it and I went to jen room to comfort her. I dont know what happened on Saturday but Sunday was a bust. Jen told me she felt very guilty after Saturday date and wanted aaron to know the truth.
I was able to cheer jen, she is better right now and she said she will talk to aaron tomorrow (today). She want to continue dating aaron if aaron agrees but don’t want to lie to him about our relationship.
Jen told me aaron was very angry at me but jen stoped him from doing anything stupid and I should not meet him for sometime until things cool down.

Ouch. That seems to have gone about as badly as was imaginable. Lets hope that Aaron is a bright guy, and clears his head in the intervening time.

Meanwhile, you should do everything you can to comfort Jen, especially when you two meet up on Thanksgiving. I imagine that Sunday wasn't a very fun day for her.

I will reiterate that, when things cool down a little, you should both seriously discuss your mutual expectations and a joint strategy for moving forward. Without coming to a consensus, it's possible that surprise debacles like this could happen again.

Thanks for sharing, even if things didn't turn out so rosy. Here's hoping that it's all up from here.

***

Imagine the complication ..... if Aaron was to suddenly confess to Jennifer that he is a wannabe cuckold himself?

This would be very funny.

 

[SquirmingSub]

Well it would seem that Jen established the basis for a much more open cuckold relationship moving forward if it were to go there or this was her way to put a stop to it all.

 

[Daniel97]

Jen told me she met aaron today he was in better mood than yesterday. They spent the whole lunch talking about their relationship. Aaron told her he still want to continue dating jen but don’t want to date jen if she is dating him just to please daniel. She told him she wants also wants to date aaron because she likes him not to please me. But she also told him she love me and if aaron is uncomfortable with that then they have problem. Obviously Aaron agreed to her offer and told her he does not care about me, he knew jen had a bf and now he knows who her bf is nothing much have changed. He also said losing jen over Daniel was not a good deal.

Jen said they kissed each other and stayed together for remaining classes. And went to his room to “talk” and collect things she forgot in his room this weekend. I asked jen to give me details but she said she was embarrassed. I asked her if they did anything that we haven’t done she told today they didn’t anything except light make out but on Saturday aaron is become the first guy to see her completely naked. I literally explored in my pants at that moment. She asked me if I was ok with this development and I told her it was great and she can share any detail with me as I am her best friend before her boyfriend And I will love her forever. Jen teased me that I will become second guy to see her naked if I was good boy. I don’t think jen realised her choice of words but man it was hot.

I asked jen more about her Saturday date now she was more open. She told me after going to his room they talked a bit, afterwards aaron put a romantic movies in laptop. But aaron kept kissing and biting her neck and shoulders. Soon they were making out and laptop was no longer in bed. They removed each other cloths and were completely naked. I asked her how big was Aaron penis she told me it was similar to penis she have seen in porn. ( just to be clear jen have only watched softcore porn where guys are 6-7 inches or so, so aaron is not 10 inches hunk ).
I asked her if he sucked her breast she told me he touched her breast softly at sides first and slowly moved to her nipples then he sucked on her nipple. Jen asked me if I was playing with myself, of course I lied to her about it but she caught me again. I told her I liked hearing about her and aaron and I have not masturbated since last time she caught me and If I don’t now I will get blue balls. Jen told me I could continue if I promise not to moan, I don’t not even knew I was moaning.

Anyways I asked her if he touched her pussy she told me he did for few seconds but she stopped him. I asked her why she told me she did not want situation to go out of control and she was not ready for that step yet. I asked her if he did anything else not much but she gave him hand job. She told me it was awkward at first and she hurt aaron a little then he got oil from bathroom and then it was much easier. I asked if aaron cummed. She told me they were making out while sitting first jen played with his penis. Then they laid next to each other and jen continued jacking him suddenly he told her he want to cum on her and moved on top of her and wrapped his hand around her and started pumping very fast and came all over her. Before coming his penis become very hard and twitchy so she closed her eyes and felt worm liquid land on her. She told me she liked the feeling of his cum on her it air was cold but where his cum touched her it felt hot. I forgot to mention I can already once hearing jen and now I begin to abuse my poor semi erect penis.

