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Of course I'll obey her. She's the head of the household and by being faithful to her maybe I can prove myself to be a good husband and she'll accept me once again.
As for the other people at the dinner party, maybe they just assumed I couldn't make it and Prof M was kind enough to accompany my wife. And maybe nit all of them know me.
My wife was thoughtful and brought a serving of leftover soup home for me. The only stipulation was that I email my thanks to the hostess.
As for the other people at the dinner party, maybe they just assumed I couldn't make it and Prof M was kind enough to accompany my wife. And maybe nit all of them know me.
My wife was thoughtful and brought a serving of leftover soup home for me. The only stipulation was that I email my thanks to the hostess.
cheggers said:
Very good. You view her in the right way...
cheggers said:
This has a somewhat hypothetical sound about it, but hey... there's nothing wrong with hoping.
cheggers said:
Yes, that's possible. Maybe your boss-wife helped them along with this assumption by telling them that...
cheggers said:
And your boss-wife's lover may, as you suggest, have been viewed as being kind to her in a reasonable sort of way...
cheggers said:
That's probably true...
cheggers said:
I would certainly hope you did that... making it clear you are your boss-wife's husband and expressing your regrets she was unable to take you to the party.
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Thanks. When I clicked on your link a box came up (along with a bunch of other junk) saying I could now "control your computer." I have no interest in that.
Also, your link fucked up my computer. I had to turn it off then turn it on again and reboot.
And, your apparent phone area code is fake. There is no such area code.
Last night I gave her a really good footrub, and she said I would be rewarded. And this is kind of weird, but I started to take some pleasure from her feet during the rub. While I rubbed one foot she allowed me to have some special touching with her other foot.
She surprised me and offered me intercourse. I jumped at the opportunity but immediately started to go soft when I was no longer at her feet. I had difficulty putting the condom on, and by the time it was time to penetrate her I couldn't. I tried but it just wasn't going to happen. Aside from laughing when I struggled with the condom, she was very loving. She said, "See? You don't have to be hard. You gave me a wonderful footrub."
In other words, I scored some points!
She's gone for the evening. Something about a faculty meeting.
She surprised me and offered me intercourse. I jumped at the opportunity but immediately started to go soft when I was no longer at her feet. I had difficulty putting the condom on, and by the time it was time to penetrate her I couldn't. I tried but it just wasn't going to happen. Aside from laughing when I struggled with the condom, she was very loving. She said, "See? You don't have to be hard. You gave me a wonderful footrub."
In other words, I scored some points!
She's gone for the evening. Something about a faculty meeting.
cheggers said:
Ah... once again you demonstrated to your boss-wife that you are turned on by kneeling at her feet and massaging her feet, but when she "offered you intercourse" you wilted in a state of anxiety. That's OK. It just means you're a foot man.
cheggers said:
Indeed you did. You might consider scoring even more points with your boss-wife by, whenever she departs, bowing down before her and kissing her shoes (/boots). And, whenever she returns home, by bowing down before her and kissing her shoes (/boots).
Or, if you depart but she's home, bowing down before her and kissing her feet just before you leave and also first thing when you return (if your boss-wife is at home). You should, of course, ask her permission before doing this the first time, but — if she says yes — she'll almost certainly be pleased with you if you then do it habitually.
cheggers said:She's gone for the evening. Something about a faculty meeting.
Faculty meetings are never held after normal working hours.
So, next time you might consider saying to your boss-wife, respectfully, something like: "Ma'am, I know there are no after-hours faculty meetings. I would feel more respected if you would simply tell me you're going to meet your lover Professor M." Then, regardless of how she replies, wish her an enjoyable evening — preferably after kissing her feet.
Custer Laststand said:
Really? She has them pretty often. Hmmm.....
Custer Laststand said:
Maybe I could do it a little more indirectly? Like I could tell her that secrecy would hurt me more than infidelity, or how in past relationships I felt more betrayed by secrecy than the actual cheating that went on. Maybe that would be o.k.?
