Going soft
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Guys - buy yourself a 4 dollar cock ring...if you're able to get an erection to begin with, that will help you keep it.
and to address this comment:
That is not a problem nor is it unusual. Men typically don't have the strong physical response to the type of foreplay with their woman where stimulus to the man is not involved. The only "problem" here is the development of the "porn video mentality", which has changed most mens' response to sex to "let's get it on already" because of the abilility to fast forward to the "good stuff". As a result, foreplay is seen as something men "unfortunately have to do" in the real world, whereas it doesn't exist in our private erotic stimulus. To be honest though, men come by it honestly, as history isn't exactly rich with examples of quid pro quo in the bedroom. It's not in the genetic memory, and it's certainly continuing to be reinforced that way with multimedia.
Getting better at that where you're actually turned on will require some creativity and a serious attempt to connect with what your woman wants so that you actually derive excitment out of her pleasure. Altruism doesn't have any place in the bedroom
and to address this comment:
That is not a problem nor is it unusual. Men typically don't have the strong physical response to the type of foreplay with their woman where stimulus to the man is not involved. The only "problem" here is the development of the "porn video mentality", which has changed most mens' response to sex to "let's get it on already" because of the abilility to fast forward to the "good stuff". As a result, foreplay is seen as something men "unfortunately have to do" in the real world, whereas it doesn't exist in our private erotic stimulus. To be honest though, men come by it honestly, as history isn't exactly rich with examples of quid pro quo in the bedroom. It's not in the genetic memory, and it's certainly continuing to be reinforced that way with multimedia.
Getting better at that where you're actually turned on will require some creativity and a serious attempt to connect with what your woman wants so that you actually derive excitment out of her pleasure. Altruism doesn't have any place in the bedroom
Several persons have mentioned that looseing your erection and premature ejectulation is common. Some of us were sissies before we married and have an inate desire to be a feminine man, others found themselves cucked, and are denied sex with the wife or anyother woman, and find themselves becoming sissy. Before some start yelling,I respectfully wish to remind we are not the men who wear the pants in the family, we wear panies, the color of choice is pink, which is a sissy favorite,.
Sissy men want to suck other mens cock and yes we want to be fucked. Real men are not likely to want either. Now, while a sissy or cuck wishes to please his woman, he is just not capable.
Sissy men want to suck other mens cock and yes we want to be fucked. Real men are not likely to want either. Now, while a sissy or cuck wishes to please his woman, he is just not capable.
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ok...well this is an issue i have been dealing with for near on 3 years now. I have always been a cuckold...but in my last relationship...i would happily watch her flirt or fuck other guys...and once they had left would grab her by the wrist, take her back into the bedroom and give her a proper fucking for being a a dirty little slut, which always loved me to do to her afterwards.I have never been hung...7" long, unfortunately very thin in girth, but always as hard as granite and could go an hour of pounding her before cumming...plus she was young with a very tight pussy, so could always make her scream. I think i always enjoyed the old theory of sperm wars...and always reclaiming what is mine.
That relationship came to a sudden and unforseen end from my end after she left me for a guy she had been fucking on the side...i always knew of the guys she fucked...funnily enough, was never told of this one. Anyway, it affected me deeply, mentally, emotionally and physically/sexually.
I have since met a fantastic woman who loves the whole concept of having a cuckold partner. But the dynamic is very different now...she is quite dominant, earns a lot more money than me, and her only favourite toy that gets her off has a girth of 6'5"...plus i trust her with my life, so dont worry she will leave me, and dont feel the need to reclaim her as such.
So in the last 3 years i have constantly now suffered from not being able to get a full erection and thus means my penis doesnt get to full size any longer...and premature ejaculated almost instantly now. She gets really no stimulation with me from vaginal intercourse...and cum now as soon as i enter her, cause i can feel how loose she is when i'm in her...which i can feel overwhelming at times and lose control. Even the other day, she massaged my cock lightly in bed and i came with no erection at all.
