What about escorts for women?

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I just got off the phone with her... let's call her by her middle name... Amanda.. We talked for about a half hour, the date has been set, my friend is flying in and they are going out on the 30th. I figure that will give me enough time to have a few more chats with Amanda, perhaps give her a few details about him sexually.

While we talked today, unfortunately only about 5 minutes of it was about me having sex with him every now and then. I actually confessed to her that I have had sex with him since I've been married to KA... that took a bit of finessing around, but I think she is starting to understand the 'sex without strings' concept.

Amanda did ask me if he was good in bed (a good sign!), then again told me it had been a long time for her. I stepped out on a branch and told her that maybe she should seduce him during dinner. She laughed at me and told me that she would be no good at that... I, of course being me, told her that yes indeed, she could and she should think about it. I even mentioned that he would be a great way to get back into the game..

We ended the call with her laughing at me thinking that they should have sex.... BUT, she is thinking about it... whether she knows it or not!

Victoria
xoxo
 
Excellent, excellent... your nefarious plot is going well, Ms. Victoria. Indeed, it's showing every sign of coming successfully to fruition (heh, heh, heh, heh [I gloat, rubbing my hands together in the classical crafty manner of villainous evildoers everywhere]).

—Custer
 
Custer,

I'm right there with you on the "rubbing hands together in the classical crafty manner" every once in a while I feel guilty that I am manipulating a situation... then quickly afterward I get over it and know that I am doing the right thing!!!

:-D

xoxo
Victoria
 
so far... so good...

Northern...

I've heard from the 'man' friend.... I am having a conversation with my girlfriend tomorrow... I will let you know both sides then.... but, so far, it sounds positive...

YEAH!!!!!!

xoxo
Victoria
 
love it when a plan comes together.... :)

xoxoxo

You have all been very patient with me... thank you for that... finally KA and I have the house to ourselves and some time to catch up on a few things....

One of those things is to share with you what happened last weekend....

As I mentioned before I had done my best to:

1: prime Amanda to at least 'think' about 'thinking' of having sex with Marc if the opportunity presented itself... and had talked quite a lot of Marc and I having sex and the fact that it was 'extra curricular' with no strings attached..(and he was fairly fantastic in bed)

2: coach Marc to be gentle and subtle and kind and extremely sexy and sexual while he and Amanda were at dinner. I even told him he could bring up our 'casual' sexual relationship if he thought that it would help him to seduce Amanda...

So... I have spoken with them both.. I am happy to report that Amanda is once again in the realm of having sex.. it truly was an adorable story from her.. there was serious angst on her part during the meal... she told me that she couldn't stop thinking about how Marc and I have a 'casual' sexual relationship and it really did turn her on thinking that there was a possibility of a 'safe one nighter'... at her age????? :)

AND, you are going to love this.... she made the first move... apparently it was an accidental foot caressing his leg under the table... moving straight onto constant caressing of said foot on leg....

Marc being the perfect gentleman that I had only anticipated he would be, did not falter in the conversation but just applied a wee bit of pressure back against her leg

(I know, don't you just love how you feel you are back to your first date!!!)

ANYWAY... as you probably already have figured out.. Marc did bring Amanda back to her house, he did kiss her.... he did ask her if he could come in... she did bring him to her bedroom.... and according to Amanda 'it was the best she'd ever had'... and although she was VERY embarrassed that she had sex with someone that she had just met (I know that in her youth she had done this before, BTW) she was rather 'giddy' about it...

Now, as a woman I can tell you.... there is nothing like being fucked, made love to, having sex... however you want to phrase it... and it being a wonderful experience to make you feel like the sexiest most desirable woman ever.... this is where Amanda is right now... when I talk with her on the phone I can tell she is on a cloud that is not going to come down for quite a while.....

As adorable and perfect as Amanda's reaction is... (you are going to love this... I do!) Marc has told me that he was everything that I wanted, needed and asked him to be... he played his role as perfectly as I had hoped.... perhaps even better than I had instructed.... ;-)

So, he pretty much gave me the same synopsis of the evening with not quite the same exuberance (which is fine)... but he added a bit of a twist... he informed me I now owed him a night of his choosing from me.... (Marc has mentioned October 23rd in Toronto... should/could/will probably be incredibly interesting... that is one wild night!!)

The things we do for our friends.... (and yes, Amanda is worth it!)

xoxo
Victoria

so back to the original question.... escorts or just really great friends who know how to satisfy a woman??? hmmmmm.....
 
Fantastic! I'd like to tell you to congratulate her for all of us...but she probably wouldn't take it too well, would she? ;-)
 
I'm glad it worked out for you and your friend Victoria. :)
I love it when women "glow" after sex, it's such a nice thing to see and it makes you feel good as well.
 
Dear AB and John...

I somehow don't think Amanda would be quite ready for a 'congratulatory hug' from the forum... ;-)

However, I just received an email from her and she is even glowing in the email......:D And I agree, there is nothing like the 'after sex' glow... mmm

xoxo
Victoria
 
Victoria,
I think you may have already illustrated one of the differences between (most) men and women on this issue. I think on balance that men may actually prefer escorts because they can let themselves go more with an anonymous lover, someone who knows how to please but doesn't know them personally. Women may prefer to have some (maybe small) personal connection somewhere to create that special intimacy. Someone who knows something of them, however little will be better at this than an anonymous ******, although I'm sure that the best male escorts can create this bond.
 
Ah, yes... but "the best male escorts" don't work for free.

