What about escorts for women?

[Custer Laststand]

Ms. Victoria,

Custer.... I certainly hope your 'tongue was in your cheek' when you told me you were shocked that I bought sex toys for my daughter... 'cause if not, wow, would I blow you away!!!

My tongue was, of course, "in my cheek." In reality, I think that was a very progressive and generally great thing you did for your daughter.

And, as for the possibility of being bisexual, I did conciser this for a while, I do enjoy a beautiful woman, but I also adore a gorgeous man... so the thought was easily leaning toward bi-sexual... the experience with my girlfriend was not an awakening for me, as I said it was a mission or intervention... with KA's encouragement I ended up having an experience with another woman, a couple times... thing is it was fun, it was new and it was obviously something I did more than once.... BUT now that I have, I'm honestly not really interested in going there again. Women are beautiful and I will always think so, but sexually they are lacking the 'equipment' I so enjoy...

OK. I'm willing to concede you most-likely know yourself better than I know you... especially since I don't know you at all.

Honestly if I had the choice of giving a 'mind blowing' blowjob to a man, or an equally amazing experience to a woman, I would choose the blowjob... and although I know I'm good at the latter, I prefer the former.

I'll have to admit you're gradually reclaiming your reputation as an "honorable" heterosexual woman, for whatever that may be worth. (Actually not much, in my opinion.) (I hope you recognize this as another tongue-in-cheek comment and a weak attempt at humor.)

And now, let's talk about 'fucking'.

Oh yes, YES! YES!!!

I know there are many variations of dildos that are supposed to do the job.. and they do in a pinch... they are NOTHING like the real thing!!! (sigh....)

Sigh, indeed. With that statement, your chances of being offered a multi-year multi-million dollar contract to endorse the products of a multi-national dildo corporation have almost certainly gone down the tubes. I gotta' tell ya' Ms. Victoria, ya' hafta' think of the future when you're tempted to throw around ill-considered comments like that....

Getting back to finding someone for my girlfriend.... I am honoured with each of your offers to help me find the 'perfect' bull for her....both of you will hear from me privately.

It will be an honor to work with you on this exceptionally worthwhile effort.

Custer... please refer to KA as my husband or KA... he really doesn't enjoy being referred to as a 'cuckold'.... and my goal in life is to keep him deliriously happy!!! xoxo thank you. —Victoria xoxox

Yes, ma'am. I realize an important aspect of your role as KA's boss/wife is to manage him and his emotional responses effectively and ensure none of the wackos you interact with, most especially myself, get out of hand with (to mention but one example) ill-considered references to his status in your marriage. I will defer to your authority in this matter.

—Custer

 

[Victoria]

but I want to be.... ;-)

WHAT??? I still want to be considered for that roll as not only marketing director but as well as the 'poster child' for sex toys!!!!

I'm worried about any woman that claims she would rather have a dildo rather than a wonderful flesh and blood cock.... as I've mentioned before there is no comparison... EVER!!!

BUT, if you were to look into my closet... you would not be wanting for the most wonderful collection.... ;-)

So please do not count me out as the 'poster child'.... this I would not only rock at, but go beyond all imagination...

SOOOOO.... I have exiting news... I got in touch with a dear friend of mine that once worked in the lovely industry of classifieds in the city my friend lives in...and he has shared with me a few contacts (please do not ask why he gave me this info) ... BUT... I will be looking into them this week...

Who knows, I may be interviewing very soon... and as I post this, I am working on the subtle hints that my friend will soon realize what I am doing.... to this point she is still in the denial stage....

xoxoxoox

 

[Saraha]

Venice once had 10,000 prostitutes walking the streets with bare breasts or even nude, and the city became known as Venus.

Men asked for "soup and pussy", a meal and a shag.

All this was revealed on a documentary I saw recently. These days, the street walkers have mostly disappeared to be replaced by newspaper advertising and internet dating sites.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Ms. Victoria,

WHAT??? I still want to be considered for that roll as not only marketing director but also as the 'poster child' for sex toys!!!!

Yes, I understand. Please forgive me; I was only joking, of course...

I'm worried about any woman that claims she would rather have a dildo rather than a wonderful flesh and blood cock.... as I've mentioned before there is no comparison... EVER!!!

