Was your old man a cuckold?
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robandkate said:
I am sure I have mentioned this before although when I married my second wife, it was similar to your arrangement with your wife Kate. My than wife also began fucking her ex-husband again after we married. While they did not have a great marriage outside of the bedroom, they did have an amazing sex life. Similar to your arrangement, her ex-husband was not aware that I knew, encouraged and supported their union. What made our situation a bit interesting was that fact that her ex-husband was really good friends with her step-brothers and seemingly her ex-husband bragged to them about fucking his ex-wife.
SquirmingSub said:
That is hot! Kate letting her ex-husband fuck her after we got married was very erotic. She did not miss him when they divorced but she did miss his big cock. Letting him keep fucking her just made sense LOL. He always fucked her in our bed and I would take her right back to our bed when I got home and eat her pussy and fuck her where he had just fucked her.
I loved that her ex thought she was cheating on me just to get his big dick. He had no idea that I ate his cum out of her every time he fucked her. I liked being around Kate's ex and his new wife at family events after he started fucking Kate again. It was a hot secret.
Kate's ex had no idea that he was just one of a number of men who were fucking Kate.
I think it is hot that your wife's step-brothers may have known that her ex was still fucking her. Kate's brother knows that she dates other guys with my approval and encouragement but I'm not sure if he knew that her ex was fucking her again after we got married.
Kate's brother has stopped by the house unannounced and interrupted Kate when she was entertaining other men. We did not mind him knowing that she was fucking other guys, in fact, her brother knows several of our friends who have fucked his sister, but we did get him to start calling before he comes by the house LOL. Kate's bother has come to the house at times to hang out with me when Kate is out on dates with other guys.
nerdyandwhite said:
As adults we sometimes due not always realize how attentive our children are to everything that goes on in and around the home. During my 2nd marriage, my children from my 1st marriage lived with us full time and did pickup on the fact that their step-mom had some 'close' friends that sometimes slept over.
I think that each of our kids suspected that we did not have a 'normal' relationship months before each of them asked about it.
Our son was 18 when he asked if we were 'swingers'. We asked why he would ask such a thing and he said that all of his friends think his mom is hot and that we have more male friends than any of his friend's mom and dad.
His younger sister asked about it when she was 16. She caught Kate looking at pics on her computer of a black guy with a stiff cock. Kate did not realize our daughter had come home. They were pics that one of Kate's boyfriends had sent her.
They do pay attention.
Our son was 18 when he asked if we were 'swingers'. We asked why he would ask such a thing and he said that all of his friends think his mom is hot and that we have more male friends than any of his friend's mom and dad.
His younger sister asked about it when she was 16. She caught Kate looking at pics on her computer of a black guy with a stiff cock. Kate did not realize our daughter had come home. They were pics that one of Kate's boyfriends had sent her.
They do pay attention.
As a boy I remember being introduced to Uncles who came to stay with us and at the time didn't think that there was anything strange about it but about over 40 years later that I found out the truth.
After keeping our lifestyle secret for about 4 stressful years we decided that it would be best to let all of our family and friend know before we were found out. For some reason Karen was on her own when she told my mother and it was a bit of a shock to be told that my mother was not surprised and that she'd told Karen that "if I'd been her husband she would have cuckolded me too"
Even after this the penny don't drop but from that point on my mother and Karen became very pally and she enjoyed chatting to Karen and always wanted to know about her men friends. Since her meeting other guys was common knowledge Karen was never embarrassed if someone saw her with one of her young black friends and was happy to chat with my mother about them. Fairly early in these exchanges my mother expressed her regret that there were few if any black guys in the UK when she was younger and that there were none where she lived. These conversation carried on on an occasional basis until she passed but a couple of month before them she told Karen that she was doing the right thing by cuckolding me and that she was not at all surprised because she'd done the same to my dad.
At the time Karen didn't tell me about this and might not have done if we'd not found a small leather suitcase under the bed when we were clearing my mothers things. The silk lingerie it contained was a shock to me but just brought a smile to my wife's face but we were surprised to see the contents of an envelope that was in the bottom of the case. I hadn't remembered how attractive my mother was in her younger day but seeing the glamour poses of her wearing the lingerie soon brought it back and the erotic photos, that I realised later must have been taken by my father, prompted Karen to tell me about my mothers recent confession.