The hiccup for me as for others that have posted here is... as a cuck i guess, and dealing with the humiliation/indignity as well... the more this happens, the more its turning me on, and the more it turns me on, the more it happens. So now i'm not sure if this is a downward spiral which i am unable now to reverse.
It hasnt really affected our relationship, as she enjoys the power, knows for these reasons she can see other men and knows i would never be able to cheat on her in my current state... even though i never would...so she says, for her its like me wearing an invisible chastity cage...my own poor performance/ability would naturally prevent wanting to be with other women.
So i found this topic very interesting as i am going through it as well...i now wonder, if this is how it is for me from here on, will i ever be back like i used to...or is this my new natural state...and without the constant bravado needed for my ex...am i now becoming the cuckold i used to pretend to be in a role play situation, but now it has become the real thing.
ok...well this is an issue i have been dealing with for near on 3 years now. I have always been a cuckold...but in my last relationship...i would happily watch her flirt or fuck other guys...and once they had left would grab her by the wrist, take her back into the bedroom and give her a proper fucking for being a a dirty little slut, which always loved me to do to her afterwards.I have never been hung...7" long, unfortunately very thin in girth, but always as hard as granite and could go an hour of pounding her before cumming...plus she was young with a very tight pussy, so could always make her scream. I think i always enjoyed the old theory of sperm wars...and always reclaiming what is mine.
That relationship came to a sudden and unforseen end from my end after she left me for a guy she had been fucking on the side...i always knew of the guys she fucked...funnily enough, was never told of this one. Anyway, it affected me deeply, mentally, emotionally and physically/sexually.
I have since met a fantastic woman who loves the whole concept of having a cuckold partner. But the dynamic is very different now...she is quite dominant, earns a lot more money than me, and her only favourite toy that gets her off has a girth of 6'5"...plus i trust her with my life, so dont worry she will leave me, and dont feel the need to reclaim her as such.
So in the last 3 years i have constantly now suffered from not being able to get a full erection and thus means my penis doesnt get to full size any longer...and premature ejaculated almost instantly now. She gets really no stimulation with me from vaginal intercourse...and cum now as soon as i enter her, cause i can feel how loose she is when i'm in her...which i can feel overwhelming at times and lose control. Even the other day, she massaged my cock lightly in bed and i came with no erection at all.
The hiccup for me as for others that have posted here is... as a cuck i guess, and dealing with the humiliation/indignity as well... the more this happens, the more its turning me on, and the more it turns me on, the more it happens. So now i'm not sure if this is a downward spiral which i am unable now to reverse.
It hasnt really affected our relationship, as she enjoys the power, knows for these reasons she can see other men and knows i would never be able to cheat on her in my current state... even though i never would...so she says, for her its like me wearing an invisible chastity cage...my own poor performance/ability would naturally prevent wanting to be with other women.
So i found this topic very interesting as i am going through it as well...i now wonder, if this is how it is for me from here on, will i ever be back like i used to...or is this my new natural state...and without the constant bravado needed for my ex...am i now becoming the cuckold i used to pretend to be in a role play situation, but now it has become the real thing.
This thread is way out of date. Deniedmike's last post was 26 April 2010.
But, given that this topic is of broad interest, considering Deniedmike's last post:
If your wife has made you her cuckold and finds sexual satisfaction with other men, you can consider your problem solved. If you still want to be able to get it up, and keep it up after premature ejaculation, however, there are a number of ways to deal with this.
Re. causes: your problem may be related to age. Many men experience decreased ability, or inability, to get it up and stay hard beyond a certain age that varies among individuals. Also, some medications... some (not all) of those used to reduce blood pressure, for example... can cause impotence.
To get beyond this — if you have not done so already — I suggest asking your M.D. to prescribe Viagra for you, or an equivalent oral medications.
