Concerned,
Concerned said:
This morning Lisa brought up the feel of silk on bare skin. She said how wonderful it feels on her bare pussy and asked if I would like to try a pair of her panties on my now-bare-and-smooth pubes. I said, "maybe later." Any suggestions?
Your wife was telling you she'd like you to begin wearing panties. "Maybe later," which almost certainly displeased her, was not an optimal response.
Regarding your reply to Mybuttplug (what an odd screen name; it's hard to get used to...):
Concerned said:
Thank you [Mybuttplug]. With your encouragement, I will tell my wife I would like to see how her silk panties feel. I'm sure she will let me try them on.
That's better — it sounds like you're moving in the right direction.
Re.:
Concerned said:
Conversations with my wife never go anything like I plan. It's not just that it happens once in a while, it's every time.
Sounds like further confirmation of the observation that you can plan what you're going to say to your wife, but not what your wife will say to you...
Concerned said:
I told her I would like to see how her silk panties feel on my smooth skin. She said that she was not going to have me try panties for 5 minutes then reject wearing them. First, the trial of my wearing panties will have to be for a full week; second, I will have to ask with more passion.
Since your wife's first attempt to gently let you know what she wanted did not yield her desired response, she took her cuckold by his horns and told you what she wanted in a way you'd hardly be likely to misinterpret…
Concerned said:
Further, she will cut me off until I ask.
Your wife is not the first woman to provide her man with a little extra motivation in this way...
Concerned said:
I will be required to lick her pussy, but she will not allow my cock to penetrate her in any way. That means she will not suck my cock. She also said she will not give me hand jobs.
You should be thankful your wife wants and expects you to be her cuntsucker. As her cuckold and soon-to-be pantyboy, I suggest offering to service her in that way ("May I pleasure you with my tongue, mistress?") whenever you suspect even slightly she may want that, and certainly whenever she tells you to do so.
Concerned said:
I was more than a little annoyed and stormed off.
Oh, oh... not good.
Concerned said:
Any suggestions as to what I should do now? I'm thinking I'll have to give in. She'll be getting all the sex she wants from Tony, and I'll be getting none unless I beg her to wear panties.
You have it right. You might try suggesting to your wife she relax in her easy chair because you would like to apologize. Then, bow down before her and kiss her feet while you apologize profusely and ask her to forgive you for "storming off" inappropriately instead of saying “Yes, ma’am.” Then (regardless of whether she accepts your apology) ask her if she would like you to pleasure her with your tongue. If she says "Yes, do so," kiss and lick your way up her legs and inner thighs then, finally, suck, lick and kiss her cunt with passionate intensity until she orgasms. Hopefully she will then forgive you. That would be a good time to beg her to allow you to wear panties in recognition of your new status in her marriage.
If your wife agrees to allow you to wear (or orders you to wear) panties in response to your passionate begging, you might mention to her that you would find it very humiliating to have to go to a lingerie store and buy your own — so, would she be willing to buy your panties for you...? This would have the advantage of ensuring you would be wearing the kinds of panties she likes best on you (you could point out)...
Concerned said:
She DID also say that she is not interested in feminizing me further...
No, no... of course not.
Concerned said:
...but, she has changed her mind on other things so she may decide to go further.
Your apparent “anything’s possible” view of this is probably pragmatic.
Concerned said:
I think rather than Jill influencing Lisa, some of the female supremacy literature Lisa is reading is influencing her.
Hm… well… in that case, your wife may find
I play & He waits
of interest (if she hasn’t read it already).
—Custer