Ah... I see. But, what if your man sucks your clitoris while gently easing a suitably large, well-lubricated, vibrating dildo into your pussy, then works it in accordance with your responses? Would that seem satisfying, if the dildo were significantly larger than his cock and his cock were no larger than, say, about average?

BUT, if you were to look into my closet... you would not be wanting for the most wonderful collection.... ;-) So please do not count me out as the 'poster child'.... this I would not only rock at, but go beyond all imagination...

Very good. Every self-respecting woman should have such a collection and make use of it whenever the urge strikes her, especially if a better alternative is not immediately at hand. AND I do not doubt your potential for becoming a national poster-child for dildos suitably large for self-respecting women (and other such devices).

I may be interviewing very soon... and as I post this, I am working on subtle hints that [will cause my friend to] soon realize what I'm doing.

Excellent! Sounds like progress...

At this point, she is still in the denial stage.

I must say, your friend sounds like something of a hard case. But given that she is up against such a talented adversary as yourself, I would not place any bets on her holding out much longer.

—Custer

 

[4julie]

Souper place

Venice once had 10,000 prostitutes walking the streets with bare breasts or even nude, and the city became known as Venus.

Men asked for "soup and pussy", a meal and a shag.

All this was revealed on a documentary I saw recently. These days, the street walkers have mostly disappeared to be replaced by newspaper advertising and internet dating sites.

Sounds like a souper idea!

 

[Victoria]

oh, for the Venice of Olde.....

So, I hear a bit of disappointment in your tone that we don't have nude prostitutes walking the streets now.. but consider this, we have the internet and although it may not be quite as 'up close and personal' as a nude ********** (I understand the need to assess your 'puchase' upfront) don't you think that with the sites that are available now you have a much broader taste of what's out there?

AND, let's face it, it allows for a whole hell of a lot of voyeurs to be part of the action as well!! :-D

I used to run a national internet site and it never ceased to amaze me the 'diverse' viewership we had on a regular basis... so I'm thinking it's a good thing!

Now on to my friend.. I have had a wee bit of correspondence with one young gentleman and although I will not go for the first to be offered, I am intrigued with him, (now this is where internet can be an hindrance) I have seen a couple of pictures and he seems acceptable, but as you have probably guessed, I will need to know first hand...

xoxo
Victoria

 

[Custer Laststand]

Now on to my friend.. I have had a wee bit of correspondence with one young gentleman and although I will not go for the first to be offered, I am intrigued with him. Now, this is where the internet can be a hindrance. I have seen a couple of pictures and he seems acceptable, but as you have probably guessed, I will need to know first hand... xoxo —Victoria

Yes... there seem to be many ways any given seemingly-suitable candidate can turn out to seem a lot less suitable after some e-mail communication. Making a judgement in that way is definitely different from doing it based on meeting and talking with someone in person.

I'll look forward to hearing how you go about deciding the candidate you select for your friend (assuming you find one) is, in fact, a good lover-to-be.

—Custer

 

[Victoria]

Blow job or not?

This is a bit off topic of hiring escorts.... But I just have to ask.....

If your wife (or girlfriend) cheated on you, what would be worse... She fucked a man or gave him a blow job?

This question came up in a conversation the other day and the unanimous answer was a blow job! I was shocked! But apparently to the men I was with it is because giving a blow job is a conscience choice?

Thoughts?

Xoxo
Victoria

 

[marys_pet]

This is a bit off topic of hiring escorts.... But I just have to ask.....

If your wife (or girlfriend) cheated on you, what would be worse... She fucked a man or gave him a blow job?

This question came up in a conversation the other day and the unanimous answer was a blow job! I was shocked! But apparently to the men I was with it is because giving a blow job is a conscience choice?

Thoughts?

Xoxo
Victoria

There seems to be a generational divide on this. People my age (late 40's) and up tend to view oral sex as being more intimate than fucking. Younger people, on the other hand, don't even view blowjobs or cuntlicking as sex.

 

[4julie]

Cuckold angst

This is a bit off topic of hiring escorts.... But I just have to ask.....

If your wife (or girlfriend) cheated on you, what would be worse... She fucked a man or gave him a blow job?