If you've tried that and you've found such oral meds are ineffective, I suggest seeing a urologist and asking her or him to prescribe Trimix for you. Trimix is a liquid medication that one injects into one's penis using disposable syringes (insulin syringes work well and are readily available). It's much more powerful and long-lasting than Viagra (or equivalent oral meds), and can keep one erect for something like 3 hours, including after ejaculation.
The idea of injecting Trimix or anything else into one's penis probably sounds gawdawful, but it's actually not painful at all — or, I suppose I should say, it's hardly painful at all. The main barrier is psychological. It's just a matter of biting the bullet, so to speak, and doing it.
If you've found that Viagra and other oral meds are ineffective, and you can't bring yourself to inject Trimix into your penis, then I suggest purchasing a hollow vibrating strap-on dildo. They can be purchased from (e.g.) DocJohn. They're about 6.5 in. long by 6 in. in circumference, which may not sound all that big but it's actually quite large. If you have trouble fitting your penis into it, use lube (e.g., astroglide). Then, when your penis is inside and it's securely strapped in place, have your woman lube it heavily on the outside. Then, lie on your back while she rides you to a satisfying orgasm, moving in ways that stimulate her most effectively.
With your penis inside a hollow vibrating strap-on dildo, the vibration mechanism will stimulate your penis, whether it's hard or not, as well as your woman's pussy.
If your woman wears the strap-on dildo, the vibration mechanism will stimulate her clitoris, thereby bringing her to orgasm (possibly), while also milking you effectively (probably), while she fucks you up your ass.
As you can see, there are multiple ways to deal with the problem of impotence.
But, given that this topic is of broad interest, considering Deniedmike's last post:
deniedmike said:
If your wife has made you her cuckold and finds sexual satisfaction with other men, you can consider your problem solved. If you still want to be able to get it up, and keep it up after premature ejaculation, however, there are a number of ways to deal with this.
Re. causes: your problem may be related to age. Many men experience decreased ability, or inability, to get it up and stay hard beyond a certain age that varies among individuals. Also, some medications... some (not all) of those used to reduce blood pressure, for example... can cause impotence.
To get beyond this — if you have not done so already — I suggest asking your M.D. to prescribe Viagra for you, or an equivalent oral medications.
If you've tried that and you've found such oral meds are ineffective, I suggest seeing a urologist and asking her or him to prescribe Trimix for you. Trimix is a liquid medication that one injects into one's penis using disposable syringes (insulin syringes work well and are readily available). It's much more powerful and long-lasting than Viagra (or equivalent oral meds), and can keep one erect for something like 3 hours, including after ejaculation.
The idea of injecting Trimix or anything else into one's penis probably sounds gawdawful, but it's actually not painful at all — or, I suppose I should say, it's hardly painful at all. The main barrier is psychological. It's just a matter of biting the bullet, so to speak, and doing it.
If you've found that Viagra and other oral meds are ineffective, and you can't bring yourself to inject Trimix into your penis, then I suggest purchasing a hollow vibrating strap-on dildo. They can be purchased from (e.g.) DocJohn. They're about 6.5 in. long by 6 in. in circumference, which may not sound all that big but it's actually quite large. If you have trouble fitting your penis into it, use lube (e.g., astroglide). Then, when your penis is inside and it's securely strapped in place, have your woman lube it heavily on the outside. Then, lie on your back while she rides you to a satisfying orgasm, moving in ways that stimulate her most effectively.
With your penis inside a hollow vibrating strap-on dildo, the vibration mechanism will stimulate your penis, whether it's hard or not, as well as your woman's pussy.
If your woman wears the strap-on dildo, the vibration mechanism will stimulate her clitoris, thereby bringing her to orgasm (possibly), while also milking you effectively (probably), while she fucks you up your ass.
As you can see, there are multiple ways to deal with the problem of impotence.
Hi everyone sorry in advance for my English i am not from English speaking country.
My situation is also similar i am unable to get hard.
my wife and i are medical students and have been together for 2 years and married for 1 year.
My wife and i were living with an unmarried couple to save money. Now the couple have broken up and girl have left our home.
