We met him last night. Originally she wanted drinks or coffee. I asked where she wanted to go, she didn't care, but said if they have drinks available she'll have one. so I picked Ruby Tuesday, they have both.
She dressed in a very nice a FER sweater that brightened and framed her beautiful face. Had her hair done earlier in the day, pre-scheduled.
We were running a few minutes late, she is very time challenged, and offered to called him and tell him, I was pleased, it shows her engagement. She dialed then handed me the phone, URGH.
Anyway we meet and get a table, she orders coffee, me a Coke, he a Sprite. We talk & talk, She is very engaged and engaging, I haven't seen her like this in ages, I sense "she's on the make". But I don't have a sense of whether he's a go or no-go.
About 30 minutes is he picks up the menu, she follows suit. I wonder is she following his lead or is she being polite. I ask here if she is ready to eat, she grunts to the affirmative, I ask "appetizer now dinner later or dinner now". She says she is having app as dinner. OK, so I guess it's dinner time with him, unexpected.
We eat and chat more. I excuse myself to hit the head, giving them time to be alone. A minutes after I return she does likewise. He and I chat a few minutes alone, I told him I appreciate him showing up as I hear many guys flake out, that this has been a long journey getting here. He says he understands as this isn't his 1st time. She returns and reminds me about a bogus appointment at home and he hits the head as well. She and I barely have a moment alone, I sense this is a 'no-go', the checks are delivered, we pay and say our goodbyes.
On the way home, she said she was uncomfortable, either couldn't or wouldn't say why. He's not the guy for her, he was pleasant enough, but she said couldn't listen to any more of his 'dribble', that it became a painful experience. There wasn't any 'connection'. That he asked if this was a new experience for her, she told him yes and she returned the question, he said 10 years. She said this turned her off.
I said "OK, can win them all". I didn't push to get back to ads. I figured I'd let it simmer a day and do that tonight.
Here's a silly observation. If I were asked what type of guy she would want, I don't think I could honestly answer. She has always said she likes fat dicks, some of the ads we saw did have guys fitting that description, but she showed no interest, or didn't want me to know she actually had an interest. However, if I had to describe a type. It would be me, JUST NOT ME!