Thank you Tim.Most often this is the problem ... you first MUST sign into slutwives.com ... once you sign in there, then you can click the "Chat" link on the left of the page. That actually takes to the SEPARATE (totally separate and just a chat site, but related to slutwives.com) ... if you are a registered member of slutwives, the link will take you directly to a list of the chat rooms. I believe (tho not 100% sure) if you are NOT a registered member of slutwives.com, you will have to then log into the chat site. But the key problem most are having is they are going directly to the chat link WITHOUT FIRST SIGNING IN on slutwives.com