My wife is cute girl with b-cubs and slim waist. She had only one boyfriend before me, who took her virginity.
I dont want to give names so going to call guy J. J. is a handsome and sexy guy about 186 cm tall who workout everyday and goes to same gym as my wife.
My wife is very good friend with him and have told me she finds him sexy and attractive and have crush on him
For the last two months i cant stop thinking about my wife and J. I cant stop dreaming about seeing them having sex and jerking off to that thought.
But the biggest problem is i am unable to have sex with my wife. I cant seems to get erect for my wife and when i do only while thinking about my wife with J and i cum very soon.
First few times my wife did not complain but now she is getting angry at me about the small things. She said if I cant fulfill my duty as husband then I should move to spare.
My wife loves humiliating my small penis always compare me with her ex boyfriend. When I told her I want her to fuck J. After lot of thinking for few weeks she agreed if J Also agrees.
Last Friday I have moved to spare room which is the smallest of three bedrooms. My wife had talk with J about our situation and J agreed to enter relationship with her if I don’t have any problem.
This weekend they went on 2 dates and after coming back they had sex in his room. I could hear her moans from other side of door. She never moans so loudly with me. While J was fucking my wife I was rock hard and came after few stokes from my hand.
My situation is also similar i am unable to get hard.
my wife and i are medical students and have been together for 2 years and married for 1 year.
My wife and i were living with an unmarried couple to save money. Now the couple have broken up and girl have left our home.
My wife is cute girl with b-cubs and slim waist. She had only one boyfriend before me, who took her virginity.
I dont want to give names so going to call guy J. J. is a handsome and sexy guy about 186 cm tall who workout everyday and goes to same gym as my wife.
My wife is very good friend with him and have told me she finds him sexy and attractive and have crush on him
For the last two months i cant stop thinking about my wife and J. I cant stop dreaming about seeing them having sex and jerking off to that thought.
But the biggest problem is i am unable to have sex with my wife. I cant seems to get erect for my wife and when i do only while thinking about my wife with J and i cum very soon.
First few times my wife did not complain but now she is getting angry at me about the small things. She said if I cant fulfill my duty as husband then I should move to spare.
My wife loves humiliating my small penis always compare me with her ex boyfriend. When I told her I want her to fuck J. After lot of thinking for few weeks she agreed if J Also agrees.
Last Friday I have moved to spare room which is the smallest of three bedrooms. My wife had talk with J about our situation and J agreed to enter relationship with her if I don’t have any problem.
This weekend they went on 2 dates and after coming back they had sex in his room. I could hear her moans from other side of door. She never moans so loudly with me. While J was fucking my wife I was rock hard and came after few stokes from my hand.
SissyDoc - Good day...
You situation is integrating, essential I understand that you have a room-mate (flat mate) of sorts that he (J) is now single as he and his girl friend have separated and she has moved out. You have indicated that your wife and J are already very good friends along with the fact that she finds him very handsome, sexy and she has a physical attraction to him.
As a medical student, you are fully aware that there could be a wide range of medical conditions which can cause issues with your ability to become and maintain a full erection although it could also be psychological connected to your deep desire to be cuck.
Making the assumption that your relationship with your wife remains strong in every other area outside of the bedroom and that you both have explored ways to maintain intimacy even though you no not have the ability to have traditional intercourse it is good that as a couple you can have such open and honest communication which each other about your respective desires and needs.
Open and honest communication when done respectfully is ideal within a marriage and if your relationship is strong and you have intimacy is those areas outside of intercourse than it was a positive move that you shared with your wife about your openness for her to approach the room-mate (flat mate), her very good friend about joining your relationship. Sounds positive that the considered it after talking it over with you for a few weeks. You mentioned that your wife was able to talk to J about your situation (I assume your inability to have traditional intercourse with her) and that he has agreed to enter into a relationship with her. As part of this NEW arrangement you have moved out of the marriage bed and into the spare bedroom, essentially providing a clear defined separation of sorts when it comes to the sexual side of the relationship you have with your wife. If I may ask, whose idea was it for you to move into the spare bedroom and was it before or after your wife spoke with J about your situation?
