Guess menopausal women need to be excused for their fluctuating moods. Haven't felt 'stirred' enough in the last so many weeks. Never did end my last day Brighton story. Kind of switched off. Happens to me, particularly when I don't get the right kind of attention.
Ok, since some of the blues have merged into white, since yesterday, feeling like sharing the experience of 3-month affair last year. Small-town story (am a small-town woman, sans frills).
Met this Jamaican boy at our local, small-time rugby club where hubby is still a senior member and patron (he used to be a regular rugger boy in his teens - I still can't imagine how). The boy was playing for the club for a pittance, but was doubling up behind the bar some nights a week and was being paid more for that. Not 'my youngest' because he turned 26 last year (and we broke off soon after his 26th bash).
He attended to hubby and me several times at night, getting my screwdrivers JUST RIGHT. Hubby was too sloshed to figure out what was happening. Across the counter, after a few weeks, he'd slyly fondle my breasts. Twice he kissed me and no one noticed. In between he invited me to watch him play. Once he dared me to come behind the changing room before a match. We fooled around and I sucked him off. At half time he sent me a text and I went and blew him again.
But I was getting cold feet because hubby's the club's ancient icon. So I decided no more at the club.
The boy had a shack which he was sharing with another kid (Aussie) in town. I had asked hubby if I could bring him home. Hubby had refused because of 'club connections'. So I opted for his shack. It was convenient. Three lanes away from my office. He was busy with rugger practice in the morning, then free all day till the evening on four days. All I had to do was stroll across (7 mins) from office to his shack during lunch break, get blacked for 20-mins, then stroll back (7 mins) to work.
More if any one wants to hear more. Not quite sure because I often find tangential replies on this forum. And that gets me on negative mode.
SM