Afterwards aaron asked jen if she can stay with him tonight since it was already too late but jen told him their room are only 5mins away and she is not yet ready to sleep together. On the way to her room aaron asked jen if she have ever given handjob to her other (at this point he does not know I am her bf). And she told him that her other bf and not even seen her topless. Aaron was shocked to hear this and asked how is that possible she and her bf date throughout college. Jen just replied its complicated but I am sure aaron confidence must have boosted.

I tried calling and sending apologies msg to aaron but he have not replied I hope he is not planning any ass kicking. I think to day went better than expected and maybe jen and aaron will go back to making out naked again after thanksgiving.
Only two days to holidays I might not be able to give updates till that time. Too much work to do.

Jen likes aaron cum in her body how long before she begin to like his cum in her mouth and inside her.

 

[Daniel97]

Sahara,
I wonder if your views would change if the following were likely.
Jen, like most college students, quickly decides not to go home on the weekends.
Aaron or future Aarons want to spend the weekend with Jen.
Jen's roommate doesn't like Daniel and tells Jen she's better than him.
Jen doesn't want the reputation of having different boys in her room on alternate nights.
Daniel's still a 1-hour cab ride away and has no private place to take her when he visits her.
The result? The sharing ratio is not 5 to 2. It's 6.5 to 0.5.

i would also love to hear sahara's view on this as the ratio mention by George seems more accurate.

 

[George]

Daniel, Thanksgiving or the day after, you need to get naked with Jen and rub her to orgasm. She can give you a hand job. Don't talk about your wants and needs. Get her and your clothes off. She's ready and you need to be ready for her. Thanksgiving needs to be 'Jen' time, not Daniel time. Aaron will screw her the first opportunity after thanksgiving as previously predicted. You need to be in the game or you will be left behind, possibly never to catch up again. Don't lose her.

 

[Saraha]

My personal fantasy is for Aaron to have sex with Jennifer at least 20 times, before Daniel is allowed permission to even attempt to "get his leg over".

The more opportunities for Aaron and Jen to be alone in HIS BEDROOM, the better. They have started lying naked together, and now feel good about this quantum (and important) leap forward.

A few days ago, Aaron tried to pull Jen's jeans down and she stopped him, so hearing the "cuckold truth" has helped Jen to progress emotionally to FULL NAKEDNESS.

I think Daniel should ask Jennifer if she has a contraception plan for when her and Aaron start having sex together?

I wonder if Jennifer will bring Aaron's condoms home to Daniel after sex, so he can empty them with his tongue? It would make my day if Daniel confessed that that had started happening.

I think it is absolutely wonderful how quickly events are moving forward now - Jen has gone from, "no I don't want to do it", to now feeling good lying in bed naked with a guy she only met recently;

"no you can't pull my jeans off", to letting her/aaron's nakedness be eye candy for each other.

"Aaron's cock is the size of the cocks in the video" - Jen's Fairy Godmother must have waved her wand.

I would like to be a fly on the ceiling when Aaron and Jen are kissing.

I am thrilled that Jen is getting her nipples sucked vigorously, because years of dreaming about that means she has needed that to happen for far too long.

Soon, and very soon, Jen will have a comparison chart in her diary.

When a man wishes to be a cuckold for a whole year, he can attract it like a magnet because it is a dream that keeps building up.

When you encourage your girlfriend/wife to share her body with other men, she can sometimes become hoplessly addicted to doing that in a short time-frame.

Be careful what you wish for, because dreams often cum true.

 

[Saraha]

A lot of guys expect their wife or girlfriend to date many boyfriends, but it is much more satisfying for females to wrap love around sex. One night stands can cause loneliness in the days that follow.

A guy might be able to fuck 10 girls a month without feeling he is taking advantage of their horny pussies.

It is important for Jen to date only one guy other than Daniel, until she has become fully immersed into the cuckold world.

If Jen eventually marries Daniel, she will be able to bring many men home during their marriage - and Daniel can sleep in the guest room and serve beakfast in bed to them the next morning.

Daniel may struggle with his emotions from now onwards, but that is to be expected.

Daniel is very lucky that Jen is giving him all the detail he requests, even if she feels a tad red-faced admitting what the details are.

Once Aaron takes Jen's virginity, Aaron will be over the moon.

 

[Saraha]

Once Jen has had sex with her two boyfriends, she could easily have sex with many more .......... now the "door" has opened up. All the "I can't do this bridges have been crossed".

She is 18, an adult, and can follow her dreams ............... as well as Daniel's cuckold dream.