You mentioned that this past weekend your wife went out on two (2) dates with J and after coming back to your home that she share with J that they had sex in his room. As you described, you could clearly hear her moans each time and you could tell by those moans that she was enjoying sex with him much more then she has had with you.
Have you and your wife spoken about the overall (not just the sexual side) experience? Is this arrangement something that all three of you would like to continue with? This could easily become more of a Poly-V style relationship with a cuckold twist if you and your wife can continue to maintain a strongly connected marriage with some level of intimacy outside of the bedroom while she becomes intercourse exclusive with J.
Would be good to hear more of your situation and how everything turns out after this past weekend.
You situation is integrating, essential I understand that you have a room-mate (flat mate) of sorts that he (J) is now single as he and his girl friend have separated and she has moved out. You have indicated that your wife and J are already very good friends along with the fact that she finds him very handsome, sexy and she has a physical attraction to him.
As a medical student, you are fully aware that there could be a wide range of medical conditions which can cause issues with your ability to become and maintain a full erection although it could also be psychological connected to your deep desire to be cuck.
Making the assumption that your relationship with your wife remains strong in every other area outside of the bedroom and that you both have explored ways to maintain intimacy even though you no not have the ability to have traditional intercourse it is good that as a couple you can have such open and honest communication which each other about your respective desires and needs.
Open and honest communication when done respectfully is ideal within a marriage and if your relationship is strong and you have intimacy is those areas outside of intercourse than it was a positive move that you shared with your wife about your openness for her to approach the room-mate (flat mate), her very good friend about joining your relationship. Sounds positive that the considered it after talking it over with you for a few weeks. You mentioned that your wife was able to talk to J about your situation (I assume your inability to have traditional intercourse with her) and that he has agreed to enter into a relationship with her. As part of this NEW arrangement you have moved out of the marriage bed and into the spare bedroom, essentially providing a clear defined separation of sorts when it comes to the sexual side of the relationship you have with your wife. If I may ask, whose idea was it for you to move into the spare bedroom and was it before or after your wife spoke with J about your situation?
You mentioned that this past weekend your wife went out on two (2) dates with J and after coming back to your home that she share with J that they had sex in his room. As you described, you could clearly hear her moans each time and you could tell by those moans that she was enjoying sex with him much more then she has had with you.
Have you and your wife spoken about the overall (not just the sexual side) experience? Is this arrangement something that all three of you would like to continue with? This could easily become more of a Poly-V style relationship with a cuckold twist if you and your wife can continue to maintain a strongly connected marriage with some level of intimacy outside of the bedroom while she becomes intercourse exclusive with J.
Would be good to hear more of your situation and how everything turns out after this past weekend.
It first came up as the joke when I was unable to make love but my wife and I started liking the idea and it will give my wife privacy to do want she want and me to jerk off. Its kind of my punishment for not able to get my penis erect.
We have talked about having another guy to give sexual satisfaction to my wife for a long time. My wife told me she love me but she is tired of my small penis and premature ejaculation. And with the latest problem that I encountered it broke the dam and now she wants to enjoy sex.
She tell me she only love me and the relationship she have with J wont come between us. And even on weekend we spent the whole morning and afternoon together and did cooked together she brought me coffee etc. Its like our life style is same only difference is I sleep in different room.
I cant wait to hear them have sex in her room (our room). J's room is on other side of house so to hear what’s happening I have to be near his door. If they will have sex in our room I would be able to hear every thing.
Last few weeks I have been having similar dream I have been having dream about feminisation and in my dreams J would mix estrogen and progesterone in my food and coffee and feminise me without my knowledge and with me unable to fuck my wife he takes my place in bed with her.
And I love wearing my wife panties.
A timeless problem
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I doubt this problem will be out of date anytime soon. I am trying abother route.