I'm sure a lot of us think that pornography is a recent phenomenon but those black and white photographs were quite explicit and were obviously taken over a fairly long period of time and when we examined them carefully later featured fourteen different men. Sadly there were no faces but I doubt I would have recognised any of my "uncles" after so long but it did show that my mother had a very active sex-life when she was cuckolding my father and that it is something that seems to be running in our family. I was pleased to see how happy my mother was when she was being fucked and like Karen she seemed to have a liking for anal sex.
In the beginning we were thinking to keep the suitcase and the contents but we soon came to the conclusion that it would be best to shred the photos although we still have the suitcase with it's silky contents.
After keeping our lifestyle secret for about 4 stressful years we decided that it would be best to let all of our family and friend know before we were found out. For some reason Karen was on her own when she told my mother and it was a bit of a shock to be told that my mother was not surprised and that she'd told Karen that "if I'd been her husband she would have cuckolded me too"
Even after this the penny don't drop but from that point on my mother and Karen became very pally and she enjoyed chatting to Karen and always wanted to know about her men friends. Since her meeting other guys was common knowledge Karen was never embarrassed if someone saw her with one of her young black friends and was happy to chat with my mother about them. Fairly early in these exchanges my mother expressed her regret that there were few if any black guys in the UK when she was younger and that there were none where she lived. These conversation carried on on an occasional basis until she passed but a couple of month before them she told Karen that she was doing the right thing by cuckolding me and that she was not at all surprised because she'd done the same to my dad.
At the time Karen didn't tell me about this and might not have done if we'd not found a small leather suitcase under the bed when we were clearing my mothers things. The silk lingerie it contained was a shock to me but just brought a smile to my wife's face but we were surprised to see the contents of an envelope that was in the bottom of the case. I hadn't remembered how attractive my mother was in her younger day but seeing the glamour poses of her wearing the lingerie soon brought it back and the erotic photos, that I realised later must have been taken by my father, prompted Karen to tell me about my mothers recent confession.
I'm sure a lot of us think that pornography is a recent phenomenon but those black and white photographs were quite explicit and were obviously taken over a fairly long period of time and when we examined them carefully later featured fourteen different men. Sadly there were no faces but I doubt I would have recognised any of my "uncles" after so long but it did show that my mother had a very active sex-life when she was cuckolding my father and that it is something that seems to be running in our family. I was pleased to see how happy my mother was when she was being fucked and like Karen she seemed to have a liking for anal sex.
In the beginning we were thinking to keep the suitcase and the contents but we soon came to the conclusion that it would be best to shred the photos although we still have the suitcase with it's silky contents.
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I think somethings are best retained as a memory and out of respect to my late mother it was right that the photos were not put in jeopardy.mwdad said:
I presume that my mother kept the contents of the suitcase because it held some wonderful memories for her and that In her twilight years she was able recall them thanks to the photos and her conversations with my wife. The fact that we were able to identify that she'd been photographed with so many guys and not just one suggests that it was a long term commitment and as they were all taken in my parents bedroom my father must have been the photographer.
I know from our own experience that most of the guys that Karen's met didn't want an audience and if it was the same for my parents the guys that allowed themselves to be photographed must have been a small proportion of the guys she actually cuckolded him with. Sadly my father passed when I was just 21, like me he was nearly twenty years older than his wife, so his enjoyment of the lifestyle was cut short but it's was good to hear from Karen that my mom approved of my unknowingly following in his footsteps.
