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A recent incident involving my wife

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  • #121
I'm sure you've considered this but have you really come to terms with the idea that he will be taking over all aspects of her life. Not just how she dresses, who she associates with, but also who she fucks. It is essentially a forgone conclusion that he will begin having sex with her, and more than likely she will no longer be interested (or permitted) to have sex with you. I'd wager that the point of no return has already occurred in the sense that her view of your has shifted and she will no long ever view you as an ideal sexual mate.

My personal experience on the topic is that even when I attempt to be commanding and dominant, my wife responds with a sarcastic remark or a "ha" via text. In bed she will suggest we "snuggle" instead. This has gotten more and more frequent and is pretty much the norm now. Her boyfriend is very jealous and has basically ordered her to never have sex with me. Pretty much every night after we go to bed and she rejects me, I end up jerking off next to her while she sleeps - thinking about her fucking other men. It has gotten to the point that I rarely am able to cum without imagining her being fucked by others.
 
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  • #122
Yea I agree and he told me clearly a month ago that this will happen and I agreed to him. I doubt she ever considered my as a deserving mate for her

Hakkim asked me to sleep in a different bedroom last night as well. He told me that she will sleep naked and it’s not a good idea for me to be on that same bed.

After finishing dinner last night she went to the bedroom. She closed the door (not sure if it was locked or not). As instructed, I didn’t disturb her. Hakkim and I are meeting at 1pm today
 
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  • #123
One thing he told me clearly in the past that he believes I am at least partially (if not fully) the reason how she has been behaving. She doesn’t consider my worth enough. As per him, she is very different when three of us together and when he is alone with her

that’s main reason he wants her to have time and space from me

Honestly I cannot disagree with him
 
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  • #124
Is she still locking you out of the bedroom? If not, has she told you why she did? So what's next?
 
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I was at home today working in my living room. I saw Becky coming out wearing a very sexy but elegant light yellow color wrap around skirt, clearly showing all her curves. It was satin..ish material clinging nicely to her buttocks and thighs. It wasn’t short but full length but very sexy. On top she was wearing a halter top showing her cleavage, upper back open and was about six inch above the skirt showing her belly button

This is a big big change from anything she wore before and I was sure she was heading to her gf’s party or something like that. However, when asked she told me she is doing to nearby grocery store. Wow!!

I chatted with Hakkim 4 days ago (will share more details later on my chat) but one of the things he has told her to dress well and go alone for shopping. His exact words “her dress is connected with her mind”, no more pjs, shorts or even jeans. I had a long chat with him and I need time to type here, it’s very inspiring
 
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MKerr said:
I was at home today working in my living room. I saw Becky coming out wearing a very sexy but elegant light yellow color wrap around skirt, clearly showing all her curves. It was satin..ish material clinging nicely to her buttocks and thighs. It wasn’t short but full length but very sexy. On top she was wearing a halter top showing her cleavage, upper back open and was about six inch above the skirt showing her belly button

This is a big big change from anything she wore before and I was sure she was heading to her gf’s party or something like that. However, when asked she told me she is doing to nearby grocery store. Wow!!

I chatted with Hakkim 4 days ago (will share more details later on my chat) but one of the things he has told her to dress well and go alone for shopping. His exact words “her dress is connected with her mind”, no more pjs, shorts or even jeans. I had a long chat with him and I need time to type here, it’s very inspiring
Glad to hear some good news
 
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MKerr said:
I was at home today working in my living room. I saw Becky coming out wearing a very sexy but elegant light yellow color wrap around skirt, clearly showing all her curves. It was satin..ish material clinging nicely to her buttocks and thighs. It wasn’t short but full length but very sexy. On top she was wearing a halter top showing her cleavage, upper back open and was about six inch above the skirt showing her belly button

This is a big big change from anything she wore before and I was sure she was heading to her gf’s party or something like that. However, when asked she told me she is doing to nearby grocery store. Wow!!