I'm in the older age group and don't aim to accept that loss of libido and ED is a natural process and to be accepted without a fight
I am seeing a consultant this month about testosterone replacement in order to find a fix. OK, it may not be cheap but if it is effective then it's worth it to me.
I will make sure that I pass on to you all how this goes and how effective it turns out to be. After all - no harm in trying.
Custer Laststand said:
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I doubt this problem will be out of date anytime soon. I am trying abother route.
I'm in the older age group and don't aim to accept that loss of libido and ED is a natural process and to be accepted without a fight
I am seeing a consultant this month about testosterone replacement in order to find a fix. OK, it may not be cheap but if it is effective then it's worth it to me.
I will make sure that I pass on to you all how this goes and how effective it turns out to be. After all - no harm in trying.
SissyDoc,
Thank you for your reply with the answer to my question about whose idea it was for you to move into the spare room. It is good to know that you moving into the spare bedroom was a decision that you both made together. You may call it a form of punishment for not being able to get your penis erect, I would look at more as a gift of sorts, you are providing her a greater level of privacy and respect while you both agree that you cannot satisfy her sexually in the more traditional way of intercourse. That is not to say that you could not satisfy her in other way, such as sexual intimacy which does not include intercourse. You and your wife will indeed need to find ways to develop your bond, connection and intimacy in the absence of the intercourse as you both travel down this path together. So yes I would agree with you that by you agreeing to move into the spare bedroom that it does allow for your wife to have a great level of privacy in her pursuit of mutually agreed upon sexual companionship.
As you have mentioned, you and your wife have spoken in length about having another guy give her the sexual satisfaction that your wife has been missing within your marriage. It would seem that you two have open and honest communication which is the foundation for a solid marriage and that you both can see what and now explore your complimentary desires to achieve the sexual satisfaction that each of you need. As you have said, the most recent issue as allowed for your wife to pursue options for her sexual enjoyment.
Sounds as if J and your wife have truly enjoyed themselves and this could become a much more regular arrangement. With consideration of the J becoming your wife’s primary sexual partner (potentially exclusive sexual partner) and with consideration that you all three live in the same residence, has there been any indication that the three of you will sit down to discuss the arrangement moving forward?
As to your dreams/desires about feminization, does your wife know of this fantasy of yours?
Thank you for your reply with the answer to my question about whose idea it was for you to move into the spare room. It is good to know that you moving into the spare bedroom was a decision that you both made together. You may call it a form of punishment for not being able to get your penis erect, I would look at more as a gift of sorts, you are providing her a greater level of privacy and respect while you both agree that you cannot satisfy her sexually in the more traditional way of intercourse. That is not to say that you could not satisfy her in other way, such as sexual intimacy which does not include intercourse. You and your wife will indeed need to find ways to develop your bond, connection and intimacy in the absence of the intercourse as you both travel down this path together. So yes I would agree with you that by you agreeing to move into the spare bedroom that it does allow for your wife to have a great level of privacy in her pursuit of mutually agreed upon sexual companionship.
As you have mentioned, you and your wife have spoken in length about having another guy give her the sexual satisfaction that your wife has been missing within your marriage. It would seem that you two have open and honest communication which is the foundation for a solid marriage and that you both can see what and now explore your complimentary desires to achieve the sexual satisfaction that each of you need. As you have said, the most recent issue as allowed for your wife to pursue options for her sexual enjoyment.
Sounds as if J and your wife have truly enjoyed themselves and this could become a much more regular arrangement. With consideration of the J becoming your wife’s primary sexual partner (potentially exclusive sexual partner) and with consideration that you all three live in the same residence, has there been any indication that the three of you will sit down to discuss the arrangement moving forward?
As to your dreams/desires about feminization, does your wife know of this fantasy of yours?
SquirmingSub said:
she knows about it but we have not talked about it much with her but she knows that i want to be treated as sissy and like wearing panties, shaving my body and would love to get faminineebody. she have many times made me cum in her mouth by fingering my ass.
