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About wether you should cheat on him or not
I understand that you want to go black so much, as a husband who fanatsizes about seeing his wife go black, i can tell you one thing even as a husband who wants this if i found my wife cheat on me i would never forgive her, if a couple gets into something like this i feel that the only way this can work for everyone is if its done together and when you let a black man fuck you, you do it to please your husband indirectly by letting him see you have a black man. As a husband its about loving his wife by letting her have a black man who can satisfy her. I feel the basis is deep trust and love between husband and wife, in effect its about using this lifestyle to grown sexually together and please each other sexually and love each other more. So please do not cheat if you have a good marriage dont do something to spoil it for the future...maybe your husband will slowly come around and begin to enjoy the lifestyle, he is a very lucky husband to have a wife who has such an open mind and would like to experiment with BBC lifestyle but nothing is more important then the love between you and him. Till then there is fantasizing and erotic chating online that many wives are into.
I understand that you want to go black so much, as a husband who fanatsizes about seeing his wife go black, i can tell you one thing even as a husband who wants this if i found my wife cheat on me i would never forgive her, if a couple gets into something like this i feel that the only way this can work for everyone is if its done together and when you let a black man fuck you, you do it to please your husband indirectly by letting him see you have a black man. As a husband its about loving his wife by letting her have a black man who can satisfy her. I feel the basis is deep trust and love between husband and wife, in effect its about using this lifestyle to grown sexually together and please each other sexually and love each other more. So please do not cheat if you have a good marriage dont do something to spoil it for the future...maybe your husband will slowly come around and begin to enjoy the lifestyle, he is a very lucky husband to have a wife who has such an open mind and would like to experiment with BBC lifestyle but nothing is more important then the love between you and him. Till then there is fantasizing and erotic chating online that many wives are into.
Jenwife, you hve already made the decision to find a black lover to enjoy long term. I feel it in your words and in the way you pick out which photo to post.
Your husband now knows your fantasy - and that you want to live your fantssy, so let it "sink" into his mind over a fw months, and occassionally mention how you are wanting it more and more.
And ask him if about his secret fantasies as you have told him yours. Build his fantasy over several weeks or months by talking about it a lot - and suggest that if he lets you have your fantasy, then you will help him have his.
Talk to him about how much you want to stay married to him, but the curioisty to be with a black man has become something you think about a lot.
And if he enjoys himself with another woman, then it will help you to enjoy being with anothe man - as both of you are equal and can swap notes on how each other's date went.
Most times, it is better not to encourage a husband to fuck another women, but it might be the only way your husband can handle your situation. Once he has slipped his penis into another female and ejaculated, he will realise how lucky he is to have a wife like you who is willing to share.
Think of extra-marital sex as a gift you both give each other, as long as it is with someone who is healthy and free from STD nasties. Your husband needs to feel your love, and also your desire to give him the gift of kissing another woman's pussy slit. You are trying to talk him into a fling with another woman rather than trying to beg for your fantasy to get fuel. Tease him about what it might be like for him in bed with another female and how contented he will feel afterwards.
Once he has fucked another female with your permission and encouragement, you will be able to get all the big cock that is on offer to your heart's content.
Pushing him into bed might be a lot easier than you trying to get permision for your own needs.
Be patient and just keep building up the fantasy for him to be with another woman; and you might like to watch him do it if he doesn't mind you being there.
Your husband now knows your fantasy - and that you want to live your fantssy, so let it "sink" into his mind over a fw months, and occassionally mention how you are wanting it more and more.
And ask him if about his secret fantasies as you have told him yours. Build his fantasy over several weeks or months by talking about it a lot - and suggest that if he lets you have your fantasy, then you will help him have his.
Talk to him about how much you want to stay married to him, but the curioisty to be with a black man has become something you think about a lot.
And if he enjoys himself with another woman, then it will help you to enjoy being with anothe man - as both of you are equal and can swap notes on how each other's date went.
Most times, it is better not to encourage a husband to fuck another women, but it might be the only way your husband can handle your situation. Once he has slipped his penis into another female and ejaculated, he will realise how lucky he is to have a wife like you who is willing to share.
Think of extra-marital sex as a gift you both give each other, as long as it is with someone who is healthy and free from STD nasties. Your husband needs to feel your love, and also your desire to give him the gift of kissing another woman's pussy slit. You are trying to talk him into a fling with another woman rather than trying to beg for your fantasy to get fuel. Tease him about what it might be like for him in bed with another female and how contented he will feel afterwards.
Once he has fucked another female with your permission and encouragement, you will be able to get all the big cock that is on offer to your heart's content.
Pushing him into bed might be a lot easier than you trying to get permision for your own needs.
Be patient and just keep building up the fantasy for him to be with another woman; and you might like to watch him do it if he doesn't mind you being there.
Ecstasy...
Another pic with my 1st ever toy...It feels so good to feel myself filled...by black...
Josetta, thank you for the heartfelt advice. I may have to try your advice. Its hard for me to think about my husband with another woman, but if that truly is the way to fulfill my desires...god...I just ache for it...
Another pic with my 1st ever toy...It feels so good to feel myself filled...by black...
Josetta, thank you for the heartfelt advice. I may have to try your advice. Its hard for me to think about my husband with another woman, but if that truly is the way to fulfill my desires...god...I just ache for it...
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