I will try now with a series of updates
I met Hakkim about a week ago, this was after we had 45 min long chat. He asked me details about Becky. I told him everything and he said I shouldn’t worry or be surprised. There is no risk to my marriage, I may not get a lot of time with her but whatever time I will get will be of high quality. However, he still told me that I am part of the problem, along with her best friend and her cousin. I told him that she hasn’t spoken with her friend for some time now (don’t know about her cousin) and he told me that he knows. His actually words were “Rebecca tells me everything and I know I have trust in her so I believe what she says”