Last night she wanted a back rub after her footrub. She fantasized about having a personal assistant who would be available 24/7 to pamper her. I offered my services (again!) and asked her who would be her regular husband if I were "demoted." She said I wouldn't be able to handle either one and left it at that.
So you see, I am trying!
cheggers said:
Sounds like you'll know more about what your wife is doing with her lover if you keep one eye on the college's schedule on their web site. I wonder why she considers it necessary to lie to you, and does so repeatedly...
Will your wife be teaching there spring semester as well... i.e., does she have a more-or-less long-term faculty position there?
This afternoon I had an appointment and left work at lunch time. I stopped at home before I went to the appointment.
She was pulling into the driveway just as I drove up to the house. I was happy to see her. She seemed bothered by my presence. First thing she did when we got in the house was ask why I was there. Second thing she did was walk off to make a phone call. Third thing she did was get back on the phone as I was leaving a few minutes later.
One thing is clear: she no longer sees me as a sexual being. She loves me, is affectionate toward me, likes me. But for a long time the kisses were a peck on the cheek, and now the hugs are a pat on the back.
She was pulling into the driveway just as I drove up to the house. I was happy to see her. She seemed bothered by my presence. First thing she did when we got in the house was ask why I was there. Second thing she did was walk off to make a phone call. Third thing she did was get back on the phone as I was leaving a few minutes later.
One thing is clear: she no longer sees me as a sexual being. She loves me, is affectionate toward me, likes me. But for a long time the kisses were a peck on the cheek, and now the hugs are a pat on the back.
And just one more update:
One of my wife's friends is a mature school teacher who is now an unmarried mom to a biracial child. I know it's a porn cliche, but it's true in this case.
My wife, who rarely discusses these things with me, actually said to me, "I'll have to ask her where she met him."
One of my wife's friends is a mature school teacher who is now an unmarried mom to a biracial child. I know it's a porn cliche, but it's true in this case.
My wife, who rarely discusses these things with me, actually said to me, "I'll have to ask her where she met him."
cheggers said:
Cool... especially if your boss-wife's friend gave birth to her biracial child. It's important for teachers to set socially avant-garde examples for the rest of us.
cheggers said:
It's very positive that your boss-wife said that. Perhaps, in the foreseeable future, she will become pregnant and have a baby you can love, cherish, and care for while she is out dating and fucking her lover(s) — a baby who will, in addition, confirm to the broader society your role as her submissive cuckold.
It sounds like your wife's teacher friend gave birth to her biracial infant as opposed to adopting her or him. If so, good for her!
Oh, she absolutely did give birth to the child. I've met the father.
I keep forgetting to refer to my wife as my boss-wife.
My boss-wife expressed her frustrations with me yesterday. We were out with other people and she had made a couple jokes at my expense, calling into question my intellect, and it was all a big joke until I (mildly) defended myself. Then she got angry at my attitude and explained that she's tired of having to do all the "thinking work" at our house. I was very upset for the rest of the evening because I knew she was right. I didn't know what to do about it so I threw myself into my chores and at bedtime I gave her a foot rub, which probably pushed me even lower in her estimation of me.
I keep forgetting to refer to my wife as my boss-wife.
My boss-wife expressed her frustrations with me yesterday. We were out with other people and she had made a couple jokes at my expense, calling into question my intellect, and it was all a big joke until I (mildly) defended myself. Then she got angry at my attitude and explained that she's tired of having to do all the "thinking work" at our house. I was very upset for the rest of the evening because I knew she was right. I didn't know what to do about it so I threw myself into my chores and at bedtime I gave her a foot rub, which probably pushed me even lower in her estimation of me.
She just left for the evening. She's wearing a knit top with a very low V-neck. Usually she tries to be more modest by wearing something underneath. My eyes were instantly drawn to her cleavage. She stopped and gave me a mean look and said, "What? What are you looking at?" "Nothing," I quietly replied. Then she told me how to fix dinner, even though she probably won't eat any of it.
One of my fantasies is to be visiting her family, and while I've been put to work somewhere in the house, I hear one of her aunts call to her cheerfully, "Susie! You're date is here!" and by the time I get to the door she's gone.