This question came up in a conversation the other day and the unanimous answer was a blow job! I was shocked! But apparently to the men I was with it is because giving a blow job is a conscience choice?

Thoughts?

Xoxo
Victoria

For me my wife opening her legs for another man has so many more angsts for me than her giving some guy a BJ.
As Custer said the chance, even with modern contraception, of him knocking my wife up was always a threat/thrill that is never there with a BJ. (Many American mothers encourage their daughter's to give oral sex rather than parting their legs for this very reason). Also some men will deliberately look the Cuck in the eye as he cums in the wife, I know it pains me much more when he's cumming in my wife's pussy than in her mouth.
As a cuckold of many years a lot of beign a cuckold is seeing the effect another man has on your wife. Seeing her expressions and hearing her 'sounds' as a superior cock pleasures her, none of these elements are there when she sucks some guy's cock, unless it's for her to say how big it is and how much she wants it inside her. Lastly for me at least, since it's something I've never achieved, anohter man making my wife cum from fucking her is something that only happens when he fucks her, never seen her cum from giving a BJ!

So my feelings of inferiority and being cuckolded, are so much more from seeing a real man make my wife feel so much of a woman, and that only happens when he spreads her legs and fills her pussy as I never could.

 

[Victoria]

True, I've never had an orgasm while giving a BJ.... Good point!

Victoria
xoxo

 

[cuckoldinpanties]

True, I've never had an orgasm while giving a BJ.... Good point!

Victoria
xoxo

My wife has MANY times. Of course it's when shes giving a BJ while stradling our Sybian

 

[4julie]

Choices

True, I've never had an orgasm while giving a BJ.... Good point!

Victoria
xoxo

Thanks, nothing reminds a cuckold more of his inferiority than to watch another man so easily achieve what the cuckold has spent his whole married life trying to achieve without success.

Similarly for me seeing a man ride my wife using a condom elicits little emotion, but seeing him fuck her bareback and know he's filling my wife's belly with his cum is sooo different. All the more if he eyeballs me as he cums in her.

XXOXXOXX

 

[Victoria]

making progress..... :-D

Okay Okay Okay..... yes, I've had an orgasm while giving a BJ and yes there were other factors involved... I was referring to NOT having other factors involved! :-D

So I have some exciting news, while KA and I were in Toronto last weekend we had drinks with a great friend of mine that is very 'non vanilla' in his taste for sexual encounters (actually he is the first man that KA and I had our initial experience with that I have mentioned in my other thread)

I was telling him about my 'quest' or 'mission' to find a great first experience for my friend to get back into the swing of sex and dating, over a bottle of champagne. Well I guess I should have thought of him before because he volunteered to be 'the guy'... After I've had a bit of time to think about it, I have realized he might just be the perfect solution I've been looking for.

1. I've had sex with him more than once so I can attest to his talents
2. I trust him
3. he's not hard to look at
4. he's got the right equipment standards I'm looking for
5. he's not looking to become 'involved' with someone

So, now the hard part comes... I need to convince my girlfriend that this is a good idea.... hmmmmm....... wish me luck!!!

Victoria
xoxo

 

[4julie]

Just thinking

Okay Okay Okay..... yes, I've had an orgasm while giving a BJ and yes there were other factors involved... I was referring to NOT having other factors involved! :-D

So I have some exciting news, while KA and I were in Toronto last weekend we had drinks with a great friend of mine that is very 'non vanilla' in his taste for sexual encounters (actually he is the first man that KA and I had our initial experience with that I have mentioned in my other thread)

I was telling him about my 'quest' or 'mission' to find a great first experience for my friend to get back into the swing of sex and dating, over a bottle of champagne. Well I guess I should have thought of him before because he volunteered to be 'the guy'... After I've had a bit of time to think about it, I have realized he might just be the perfect solution I've been looking for.

1. I've had sex with him more than once so I can attest to his talents
2. I trust him
3. he's not hard to look at
4. he's got the right equipment standards I'm looking for
5. he's not looking to become 'involved' with someone

So, now the hard part comes... I need to convince my girlfriend that this is a good idea.... hmmmmm....... wish me luck!!!