Sissydoctor said:
Congratulations, Sissydoctor, for persuading such a desirable woman to accept you as her cuckold-to-be… or, her cuckold-in-waiting, one might say.
Sissydoctor said:
Excellent! Early-on, your wife let you know who her lover is likely to be, with whom she will make you her cuckold. It’s very desirable that she has been open with you about this.
Sissydoctor said:
All totally appropriate for a cuckold-in-waiting, whose wife is flirting with and preparing the man who will soon become her lover…
Sissydoctor said:
This is characteristic of your role in your wife’s marriage as her cuckold-in-waiting, so you should not worry about it. She will soon solve this problem for both of you.
Sissydoctor said:
A reasonable request, certainly…
Sissydoctor said:
Your wife is on the right track. A woman whose husband has a small penis, can’t get it up, and/or ejaculates prematurely (as you do) should always humiliate him extensively by belittling his teeny-weeny and comparing him unfavorably to a former boyfriend or lover who is better-endowed (as your wife does). So, your wife also has you on the right track.
Sissydoctor said:
Congratulations for stepping forward and doing the right thing…
Sissydoctor said:
Finally, your wife… recognizing it was hardly likely J would not agree… also recognized, finally, her natural role as your cuckoldress…
Sissydoctor said:
Your move was appropriate. And, your wife closed the deal quickly…
Sissydoctor said:
All totally appropriate. And, at last you demonstrated your acceptance of your role as your wife’s self-acknowledged cuckold…
Sissydoctor said:
You might consider installing a baby monitor in your wife’s marital boudoir, with the other end in your small bedroom. That is, a one-way intercom designed to enable parents to hear their infant although the infant is in a separate room. Then… with the volume suitably turned up… you would clearly be able to hear your wife orgasming loudly, and telling J how much more satisfying he is than you, and J grunting whenever he ejaculates in your wife’s married pussy, and the sweet nothings he whispers in her ear.
Sissydoctor said:
Your dreams about feminization appear to be a solution of your problem. Your feminization should be carried out by your wife, however, not her lover. Since your wife, like you, is a medical student, she will be best able to understand the process and carry it out effectively (and safely).
After bring this up with your wife — who already has you on your way, I gather, since she has pantied you — and coming to agreement with her about it, I suggest introducing her to:
Femme Your Hubby — Installment # 1:
http://adult.hypnoticwishes.com/gallery/femme-your-hubby1.php
which is one of the better web sites on this process.
If you become your wife’s fully-feminized submissive sissy cuckold — while retaining your penis, for continued humiliation by your wife and her lover(s), and to remind you of your status in your wife’s marriage — that’s unlikely to adversely affect your future career as a medical doctor (IMO). I suggest this because there is, as I understand it, significant demand for “kink doctors” — those who understand and treat patients with out-of-the-ordinary sexual proclivities.
SissyDoc,
It is always good to be able to share your desires with your wife. You two have taken the big step with your wife approaching and enjoying your room-mate (flat-mate) “J”, have you and your wife spoken openly since the weekend about how everything went along with what the future may look like? Will “J” be her somewhat exclusive sexual partner for the future or does she plan to see out others? What is your connection, friendship, relationship like with “J” before and after he has been with your wife?
Custer provided you with some positive input and recommendations. You will find that he is full of positive advice and will be helpful with providing links to additional resources were applicable.
Looking forward to your next update.
It is always good to be able to share your desires with your wife. You two have taken the big step with your wife approaching and enjoying your room-mate (flat-mate) “J”, have you and your wife spoken openly since the weekend about how everything went along with what the future may look like? Will “J” be her somewhat exclusive sexual partner for the future or does she plan to see out others? What is your connection, friendship, relationship like with “J” before and after he has been with your wife?
Custer provided you with some positive input and recommendations. You will find that he is full of positive advice and will be helpful with providing links to additional resources were applicable.
Looking forward to your next update.
