Leon BBC said:Everything in your post is horseshit.
You could benefit from talking to a marriage councillor about the problems they have to deal with every week. Adultery is a symptom of faults in a marriage, and the solution is to re-negotiate what each spouse wants from this moment onwards to REPAIR THE MARRIAGE and rebuild love stronger than ever - all humans are with sin in some form or other. (casting the first stone).
Divorce is running away like a kid, because your pride has been damaged.
Unconditional love ALWAYS FORGIVES. You should never marry until you have considered how you would deal with adultery; and you truly love your fiance (not just think you do). You can't turn off real love like a light switch.
If your wife is fucked by other guys, it just proves that other guys think you are married to a trophy wife.
So if you rush for the Divorce card, they can HAVE HER with your blessing..........THEY WIN and YOU LOSE, and your life goes into a tail spin for many years, until you eventually find someone else to replace her....... better, YOU HOPE.