Hi Ms. Victoria,

Victoria said:
So, back to the original question.... escorts or just really great friends who know how to satisfy a woman??? hmmmmm..... xoxo Victoria

Clearly your "really great friend" solution was better, because it didn't cost you anything. Also, you'll gain even more because your really great friend requested payment in the form of a future night in bed with you. Thus, you'll be able to fuck him with reckless abandon... in front of your husband, if both of you wish... and will be able to play with your pussy many, many times, bringing yourself to innumerable orgasms, no doubt, as you contemplate this upcoming event.

Had you hired a gigolo for your woman friend to fuck, you would have to hire him again to fuck him yourself — perhaps even for a considerable amount, if you wanted to enjoy the pleasure of his company (in front of your husband) all night.

I guess this is the sort of argument that would appeal to an economist... but then, in posing the question you must admit you didn't request any specific form of answer. (Also, sorry if this reply seems to amount to belaboring the obvious.)

—Custer
 
Custer Custer Custer.....

Yes, I'm sure that the 'economics' of hiring a professional would have been significant.. but let's look at the realities of what has occurred...

1. my friend is 'absolutely satisfied"

2. my goal was obtained

3. yes, I have an interesting night owed... but really if you have ever experienced the party in Toronto you would wonder if I am really "owing or owed"... and Marc is truly one of my favorite people... so, I think I've won... hands down....

In reality 'I ROCK'.....

:)

xoxo
Victoria
 
Victoria said:
Custer Custer Custer.....

Yes, Ma'am?

Victoria said:
I'm sure the 'economics' of hiring a professional would have been significant.. but let's look at the realities of what has occurred...

Yes, Ma'am.

Victoria said:
1. my friend is absolutely satisfied;

2. I attained my goal;

3. AND, I have an interesting night owed... but really, if you have ever experienced the party in Toronto...

Um... THE party in Toronto? I know you Canadians are serious sober-sided people, but surely there must be more than one...? Disregarding the numerics, though (for the moment), I must confess you win... I have never experienced the party in Toronto, nor any of the others should there be more than one.

Victoria said:
...you would wonder if I am really "owing or owed"... and Marc is truly one of my favorite people... so, I think I've won... hands down....

Yes Ma'am, Ms. Victoria... you have won hands down. I was only trying to say your choice of "a very good friend" was clearly superior to hiring a gigolo. If I cited the wrong reason, my sincerest apologies. (I'm wringing my hands as I say this.)

Victoria said:
In reality 'I ROCK'..... :) xoxo —Victoria

Given the context, I assume by "rock" you mean "fuck." And yes, Ma'am... certainly you do. I hope you'll accept my assessment that your handling of this whole situation, from start to finish, was masterful. I can only say I hope your friend is already on her way to seducing her next lover. Perhaps she'll update you from time-to-time...? If so, I hope you, in turn, will update the forum re. her adventures or perhaps, better still, encourage her to post herself on this forum? She would be most welcome to do so...

—Custer
 
mark your calendar...

Custer......

Can't say that I would agree with "Canadians are serious sober-sided people" more so than I would agree with "Americans are serious sober-sided people" Perhaps you've just not had time to experience the diversity.... living in Toronto will give you that rather quickly if you need a 'quick fix'... or Montreal.... or Vancouver... :)

ANYWAY...

The 'party' I am referring to is one that Northbound Leather hosts every October... all the information is on their website...

see you there?

xoxo
Victoria
 
Custer....

Have you looked up the party yet? Shall I see you there?

Victoria
xoxo
 
Hi Ms. Victoria,

Indeed I did look up "the party"... or at least, I made an attempt to do so. When I googled it, I came up with the sponsor's web site and some pix of the Oct. 2009 edition of "the party" which included some photos of people wearing scary-looking costumes (available, I gathered, from the sponsor). Hm... I wondered, is this some sort satanists club, or what...?

Victoria said:
Custer....

Have you looked up the party yet? Shall I see you there?

Victoria
xoxo

Can you give me a link that will take me to info on the Oct. 2010 edition of "the party"?

Unfortunately, though, I'll have to confess I probably won't be able to make it since Toronto is on the wrong side of North America. (Please don't take this as an insult; it isn't a value judgement. I mention this because I know you Canuks are sensitive about that sort of thing.)

Regarding one of my earlier posts and your reply: I know Canadian cities... or a number of them, anyway... are very cosmopolitan and interesting. That's especially true of Vancouver, B.C., which seems to me to share many characteristics with San Francisco. I can easily imagine it's also true of Toronto, although I actually can't remember whether I've been there(!). If I have, it would have been in connection with a meeting or conference... those events don't usually leave a lot of time for looking around.

Do you and KA live in or near Toronto? If so, you can probably confess this factoid safely since it's a large metropolitan area. It may even be to your advantage to do so, since I imagine this forum includes some bulls who live in that area.

Salaciously—

Custer
 
you can change your mind... ;-)

Hey Custer...

No, we don't live in (or near) Toronto... much to the chagrin of several friends... I have lived in Toronto a couple of times, but no longer... KA has brought me much further southeast than I had ever imagined! ;-)

As for bulls in that area, I have to admit, I've had opportunity to meet one, unfortunately not an experience I'd like to repeat.... (going back to the entire conversation about actually having a 'connection' with a bull) Not to say there are not amazing people there.... several of my closest are there...

xoxo
Victoria

ps.... I will miss you at the party... it's not quite as scary as it appears... rather extremely erotic and wonderfully inviting.... xoxo ;-P
 
Victoria,
I've been following this story for a while, and I just wanted to pop my head back into the conversation and say congratulations on a successful set-up. Sadly, as I mentioned before, I'm quite a ways from you, but I'm heartened to see women like you out in the world making things more fun for everyone. Keep up the good work.

-George