I chatted with Hakkim 4 days ago (will share more details later on my chat) but one of the things he has told her to dress well and go alone for shopping. His exact words “her dress is connected with her mind”, no more pjs, shorts or even jeans. I had a long chat with him and I need time to type here, it’s very inspiring
So what about the nights where she had the bedroom door locked, or when you slept in the guest room? You two never discussed any of it? It's sounds like you guys are in a very weird relationship where you almost never have time to talk to each other, and when something out of the ordinary occurs, no one bothers to talk to the other about it.

I had been following this story from the beginning and loving every moment of it, but honestly, lately I'm starting to suspect that either it's made up, or you've withheld so much info making it appear that there are a lot of chinks in the armour.
 
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  • #128
Alright MKerr you need to sit down and fill out those details, lol. You know we're all impatient in here.
 
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  • #129
What all do you want to know?
 
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MKerr said:
What all do you want to know?
Details. I get very disappointed at porn videos. They start out naked in bed. I want to see the warm up. I want to see the touching, the rubbing, the stripping. You said you need to take time to sit and type it out.
 
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Agreed - everything. But, here are some specifics to help get you started...

  • What has your relationship been like recently with her? Any changes in how she is addressing or speaking to you? Has she brought him up at all? Mentioned they've been talking behind your back?
  • What's the status of your bedroom privileges? Are you officially living in the guest room now? Has there been any mention of it? If not, why do you think she hasn't at least offered you an explanation? Is it possible he explained to her already that you're aware and of no concern?
  • All the details regarding the long chat you had with him
  • More pictures of her
 
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  • #133
Oh come on man, we're on pins and needles here. You said your chat with him was a week ago. Please update!
 
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  • #134
I think that at this point, while the story fascinated and engaged us all, it's all but certain that it's a work of fiction. Too many holes in the story, not a single picture of his wife was shared, not answering vital questions, unexplainable too much time elapsing between events, ...

I'll give you this much, it would make for a wonderful book of erotic fiction. You just need to work on some of the details. I for one, would be more than happy to buy it and read it cover to cover.

I'm not upset that this is over. I enjoyed following the story progress. I'm just a bit disappointed by the ending. I'll pretend it's a typical European film/book where it's left up to the viewer/reader to make up his own ending.

Cheers!
 
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I am sorry if you all think this is all made up or fictional. I can’t change your thought process
 
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I genuinely didn’t find time to type here with my recent travel
 
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I will try now with a series of updates

I met Hakkim about a week ago, this was after we had 45 min long chat. He asked me details about Becky. I told him everything and he said I shouldn’t worry or be surprised. There is no risk to my marriage, I may not get a lot of time with her but whatever time I will get will be of high quality. However, he still told me that I am part of the problem, along with her best friend and her cousin. I told him that she hasn’t spoken with her friend for some time now (don’t know about her cousin) and he told me that he knows. His actually words were “Rebecca tells me everything and I know I have trust in her so I believe what she says”
 
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MKerr said:
I will try now with a series of updates

I met Hakkim about a week ago, this was after we had 45 min long chat. He asked me details about Becky. I told him everything and he said I shouldn’t worry or be surprised. There is no risk to my marriage, I may not get a lot of time with her but whatever time I will get will be of high quality. However, he still told me that I am part of the problem, along with her best friend and her cousin. I told him that she hasn’t spoken with her friend for some time now (don’t know about her cousin) and he told me that he knows. His actually words were “Rebecca tells me everything and I know I have trust in her so I believe what she says”

Thanks for the update. Glad to see they're still coming!

Totally understand that you have other priorities and coming here + writing isn't always the most important thing on your list. Looking forward to hearing the rest.
 
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  • #139
alextina said:
So what about the nights where she had the bedroom door locked, or when you slept in the guest room? You two never discussed any of it? It's sounds like you guys are in a very weird relationship where you almost never have time to talk to each other, and when something out of the ordinary occurs, no one bothers to talk to the other about it.

I had been following this story from the beginning and loving every moment of it, but honestly, lately I'm starting to suspect that either it's made up, or you've withheld so much info making it appear that there are a lot of chinks in the armour.
i agree with you, its not making since 2me,
 
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I'm one of those "give him the benefit of the doubt" until it gets ridiculous kinda guys. If it IS a story it's a good one so far. I like stories, lol. I'll keep reading.
 
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