So although they have been consigned to history I still have the vivid memory of my mom's wonderful smile as the cocks were fucking into her and it mimics what I see when I watch Karen other than the fact that my wife does not have a huge bush and all the guys she does it with are black
My dad was a successful businessman. A super Alpha. He was traveling the world for business and women. He married my mom (10years younger) who was working as a model. When I was around 4 he decided to leave for another country and woman. I grew up with my mom with all the goods. She didn't lose her strength, after a while men of all races (rare for Greek standards in the 80s) were visiting our house. Parties, big meals were our typical week. Many times I 've seen her kissing black men. After some time it was just our secret. I don't know why but I also liked black men since i was a kid. I was really feminine and looked like my mom so I like the idea of being her. My mom found out when she noticed me "borrowing" some vhs interracial porn she used to own or dressing up with some of her accessories and other stuff which belong to another post I guess. That was our secret. As for my father, I had no characteristics of his personality at all. I was always sub to women, I'd never conquer a female-I was maybe lucky to have good looks and have those I liked. Girls were always telling me after a while I'm too kind and sweet.. if you're familiar with those words you know what they mean
mwdad said:
We were honest and direct with them, but careful not to tell them more than they each wanted to know. Our son was very inquisitive. He actually wanted to know which of our male friends were fucking his mom. He was surprised to find out the names of some of the guys. I think that he was also surprised to learn how many guys he had met who were fucking his mom. Our daughter was less inquisitive but she did have questions. She was curious about why her mom had some black boyfriends. Kate explained it to her.
I think every generation thinks that they discovered everything and that their parents don't know what it is to be young or understand them. Of course it's not true and when parents caution their children it is nearly always about something that they did that didn't work out although they're not going to say that it went wrong for them. The obverse of this is that they don't caution them as was the case with my mother for many years before we found out the truth about my parents.mwdad said:
I'm not sure I would call it comforting but it is certainly reassuring to know that marital sexual intercourse is not a precursor for a happy and successful marriage and that an alternative, albeit one that many see as perverse, sex-life worked for my parents too. It's a pity that my parents kept it secret so that when Karen started to cuckold me we'd no idea what the outcome would be. I'm also sure from my mothers discussions with my wife that she regrets not being able to do it with black guys herself, which I'm sure my father would have approved of and enjoyed photographing.
The sad thing about all of this is that my mother did not live to see her new grandchildren. Letting one of the guys fuck a baby into her was not something that my wife had discussed with my mother but since she'd always admired the fact that we'd been open about our relationship and not lived with what many would see as a guilty secret I'm sure she would have approved. She was all for Karen being open about the nature of our sex-life and I think she would enjoy the fact that her daughter-in-law had brave enough to let nature take it's course so that anyone who saw us as a family would know that my wife was cuckolding me with black guy.
I am thjnking that a biracial baby sends a rather strong message about the nature of your family. Although there are other explanations possible, most often the simplest is the most probable, which means that you are being tagged as a cuckold whenever you are out as a family. I have nothing but admiration for the bravery of both you and your wife.RobCuckToKaren said:
Karen had always been against the idea until Obi came to live with us and when we told our friends she was pregnant everyone though that she'd made a mistake with her birth control and even though we told them it was planned I know that a lot didn't believe us. After Kwesi was born I was so happy to hear that my wife had got the taste for it and wanted more and now that we've got the two boys and Karen is pregnant again I think every ones got the message that we see biracial children as part of our family and don't mind everyone knowing that.mwdad said:
I've never been ashamed about being a cuckold and of course Obi likes to tease me about his making sure that everyone can see that I am.
RobCuckToKaren said:
It is good to see that you and your wife have fully embraced the lifestyle through the years and that it has all worked out.
As you previously spoke out, it is certainly reassuring to know that marital sexual intercourse is not a precursor for a happy and successful marriage and that an alternative approach to a marriage, as you indicated so many see it as perverse.
I'm sure we all have close and dear friends who we've never had a sexual relationship with. If anything sex is where friendships start to go wrong and to me it seems perfectly sensible to avoid it if at all possible. Sadly the stereotype for a marriage is that you have to be at it like bunnies and most couples don't seem to have the common sense to break the mould and come up with a better plan for their own happiness. I feel fortunate that Karen and I had the confidence to be open and honest with each other.SquirmingSub said:
RobCuckToKaren said:
So very true, when my current wife and both made a clear choice to change our approach to the sexual side of our marriage, we became even closer outside of the bedroom, our levels of intimacy actually increased. Similar to you and Karen, it took us being confidently open and honest with each other about how we felt about our individual sexual preferences and our preferences as a couple.