About as close as I've come in real life is when my Mother-in-law tells my boss-wife about ex's who are trying to get in touch with her, and gives her their phone numbers.
One of my fantasies is to be visiting her family, and while I've been put to work somewhere in the house, I hear one of her aunts call to her cheerfully, "Susie! You're date is here!" and by the time I get to the door she's gone.
About as close as I've come in real life is when my Mother-in-law tells my boss-wife about ex's who are trying to get in touch with her, and gives her their phone numbers.
cheggers said:
Good.
cheggers said:
Not good. Speaking of which, when you and your boss-wife are alone together you should routinely address her in ways denoting substantial respect, such as, for instance, "Ma'am" (as in "Yes Ma'am"), or "Ms. [her first name]," or "Madam [her first name]," or "Mistress," or "Goddess."
You could minimize the possibility of a hostile response (at first) by saying something like, "I hope you don't mind if I address you as "Ma'am" and always respond to what you tell me to do with "Yes Ma'am." You could then use that as a lead-in to other possibilities, per the above.
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cheggers said:
No, no... you should view yourself as giving pleasure to your boss-wife by massaging and otherwise being attentive to her feet.
Have you begun pleasing your boss-wife further (while secretly increasing your own sexual satisfaction) by become gradually more attentive to her feet? For instance, by kissing and licking her feet while giving her foot massages, and sucking her big toes?
A woman (in a site elsewhere) once commented that having a man suck her big toe is about as close as a woman can come to getting a blow job from him. If your wife is critical of your increased attention to her feet, you might mention this to her (with all due respect, of course)...
Custer Laststand said:
As a matter of fact, I do sometimes refer to her as Ma'am. She said she likes it.
Custer Laststand said:
I have done it, but she's not really into it. I understand the blow job comparison. One time I as bouncing my head up and down on her big toe just like a bj when she made me cum with her other foot. A couple times she held her toes to my mouth after I climaxed on them, but I failed her expectations and wasn't able to clean her properly.
cheggers said:
Good... you found something that pleases your boss-wife. Keep up your good work addressing her in such ways.
Ma'am is, of course, an abbreviation for Madam, so addressing your boss-wife from time-to-time as "Madam [her first name]" might also please her. You might also try "Mistress" alternating occasionally with "Mistress [her first name]" to see if that pleases her as well. (It may be advantageous to address her respectfully in ways that don't become repetitious).
cheggers said:
Maybe your boss-wife would have considered it more pleasing if you had gently sucked her big toe, not bouncing your head up and down but rather massaging it sensuously with your tongue as you sucked...
cheggers said:
That was very kind of your boss-wife...
cheggers said:
Hm... it seem hard to know why your boss-wife may have been displeased without more detail. But, obviously she has good insight into your fetish for her feet. That's a plus.
You might consider asking (respectfully, of course) your boss-wife if, in the future when she feels you should be rewarded for good performance on your housework (or for other reasons), she would consider allowing you to take off your shoes, socks and pants (perhaps even all of your clothing) and then — while she relaxes, fully dressed in her easy chair, sipping her drink of choice (perhaps a glass of wine you have served her) — allow you to kneel before her and masturbate, finally holding out her cupped hand when you cum (so you cum in her hand), then feeding you your cum requiring you to lick up and swallow all of it.
Alternatively, at the end of this scene your boss-wife could require you to cum on her feet (her boots or pumps or bare feet, her choice), then lick up and swallow your cum from her feet. Then, after you've licked up and swallowed your cum, she could require you to continue kissing, licking and massaging her bare feet (after gently removing her boots or pumps) until she tells you to stop.
Either "reward strategy" would enable your boss-wife to reward you without any effort on her part, which she considers highly desirable (as you've said). Indeed, rewards of this nature, in addition to enabling you to orgasm, would be pleasurable for your boss-wife as well, because she could sit in her easy chair sipping (e.g.) her glass of wine, amusing herself watching you masturbate on your knees before her, while you do all the work of bringing yourself to orgasm.