Victoria
xoxo

Hey girl just a few ideas here!
Why not first mention to your friend that you met someone from your past. Remind her of how things were in the past with him for you! Say YOU were thinking how cool it would be to have him again, ask what SHE thinks of YOU having him again. Sound her out without her realizing it's her you're really thinking of. If she remembers him fondly you could comment that he'd asked about her and when you'd been reminscing he spoke highly of her, just in case her ego needs a little stroke!

Anyway this certainly would open up the topic with her in a non-threathening way.

Speaking of champagne and orgasms, wonderful plaything after the 'wine' has been downed - for it to go up .....you! Give him a BJ and he makes you cum in a bottle!

 

[Custer Laststand]

So, now the hard part comes... I need to convince my girlfriend that this is a good idea.... hmmmmm....... wish me luck!!! —Victoria xoxo

OK — good luck!

But, given the importance of gradual buildup, increasing tension, foreplay, and all that, is it a good idea to tell your woman friend straight out you think she should fuck this guy...? Or, would it be better to arrange for her to meet him, then leave it to him to seduce her and to your friend to reluctantly allow herself to be seduced...? (Remember the definition of seduction: when a man chases a woman, until finally she catches him.)

The latter approach would provide your unpaid gigolo with something of a challenge, thereby making it more interesting for him (presumably), while perhaps finessing the possibility that your woman friend, as her default response, would say "no" at the outset, thus bringing your entire enterprise to a screeching halt. Because, once she realizes you're trying to set her up to be fucked and rejects that idea (if she does), you probably won't be able to do it again.

That's just speculation, of course. You're the one who knows her, obviously.

 

[Victoria]

Well, I have some great news, my male friend is going to fly in to see my girlfriend. I told her that he was going to be in town on business and that they should get together to finally meet. She has heard his name from myself and KA often, so she is comfortable with having dinner with him (to keep him entertained!)

Now my job will be to somehow persuade her into thinking about having sex with him and allowing herself to just let it happen. I have a couple of weeks to have several conversations with her and plant a few seeds. Am I being devious?

You know, I do think the idea of am ****** is rather entertaining, I have several friends who would probably jump at the idea but unfortunately this is not one of them. But really, how fun to have a gorgeous new man for an evening that is only concerned with one thing, you!!! (oh, wait I do have that and 'yes' it is amazing!)

Victoria
xoxo

 

[Victoria]

She is warming to the idea..... I think that the next time I talk with her I will have her....

I have shared that he is a great lover.... that we have a 'no strings attached relationship'.... and it's fascinating that she is intrigued by this...

keep your fingers and toes crossed....


xoxo
Victoria

 

[Custer Laststand]

Hi Ms. Victoria,

I see you've come back up on the radar with a strongly-positive progress report. Very good. Your devious plot appears to be nearing fruition.

[My sex-starved friend] is warming to the idea..... I think the next time I talk with her I will have her....

So you've laid your trap skillfully and are preparing to spring it. Excellent. Little does your secretly-horny-as-hell query realize she will soon find herself suspended suddenly by one foot, upside down in the jungle, with her tits hanging toward her face, her short skirt hanging down over her tits, and her lacy bright-red thong ready to be cut off skillfully, in a single swell foop, by her Tarzan of the evening.

I have shared that he is a great lover.... that we have a 'no strings attached relationship'.... and it's fascinating that she is intrigued by this...

Hm... it sounds like this concept, expressed as something others do (well, some others, anyway), perhaps has seemed not to appeal to your friend because she has not seen it as something she would be capable of doing. I mean, what if she found a man she liked but he rejected her, etc. etc. But, now that you are skillfully guiding the whole situation into her lap (as it were), in a way that involves no risk on her part, she feels much freer to (as you say) express her feelings of being intrigued.

Keep your fingers and toes crossed.... xoxo —Victoria

OK, I'll keep my fingers crossed. Crossing my toes may be problematic, though. I don't think they're sufficiently prehensile.

—Custer

 

[AlbanySearching]

As long as she's interested, she'll keep being intrigued by the idea, but she'll almost certainly chicken out at the last second. Don't force her, but don't let her use lame excuses either. She can't all of a sudden develop a phobia to his hair color or an allergy to a specific part of town.